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Trudy, 52

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About Me

If you dare nothing, when the day is over, nothing is all you will have gained.I have been thinking about offering a free ROMANCE ***course for you guys that are a little rusty in the romance area but then I realized there probably isn't a guy out there that would admit that they needed it so I'll just give you a few pointers...1. Don't be creepy guy and and try to tell me what I'm going to do, with whom I'm going to do it and when I'm going to do it ending each and every command with "okay sweetheart"! Especially when we haven't even met face to face and not after we have either!2. Do not assume ANYTHING! For example, If we have been talking on the phone but have yet to meet, and we hang up and you suddenly see that I'm "online" on meetville, do NOT go crazy psycho dude on me! I might have only been showing your photo's to a girlfriend or one of my daughters and was not necessarily looking for another potential prospect. Unless of course you ARE crazy psycho dude, then by all means allow me to see the real you so I don't waste another second of my time wondering if you could be the guy for me!3. Do not ask me during our first meeting if I would consider getting the financing for a new pickup for you which you will make the payments on. No I don't really care that you need a pickup to run your business! I can't afford to be my own sugar mama let alone yours and more importantly...I'm not stupid! In fact don't ever ask me.4. I'm looking for a mate not a job. I don't mind cooking and cleaning and doing your laundry if you don't mind taking me out dancing, hunting, horseback riding or on the Harley. However if it's just a maid and cook you want, I'm for hire but it would probably be cheaper for you to just wine me and dine me! Besides I'm a lot of fun and really good company!5. If you really want to woo me then do NOT, I repeat do NOT tell me that the one thing you really miss about being with a woman is having someone to clip your toenails! I don't care if you look like you're nine months pregnant with a beer belly and can't bend over...I will not clip your toenails! Pedicures here we come! You can't make this stuff up! So if you've gotten this far I can tell you I am a proud mom and grandma to 3 daughters, a grandson and a granddaughter. I am a one man woman. I'm a country girl who isn't afraid of hard work or dirt under my fingernails. I love the rural life but right now I'm not as rural as I'd like to be! Big cities make me grumpy. I love the mountains. You must love dogs! I have 2...a Heeler/Aussie cross, and a Heeler (who needs a job). I love camping, road trips, horses, Harleys. I love ghost towns and prefer the mom and pop establishments. I am a conservative woman with conservative beliefs and yes I probably can outshoot you! I am a starving artist but far from the typical artsy kind of women usually found in NM. I have been attending UNM for a mid-life career change and I still refuse to be a liberal! I WILL NOT RESPOND UNLESS YOU HAVE A PHOTO!!!! Or unless you piss me off!! Coffee and conversation to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Taina

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Who I am looking for:I am searching for one special guy to build a loving and honest lifelong relationship with. Is it you? To get a sense of whom and what I am looking for I offer the following example:“Once in your life, you find someone who you can tell things that you’ve never shared with another soul & they listen deeply & actually want to hear more. They build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special & even beautiful. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved & the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them, knowing they will share in your excitement. There is no pressure, jealousy or competition. You can be yourself. They’re not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself… You find strength in knowing you have a true friend & possibly a soulmate who will remain loyal to the end.” -Bob MarleyIf this rings true for you, too we’re off to a good start. It’s also important that we are compatible and that our differences are complementary to each other. To help you decide if we might be good for each other here is a little about my philosophy and the principles I live by.Honesty: Mean what you say and say what you mean and be accountable for it. The truth should always be delivered with kindness and compassion, never as a means to manipulate or to avoid accountability.Integrity: Your word should be impeccable. Enough said.Loyalty: My loyalty to family, friends and loved ones is not borne out of obligation. It is of my own choosing otherwise I would not be loyal to me. Thus, I choose my friends carefully and am loyal to those who hold a place in their heart for me.Love: I have never experienced love at first sight. I can’t imagine a feeling of complete devotion and admiration for someone I just met in the context that true love requires. For me love develops over time and is nurtured. It should not seem like work but you should want to work at it.More about me:I am independent, secure both financially and emotionally, and like to stay physically fit. I enjoy all sorts of activities outdoors including hiking, camping, canoeing, kayaking, bike riding, sports, etc. Recently, I explored ziplining even in spite of my fear of heights. I would like to try deep sea fishing some time. Good food, music, dancing and especially good company is always in order.According to my friends I have a good sense of humor, am intelligent, sincere and down-to-earth. If we have the chance to meet I think you will find that I am unpretentious, enjoy discussing a variety of topics and will respect others opinions. I am comfortable in most settings and enjoy a formal evening out or charity ball on occasion.The bottomline is if we have chemistry we will enjoy doing anything together. My First Date Expectations:Meeting for drinks and a light bite or dinner works well for me since I enjoy company with a glass of wine. I am also a coffee drinker, so if you'd prefer to meet earlier in the day that's fine too! What you can expect from me: No matter when and where we are scheduled to meet I will always show you the courtesy of following through. No last minute cancellations, excluding a medical emergency, of course. Expect to enjoy our time together. After all, if I'm agreeing to meet that's a strong indication you have potential and I intend to give you my undivided attention.

