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Ninfa, 53
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

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I love to read, take walks, long drives, going to the movies, spending time with friends and family.My children are getting older and having lives of their own so now it is me time.My goal is to eventually move south where I no longer have to drive thru ice storms and blizzards in the winter anymore. I work retail and I am very much a people person and love working with the public.There is so much I could say about myself but if you want to get to know me,talk to me...Have nothing to hide, my life is an open book. I am an older woman but I have much more in common with younger men so I prefer dating men between the ages of 35 to 48ish. My children's friends have always called me the "cool mom".I have tattoos but they are tasteful. I was a manager for 19 years so I had to make sure what I had was tasteful and they could be hidden under clothing. I also have the side of my nose pierced so if these things are a turn off then I am not the person for you. I will change for no one. I am me. My tattoos all mean something to me.Most women my age are probably into more country and western music. I am not. I grew up with it because my family had heir own country and western band. I love club music. I love to go out and dance.I am not the kind of person that hits the clubs every weekend but once in a great while I like to get out. I am certainly not a couch potato either. I would like my first date to be going to dinner so we could talk and get to know each other and then it would just go from there if we hit it off. That would be the first date, our first meeting would be over a cup of coffee to see if we actually clicked and wanted to go on a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ursula from Shallotte | Woman | 52 years old | Taurus
    Ursula

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    They didn't have "unique" as a personality type... so I chose rockstar. Ok so I dont play an *** sing... but I still think Im still a rockstar :)I am an intelligent, independent and honest woman who is passionate about my life and those I love. I have two children who are now grown; therefore I am at a point in my life where I can again, think about "me". I am quite happy and secure on my own, and would rather be single than settle... but, I would love to meet a man I could call my best friend. Someone who will make me smile just thinking of him. Someone who would rather spend a quiet evening at home watching a movie, or hanging with friends, as opposed to a night at the bar, but still doesn't mind a night out now and then. Someone to laugh with, someone to share my thoughts and my dreams. Someone real. I value honesty, integrity and respect. Yes, honesty. Like everyone, I am looking for that "connection", but I am not interested in serial dating, nor am I interested in serial POFers. If you have contacted 50% of the women on here, you are not for me... you, are looking for "anything". I am looking for "one" and seeking another who is also looking for just "one". I am looking for a "friend", friends first, but I hope for a friendship that has the potential to develop into something deeper.Touch my mind and I'm drawn, touch my heart and I'm hooked. Let the rest fall into place naturally... I love to laugh, I love to learn, I love to live, I love to love. I am well rounded and grounded, uncomplicated and easy going, curious and inquisitive, unique with a touch of unpredictability I am real... no games and would like the same in return.I don't believe looks are most important but do believe there must be some form of mutual attraction. I have a soft spot for nice eyes. Oh and teeth... you must have teeth... your own.Just for funLove and Marriage... from the mouths of babes."If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don't want to do it. It takes too long."--;Love is like an avalanche where you have to run for your life."--John, age 9"I think you're supposed to get shot with an arrow or something, but the rest of it isn't supposed to be so painful."--Manuel, age 8"No one is sure why it happens, but I heard it has something to do with how you smell. That's why perfume and deodorant are so popular."--Mae, age 9"On the first date, they just tell each other lies, and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date."--Mike, age 9"My mother says to look for a man who is kind. That's what I'll do. I'll find somebody who's kinda tall and handsome."--Carolyn, age 8"It gives me a headache to think about that stuff. I'm just a kid. I don't need that kind of trouble."--Kenny, age 7"I'm not rushing into being in love. I'm finding fourth grade hard enough."--;When you're married, you should tell your wife she's pretty, even if she looks like a truck"-.. and see who comes back :D

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  • Khalilah from Shallotte | Woman | 51 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am looking to meet a fun-loving man who really enjoys life and loves to laugh. I am interested in dating, but ultimately would like a committed relationship (not necessarily marriage). If you are only interested in a one night stand, you have definitely come to the wrong place. I have a strong personality, but I am not domineering. I am looking for a man who also has a strong personality, enjoys laughing and is passionate enough to satisfy the hopeless romantic in me. PDA is okay with me, but at our age, I'm not sure the general public is ready for it. You must have a job (I don't care what you do for a living, as long as you are financially stable). I have a good job, and have no trouble supporting myself and my 16 year old son. I like children and am fine with you having children also. However, I am not interested in having any more of my own (hello - I'm over 50! [lol]). A few things about myself - I am of Italian- I love, love, love to travel. It really doesn't matter where. Please don't be frightened, I clean up well, and can be quite charming (even somewhat graceful) for those important social functions. I walk ALOT, not only during my travels, but all around my neighborhood. I find it is great exercise for both body and mind. I also lift weights and do yoga regularly. I have been told that I am a very good cook. I am a big fan of television, enjoying everything from the classics to cartoons. I am also a Star-Trek-loving nerd (classics only). I enjoy sports (baseball, hockey, football), but am not a fanatic.Looking forward to hearing from you!! My location is very easy to get to from the city.I am a strong believer in chemistry, which is why the first date will always be short. We can go somewhere for coffee,tea or a drink.One more thing - I am truly 5'8" tall and like to wear 2" heels, so I noted that I am 5'10".I hope we hit it off!!

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  • Juliann from Shallotte | Woman | 51 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I like live music and am up for most anything. I am having back issues right now but i will still cheer you on if you are into anything that I can't participate in. I would like to get a job to help people yet make money at it. Helping others out is a passion of mine. I am an honest open book who wants the same in my partner. Not brutal honest just plain old honest. I just got out of a 5yr relationship and just want a normal one with laughter and friends. I can keep a secret and I have many friends whom I love dearly. I have no pets and I am not sure I can handle a pet in the house long term and I feel this is important for my potential mate to know upfront. RACISTS need not contact me I just can't handle anyone judging other people no matter the circumstances. I am not into talking about politics or Religion or debating either one but I don't mind listening to your's but please don't expect to sway me either way from my thinking. I am care free and I must admit have a great sense of humor and I love to laugh and smile and my partner will be number one in my life as I am old fashioned and I love to take care of my man. (Swoon) I have five kids from the age 30 to 16 and 4 Grand children. They are the light of my life but not my whole life. I will be there for them ***if needed as I was a single parent for all of them but they are getting to the point where I am not the top priorty in their lives. (Except the 16yr old of course). I am an open book so please ask me ANYTHING. Hugs PattyDon't be shy contact me. If nothing else we can be friends and a support system for each other. :)I also want to be clear I am not looking to hop into bed with someone I can do that most weeks it's just not what I am interested in. I want to chat for a while and get to know one another. I am not into games but I am into honest to goodness men who can get to know me for me not just my great bedroom skills. ;) LOL For me a first day can be anything. I don't need money spent on me for me to like someone or to be happy in life. I don't drive right now but will hopefully in the near future. I feel this should be told up front for any potential person who would like to go on a date with me.

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