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Trudy, 52

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About Me

If you dare nothing, when the day is over, nothing is all you will have gained.I have been thinking about offering a free ROMANCE ***course for you guys that are a little rusty in the romance area but then I realized there probably isn't a guy out there that would admit that they needed it so I'll just give you a few pointers...1. Don't be creepy guy and and try to tell me what I'm going to do, with whom I'm going to do it and when I'm going to do it ending each and every command with "okay sweetheart"! Especially when we haven't even met face to face and not after we have either!2. Do not assume ANYTHING! For example, If we have been talking on the phone but have yet to meet, and we hang up and you suddenly see that I'm "online" on meetville, do NOT go crazy psycho dude on me! I might have only been showing your photo's to a girlfriend or one of my daughters and was not necessarily looking for another potential prospect. Unless of course you ARE crazy psycho dude, then by all means allow me to see the real you so I don't waste another second of my time wondering if you could be the guy for me!3. Do not ask me during our first meeting if I would consider getting the financing for a new pickup for you which you will make the payments on. No I don't really care that you need a pickup to run your business! I can't afford to be my own sugar mama let alone yours and more importantly...I'm not stupid! In fact don't ever ask me.4. I'm looking for a mate not a job. I don't mind cooking and cleaning and doing your laundry if you don't mind taking me out dancing, hunting, horseback riding or on the Harley. However if it's just a maid and cook you want, I'm for hire but it would probably be cheaper for you to just wine me and dine me! Besides I'm a lot of fun and really good company!5. If you really want to woo me then do NOT, I repeat do NOT tell me that the one thing you really miss about being with a woman is having someone to clip your toenails! I don't care if you look like you're nine months pregnant with a beer belly and can't bend over...I will not clip your toenails! Pedicures here we come! You can't make this stuff up! So if you've gotten this far I can tell you I am a proud mom and grandma to 3 daughters, a grandson and a granddaughter. I am a one man woman. I'm a country girl who isn't afraid of hard work or dirt under my fingernails. I love the rural life but right now I'm not as rural as I'd like to be! Big cities make me grumpy. I love the mountains. You must love dogs! I have 2...a Heeler/Aussie cross, and a Heeler (who needs a job). I love camping, road trips, horses, Harleys. I love ghost towns and prefer the mom and pop establishments. I am a conservative woman with conservative beliefs and yes I probably can outshoot you! I am a starving artist but far from the typical artsy kind of women usually found in NM. I have been attending UNM for a mid-life career change and I still refuse to be a liberal! I WILL NOT RESPOND UNLESS YOU HAVE A PHOTO!!!! Or unless you piss me off!! Coffee and conversation to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shona

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Interested in long hikes, a good book, a night in with a movie, and someone to share it with.Now that's the part my children ages 29 and 31 posted putting their mom on a dating site without my knowing until after the fact. When asked why they did it, their answers were as follows. Daughter says mom your like Cinderella, always doing for others sacrificing yourself.My son says you don't drink, you don't go out to the bars, but you love to hike, ski, travel, scuba dive, horseback ride, camp, fish, and have a bucket list of places and things you still want to do, things you would now love to do since your children are gone. Plus your one hell of a cook! Get out there start dating there is someone out there praying for a woman like you!My turn....I love me, in the sense that I am what I was destined to be, tall, average body, green eyes, and well hair color that now needs help with the color every once in awhile. I wake every morning, thank God I'm alive and start my day quoting a saying of Gandhi's that I want to be the change I wish to see in the world! I've never been perfect, there's always room for improvement, I believe knowledge is power, I choose to see the glass half full, not empty, everything happens for a reason with destinies purpose, that there are people and situations we have no control over! And that until you are truly happy with yourself you will only then be able to experience and live a fulfilling life.I am in the field of mental/medical care of others with special needs that I love and those I see on a daily basis whom I feel enrich my life with blessings of just how fortunate I am and all that I have. I am blessed for the love and adoration I receive from them that confirms to me I am where I am to be in this walk of life.My Children are correct, I have so much more to give and share with someone special other than my three Daschunds, who have been my loyal companions for quiet some time! Time (years) to mend and get over the deep hurt of a broken heart that was exposed to lies, deceit, and infidelity. So only if you are a good guy like my children posted respond. Only if your makeup is morally sound, only reply if you believe it is communication that builds a strong foundation, only if you believe a woman is to be treated like a lady. You believe in opening doors, pulling out her chair, holding hands, and yes send flowers or little reminders to brighten her day that your thinking of her. Even if they are picked yourself on the roadside! I'm comfortable in my own skin, can relate and talk with any walk of life with nothing but the real deal being emitted, so please if you have to put a game face on and pretend your something your not do not apply either. And most importantly liars or hiders don't even think about it.So live each day to the fullest as it could be your last. And looking forward to who responds. May we all find what were looking for.

