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Trena, 52
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

Offline, last seen Wed, 11 Mar 2026 18:07:19

About Me

I am looking for someone who is down to earth who is not afraid to try something different..I'm looking for a man that will treat a women with respect. One that loves the outdoors and not afraid to talk a chance in life. .I try to go somewhere warm every year to help get rid of the winter blues.I like to go out,but also like to stay at home and relax with a drink and watch a movie or just talk.. I am a fun loving and outgoing, person. I like most music soft rock ,soft jazz, oldies and yes country. I am short and spunky, but what I lack in height I make up for in enthusiasm.My friends and family mean the world to me and they convinced me to do this ,but they know me, I'm game for just about anything.To me expecting 50% of each other is wrong. It should be 100% that is given. Life is to short to live in the past, look forward and happiness will happen.My motto never give up without a fight .Don't be shy to write me. You can't get to know me if we don't chat.I just recently rode on the back of a motorcycle, and loved it .I think it's time for me to explore this further. Looking forward to chatting with you. P.S. If my height or lack off worries you remember heels were invented for petite women LOLI HAVE A CHALLENGE FOR YOU:WILL BE COMPLETELY HONEST... you can ask me ONE question (only in my inbox). Any question, no matter how crazy, sinister, or wrong it is. I WILL answer no matter what. You have my FULL honesty.***\\***Plz***\\\***Put Thi s***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---Or whom maybe suffering from it On a first date I would like to talk and get to know that person a little.I'm a very honest person.Don't drink coffee but will meet at a coffee shop. If there is interest there than we could decide what to do next.I'm not afraid to try something I've never tried or done before.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeni from Shallotte | Woman | 52 years old | Aries
    Jeni

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am cajun &-again christian. That simply means I have repented of my sins & have excepted Jesus Christ as my Lord & Savior. He is the ONLY WAY to eternal life. Have a deep desire to lead the lost to Christ because things foretold in the bible( PROPHECY) are coming to pass sooooo rapidly. I prefer & seek a Godly man who has a deep and intimate relationship with Jesus Christ birthed in the fires of affliction, and an understanding of spiritual gifts and callings. You understand "Deep calls unto deep".This means I am a very spiritual female & I LOVE & LIVE MY LIFE for JESUS & I prefer the same in a man BUT after serving the Lord for so long now, I know & understand what I desire in a man is very, very hard to find, so I do make exceptions. I mostly lessons to the gospel, but also enjoy cajun, zydeco, all good dancing music like motown & classic rock. I would like to meet a single, born-again christian man that doesn't have kids to support, or none at all, that is looking for a long term relationship leading to marriage...... My ideal man would be 5'8 to 6'3" tall with grey, or dark hair, not too over weight,stable,patient, kind, generous, a great povider, even tempered, not controlling nor domineering,without hang-up or baggage or any disabilities, in good health like myself that wants to settle down and marry. NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE, THAT'S VERY UNFAIR AND JUST TOO MUCH DRAMA FOR ME. I ABSOLUTELY HATE DRAMA , LOVE PEACE & LAUGHTER, LOVE TO LAUGH, I LAUGH ALL THE TIME, You know the bible says "A Merry heart doeth good like a medicine"...PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE SEPERATED OR MARRIED!!! I love ALL races but I PREFER NOT TO GET ENVOLVED WITH A BLACK MAN. Don't even want them contacting me. Please forgive me & try to understand, and respect my wishes. I enjoy the finer things in life,my rich cajun culture, the arts, music, different cultures, watersports, dancing,antiques, going to the movies,boxing,riding harleys, classic car shows, drag car racing,fast & muscles cars, traveling, dining out, lots of good clean conversation,festivals,bible studies,attending church & Come hang out with me & be my friend. I am lotssss of fun. Honest!! I long walk in the park with a lot of communication getting to know one another, maybe dinner at a nice resturant, a walk on the beach if the weather permits, a sporting event, or just hanging out in a coffee shop. I might even envite you to church with me so don't be shocked if I do.

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  • Soraya from Shallotte | Woman | 55 years old | Sagittarius
    Soraya

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I have been on this site off and on for the past couple of years and I don't think it's for me anymore. There are a few flirts here and there, an *** 'Hi', then it stops. It works both ways and I get that. I'm sure you have felt the same disappointment.It finally occurred to me that I am really very content and do not need to try to find someone using this venue. I have a great job - been here 32 years, and have made many life long friends. I have two great kids and an adorable grandson. At 55 years old I am starting to run! I am learning how to play the bagpipes, a goal that had been on my bucket list for far too long. I would like to learn to blow glass - I volunteer for SE MN small dog rescue and am planning for an event coming up in February. I am into eating organically grown fruits and vegetables and I eat very little processed foods. If it grows on a plant, eat it. If it was made in a plant, don't. WHAT THE HELL WAS I THINKING! I don't need to meet anyone! I have friends and family who love me - some even adore me! lol. Why do we think we need this BS? No one follows through or is interested in nourishing a new friendship so why do we bother? We continue to put ourselves in a position that often makes us feel expendable, useless and unworthy. Why do we do that? I know there are some genuinely nice guys out there who are not looking for the trophy girlfriend with big hooters. When I see a man ***years old that sets his criteria to ***, I cringe. Seriously? Women that age aren't interested in your kids, your paunch or your balding head and you better make sure Mr. Wiggly works non-stop. If if does, I applaud you! If not, what the hell are you thinking? Reality check please. Well, that's all for now! I'm going to mosey along and enjoy my wonderful life, a life that felt empty until I really started to count my blessings. I honestly wish you much success here. I thought I needed you but I really don't. Take care! A nice light meal is a good ice-breaker, maybe a beer or glass of wine. Meet for coffee and conversation.

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  • Maragret from Shallotte | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
    Maragret

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a single mother of two sons. I am divorced. I have a great sense of humor and am looking for someone to share my life with.

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