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Trudy, 52

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About Me

If you dare nothing, when the day is over, nothing is all you will have gained.I have been thinking about offering a free ROMANCE ***course for you guys that are a little rusty in the romance area but then I realized there probably isn't a guy out there that would admit that they needed it so I'll just give you a few pointers...1. Don't be creepy guy and and try to tell me what I'm going to do, with whom I'm going to do it and when I'm going to do it ending each and every command with "okay sweetheart"! Especially when we haven't even met face to face and not after we have either!2. Do not assume ANYTHING! For example, If we have been talking on the phone but have yet to meet, and we hang up and you suddenly see that I'm "online" on meetville, do NOT go crazy psycho dude on me! I might have only been showing your photo's to a girlfriend or one of my daughters and was not necessarily looking for another potential prospect. Unless of course you ARE crazy psycho dude, then by all means allow me to see the real you so I don't waste another second of my time wondering if you could be the guy for me!3. Do not ask me during our first meeting if I would consider getting the financing for a new pickup for you which you will make the payments on. No I don't really care that you need a pickup to run your business! I can't afford to be my own sugar mama let alone yours and more importantly...I'm not stupid! In fact don't ever ask me.4. I'm looking for a mate not a job. I don't mind cooking and cleaning and doing your laundry if you don't mind taking me out dancing, hunting, horseback riding or on the Harley. However if it's just a maid and cook you want, I'm for hire but it would probably be cheaper for you to just wine me and dine me! Besides I'm a lot of fun and really good company!5. If you really want to woo me then do NOT, I repeat do NOT tell me that the one thing you really miss about being with a woman is having someone to clip your toenails! I don't care if you look like you're nine months pregnant with a beer belly and can't bend over...I will not clip your toenails! Pedicures here we come! You can't make this stuff up! So if you've gotten this far I can tell you I am a proud mom and grandma to 3 daughters, a grandson and a granddaughter. I am a one man woman. I'm a country girl who isn't afraid of hard work or dirt under my fingernails. I love the rural life but right now I'm not as rural as I'd like to be! Big cities make me grumpy. I love the mountains. You must love dogs! I have 2...a Heeler/Aussie cross, and a Heeler (who needs a job). I love camping, road trips, horses, Harleys. I love ghost towns and prefer the mom and pop establishments. I am a conservative woman with conservative beliefs and yes I probably can outshoot you! I am a starving artist but far from the typical artsy kind of women usually found in NM. I have been attending UNM for a mid-life career change and I still refuse to be a liberal! I WILL NOT RESPOND UNLESS YOU HAVE A PHOTO!!!! Or unless you piss me off!! Coffee and conversation to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hey! I'm looking for a someone that is not to overbearing, that enjoys going out and enjoys cozy nights in. Sense of humor is important because laughing is fantastic! I love to workout and stay in shape! A man who knows how to treat a woman with respect and dignity, and has a sense of adventure would be a perfect match for me. Warning...I do have a sarcastic sense of humor! I love going to the beach.....it is the most wonderful, relaxing place on earth!Listen...just be real and no BS. Life and relationships are much more enjoyable and easier if both parties are just REAL!!!!After being on here awhile and meeting a few fish.....my ideal partner would be someone to share,enhance and compliment my life...not someone who tries to take it over! What is wrong with having different interests? That would make for a well rounded relationship.....gives us something to talk about ;-) Meet for coffee, or a drink....see if there is any chemistry???

  • Tova

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi! I like discovering new places and going places that I have never been. Getting lost is the best part of discovering something new. I like meeting new people because you never know where they will take you. I love to laugh so making me laugh is a good start. Life is too short not to enjoy it. I love surprising someone just because. I will share my food though how much you get depends on how much I like what I am eating lol. I can play dress up but I prefer to being comfortable. Life is too short not to enjoy it. I sponsor a child in Mauritania in East Africa. He is 8 years old. I am very excited about this, and happy that I care share a little of what I have to make someones life better. I go to church every other week. I would love to go every week, but I have to work every other weekend. If you have children or animals that is great. Family is important to me as I am sure it is to all. I love to cook and I always say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, and no I haven't killed anyone yet lol. I do a lot of walking. I like sports but I am better at watching then playing and I can't hit a ball to save my life. You would spend more time laughing and shaking your head than playing and you would probably try to hide the fact that I came with you :) I like romance and being romantic, cuddling and watching a movie with a bowl of ice cream. I like muscle cars, antiquing, drives in the country. My music is varied with country being my least favorite. My favorite group right now is "Five Finger Death Punch." Not into games or head games. Be yourself and be honest, why would you not? I am not into the bar scene. I just received my associates degree in business, but decided to continue for my bachelors. I changed schools and degrees. When I graduate I will be a sociologist and hopefully will be working with seniors. This is were my heart is. I love my job and I have learned a lot about life and love from the residents. They can always make me smile. I do not mean to sound negative or mean.Two things that seem to be issues lately. It seems for some to be a problem that I am going to school. Just because I am going to school does not make me smarter or better than someone else. I am doing this to better myself. Blue collar, white collar it should not matter to anyone. The person you are on the inside and how you treat others is what is important. The second this is I do not drive right now. It is a long story, but no I did not do something bad or lose my license or anything like that. I can understand how this may be somewhat of a problem. Thank you for understanding. Oh and do not write me just to find out why I do not drive right now out of curiosity, because I will not answer you. First date should be a meet for a drink or coffee. If you really aren't hitting it off who wants to force themselves to sit through a long evening when you would rather be any place else lol.

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I love to read, take walks, long drives, going to the movies, spending time with friends and family.My children are getting older and having lives of their own so now it is me time.My goal is to eventually move south where I no longer have to drive thru ice storms and blizzards in the winter anymore. I work retail and I am very much a people person and love working with the public.There is so much I could say about myself but if you want to get to know me,talk to me...Have nothing to hide, my life is an open book. I am an older woman but I have much more in common with younger men so I prefer dating men between the ages of 35 to 48ish. My children's friends have always called me the "cool mom".I have tattoos but they are tasteful. I was a manager for 19 years so I had to make sure what I had was tasteful and they could be hidden under clothing. I also have the side of my nose pierced so if these things are a turn off then I am not the person for you. I will change for no one. I am me. My tattoos all mean something to me.Most women my age are probably into more country and western music. I am not. I grew up with it because my family had heir own country and western band. I love club music. I love to go out and dance.I am not the kind of person that hits the clubs every weekend but once in a great while I like to get out. I am certainly not a couch potato either. I would like my first date to be going to dinner so we could talk and get to know each other and then it would just go from there if we hit it off. That would be the first date, our first meeting would be over a cup of coffee to see if we actually clicked and wanted to go on a first date.

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