  • Sanora

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    My hobbies and interests consist of simple things. I enjoy the outdoors, going to beaches, camping, and fishing. I often pack a makeshift picnic and go for long drives down a pretty country road or highway with no destination in mind. Just to explore what's out there, stopping at ineresting spots along the way. I enjoy reading, mostly fiction, Steven King is my favorite author. My music tastes vary, but mostly rock, blues, and reggae. Although I do enjoy having a few drinks with friends, I am absolutely not interested in any heavy drinkers. I have been on that rollercoaster ride in past relationships. I know many on these sites say they like to snuggle on the couch with their mates, but I truly do enjoy things like that. If I am in a relationship with someone, I want to hold hands as we walk, a soft unexpected kiss, little things like that to show you care. I have three boys, one grown, and two teens, whom I absolutely adore. I'm a pretty open minded person and I don't judge people based on their viewpoints, looks, etc. The way I see it, I haven't walked in their shoes, nor they in mine. I prefer to get to know people, and I value honesty above all else. I trust (maybe too much) until I am given a reason not to. As a friend I am kind, honest, and loyal. No matter wether we are friends, or something more, I believe in being open with each other ..no games, lies, or trying to read whats on each others minds. The past few years have brought many changes in my life, so my goals at this point are to keep things simple, and be happy. First date? Jeez, it's been a while since I've dated, so I'm not even sure. I suppose dinner and a movie is the traditional thing, but I think the movie rules out getting to know each other since conversation is out of the question. I think I'd be most comfortable with something casual. A simple dinner, a local festival, a day at the zoo? Maybe even a car show or flea market. I'm open to suggestions.

  • Noah

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I believe in God and consider myself a Christian. I've have the same full time job for 24 years now. I own my home and enjoy living close to my children. I have a daughter age 33 who is married to a wonderful man. They are much involved in their church socially and musically. They have three young children. I have a son who is 19 and is in Technical College. I am very proud of my children and love them dearly. I like Comedy shows and movies, Love & Romance, True stories & some action & fiction. I don't care for a lot of violence... I am a "part-time" musician. I sing out professionally in a classic rock band with a good bunch of family oriented guys. I also play acoustic guitar and sing as a soloist. I enjoy it very much! Would like to meet a nice guy who likes listening to live music and enjoys dancing at times. Go for walks in the park, maybe a picnic. A man who loves to smile, has a kind heart, is generous, sociable, respectable & caring. A man with a head of hair I can run my fingers through. I PREFER NO FACIAL HAIR... but a "very little" might be ok if kept well groomed.; health visits, is important as eating right to stay healthy. Someone who is responsible, not reckless, who takes care of things so they will stay in good condition and fix things that need tending to. I'd love to be in a relationship with a man, who looks forward to our every kiss, as much as I do!... If you have this, everything else you do together will be right! Looking for that chemistry as well as comparability . PS: That spot where it says, "Describe your personality in one word"... I picked Princess.... :) Whatever feels most comfortable to both of us. I like going to an outside public venue where there is live music playing. I like a good latte once and a while so meeting at a Starbucks coffee shop would be nice to.

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