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Taina, 53
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

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About Me

Who I am looking for:I am searching for one special guy to build a loving and honest lifelong relationship with. Is it you? To get a sense of whom and what I am looking for I offer the following example:“Once in your life, you find someone who you can tell things that you’ve never shared with another soul & they listen deeply & actually want to hear more. They build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special & even beautiful. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved & the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them, knowing they will share in your excitement. There is no pressure, jealousy or competition. You can be yourself. They’re not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself… You find strength in knowing you have a true friend & possibly a soulmate who will remain loyal to the end.” -Bob MarleyIf this rings true for you, too we’re off to a good start. It’s also important that we are compatible and that our differences are complementary to each other. To help you decide if we might be good for each other here is a little about my philosophy and the principles I live by.Honesty: Mean what you say and say what you mean and be accountable for it. The truth should always be delivered with kindness and compassion, never as a means to manipulate or to avoid accountability.Integrity: Your word should be impeccable. Enough said.Loyalty: My loyalty to family, friends and loved ones is not borne out of obligation. It is of my own choosing otherwise I would not be loyal to me. Thus, I choose my friends carefully and am loyal to those who hold a place in their heart for me.Love: I have never experienced love at first sight. I can’t imagine a feeling of complete devotion and admiration for someone I just met in the context that true love requires. For me love develops over time and is nurtured. It should not seem like work but you should want to work at it.More about me:I am independent, secure both financially and emotionally, and like to stay physically fit. I enjoy all sorts of activities outdoors including hiking, camping, canoeing, kayaking, bike riding, sports, etc. Recently, I explored ziplining even in spite of my fear of heights. I would like to try deep sea fishing some time. Good food, music, dancing and especially good company is always in order.According to my friends I have a good sense of humor, am intelligent, sincere and down-to-earth. If we have the chance to meet I think you will find that I am unpretentious, enjoy discussing a variety of topics and will respect others opinions. I am comfortable in most settings and enjoy a formal evening out or charity ball on occasion.The bottomline is if we have chemistry we will enjoy doing anything together. My First Date Expectations:Meeting for drinks and a light bite or dinner works well for me since I enjoy company with a glass of wine. I am also a coffee drinker, so if you'd prefer to meet earlier in the day that's fine too! What you can expect from me: No matter when and where we are scheduled to meet I will always show you the courtesy of following through. No last minute cancellations, excluding a medical emergency, of course. Expect to enjoy our time together. After all, if I'm agreeing to meet that's a strong indication you have potential and I intend to give you my undivided attention.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

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