  • Airla

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    If there is no picture here on your profile ...please...GO BACK TO YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER!!!!!If I don't reply...please dont be offended.....Either there is an interest or attraction on my part as well.. or there's not? That physical attraction must be there....Does not mean your not good looking....may not be the look i am yearning ( Ex biker look vs corporate look vs blue collar look....everybody has ***I will thank you now for choosing my profile....as it is a nice compliment! Chemistry is just when I "click" with someone. That has to be there! It's a spark,... a feeling that the other person really really "gets" you.... You're comfortable and happy to be around that person... they excite you ... challenge you .... spark your interest.... When they hang up the phone or leave you after that great night and fabulous good night kiss you want to be right back in their arms again! ....Need a man who believes the art of kissing is the fuel to the fire! A warm, cuddly teddy bear... I like most music except rap, and I love to dance! The outdoors is where I love to be alot...in the summer I am rarely indooors. I live in a lake community. love driving my speedboat on a beautiful day with friends and family, plus all the frills and fun!-skiing too. Anything beach or water related I love...camping on the river, skiing water or snow...not great but I do it! Plus I do love & watch football & baseball&..understand & watch the games! Go Giants & Yankees! LOVE LOVE LOVE A HEAD OR HAIR ON MY MAN....DRIVES ME CRAZY!AVERAGE, ATHLETIC, OR A FEW EXTRA...EXTREMELY THIN WONT WORK! ME?SEPARATED PREVIOUSLY MARRIED 26 YEARSMy pics are all current! What cha see is what cha get!! I'm an easy going,friendly, easy to talk to kind of gal! What more would you expect from a loveable American born girl.. half italian and half french by ancestry.... plus she sure can cook....in the kitchen too! I have two handsome sons ages 24 & 26, both Rutgers Grads and both are very successful and live on their own outside my home.So....where are you hiding handsome? Lets's meet at some cozy little public place where light and casual conversation can be exchanged. Please not a coffee shop!...and if we don't click we'll then part... not meant to be ...move on...simple!" Life is not measured by the breaths we take..but by the moments that take our breath away" Maybe you will????

  • Rhea

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a complex yet simple lady I possess varied interests and am not limited to only what I like to do.I'm the life of the party but have a serious side as wellI'm a strong independent woman but I also know when I need help and will kindly ask you for itTravel***love it and am quiet well traveled & think it would be awesome to locate a gentleman who enjoys the foreign adventures as much as I doI like trying new things recently started ball room dancing lessons and am quiet surprised I am enjoying it! I would like a nice guy who can lead well, lets kick up our heels!!I enjoy decorating my home, and entertaining, cook outs and dinner parties, nothing fancy usually, but a relaxing and enjoyable time. I like to make others feel comfortable and share my home with them.I am creative, fun, cuddly, sweet, kind, compassionate, a hard working, a professional, involved in community and church activities.My friends describe me as outgoing, compassionate, hard working, funny and very adventuresome.I would adore a man who is honest, respectful, confident, hard dedicated, funny, and cuddly! Friends first is always a must. Who knows, we may be long term dance partners!Ciao for now, and thank you for reading my profile.

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