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Wilda, 51
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

Offline, last seen Mon, 16 Feb 2026 14:22:34

About Me

I am a kind, caring, considerate and compassionate female. I enjoy a variety of interests and activities. The most important interest in my life is family. I firmly believe in a one-on-one relationship and seek the same. I date very rarely as I find the dating scene overall discouraging in this regard. I am an independent person and do not feel the "NEED" of a relationship, but I do hope to find the "RIGHT" relationship at some point. By the way......guess I am a bit "old-fashioned" and shy, so if you would like to talk, *** Upon browsing profiles I ran across this on a MAN'S profile. I think this speaks for itself!Women over 40 By Andy RooneyAs I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think. If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting. Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it. Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.. Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.. Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her. Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize. For all those men who say, 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage. Why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get some sausage!"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Swimming Caribbean Korean Thai Turkish Vietnamese
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  • Ara from Rutherfordton | Woman | 52 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello there, and welcome to my profile....I'm just a simple person. I try to keep my life as stress-free as possible. Being raised on a farm and a true country girl at heart, I understand the significance of a hard days work ...mentally and physically. I work every day for a wonderful doctor and also run a small subcontracting business. I love working and have no intention of retiring any time soon. As far as my past, who doesn't at 52? But my past is just that! I am looking forward to the future, enjoying the rest of my life with new experiences and adventure. I laugh every day..at something, someone or myself. What great medicine and it’s free! A sense of humor is a must. It would be a rarity to find someone who has the same broad range of interest. First date stuff has a tendency to make us all nervous, but we have nothing to loose and if anything, a new friendship to gain. So if we've made it past the first minute of eye to eye... it would be fun to relax and enjoy the company. Although I'm the Mother of three wonderful young men, my nest has a tendency to be empty quite often. They will always be my priority as it should be but my life does not revolve around their every moment. But if they need me...they know I'm there.The dating scene at this age is no easy task and really...I'm not sure meeting someone in this manner is the way to go but it's inevitable. Our social options are limited and this is what everyone seems to rely on. I prefer to date a man taller than I. This is not a slam, just a preference. We all know the attraction from the get-go is important. If it's mutual...we'll know. Best wishes for much happiness.. :) I would prefer a quaint destination, agreeable to us both, which allows us the opportunity to converse and get to know one another.

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  • Montana from Rutherfordton | Woman | 54 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm actively seeking a live/work situation, but if in that process I meet my "soulmate," that would be awesome. But I know finding what I really want in a soulmate (and note, I'm good with staying alone until if/when I find that guy) can take some time. My primary goal right now is to live in a more rural-ish, healthy home (ideally an organic farm, or other healthy environment--non-smoking, etc). Live/work, which means I live there rent (and utility cost) free (I provide my own food), with possibly a small stipend depending on the terms (negotiable)...and in exchange, I work for you as a platonic "wife," personal/business assistant, secretary (excellent writing/editing skills, mucho speedy typist), home manager, personal health coach/counselor, etc. I'm also a visual artist, and love helping with home decor...web design, photography, anything where I'll be working with color and design. Just a multi-talented girlie ;-) So I have much to offer in this exchange.======== Seeking Soulmate =========I'm a LIBRA, not a Virgo, although I do have a strong Virgo influence. If you think astrology and the like is bunk and/or you're not open to actually learning, discovering the truth about that which you know-not (as opposed to just swallowing what some old book says), then hit the back button, please. Thank you and toodles ;-) Please have an awesome sense of humor. I want a guy who enjoys communication, and who is intelligent and confident enough to describe himself nicely in writing or in person. Proper spelling and grammar am good ;-) Too much for me to ask? Then, babe, you're on the wrong page ;-)I know everyone says they're unique and all, but I really am :-) Look much younger than my age. On a physical level, I'm particularly drawn to kind of a mountain man look (although I'm open in that regard...any truly confident, not arrogant, intelligent guy is appealing). A well-kept mountain man, nice beard/moustache...writerly, artistic...who exercises and takes very good care of himself.Health-conscious (not optional***or more of these is part of his lifestyle: exercise, yoga, organic food, never eat junk food, etc ... Sorry, but I could not be happy with someone who wasn't also health-conscious and into exercise and taking care of their bod. You don't have to be perfect (I'm not), but you do have to be very conscientious about taking care of yourself. No Cheetos or Hostess cupcakes in my cabinets :-D More like chia seeds and coconut butter (very healthful).Also, f-o-o-t-b-a-l-l is blecky, hehe. So please don't be a lover/watcher of s-p-o-r-t-s, and big points if you rarely watch TV at all (I do love to watch comedy...SNL, Seinfeld, etc). I love nature and animals, love hiking...living in the country. I'm very creative, enjoy writing and doing just about anything with color--painting, collage, interior design, web design, etc. Art, I love art. My ideal guy would be very creative, writer, artist, loves to read, honest, very intelligent, great sense of humor, open-minded, non-conformist, compassionate, very interested in things like permaculture and solar power...organic gardening and all that :-)Hmm, what else about me. I can be intense, love to conversate--and I think I'm very funny. Non-religious spiritual, and would require the same in a partner. I'm a Libra, we make the best partners--loving, compassionate, sexy, sweet...we create beautiful, comfy homes. Very affectionate with those we love. I enjoy a wide variety of music--old rock, new country, and a little of this, little of that (pretty much anything but rap). Strong interest in metaphysics (if you don't know what that means, you're probably not the one for me, ha, it means I love things like astrology and TAROT cards, and joo-joo beans, lol...just kidding on that one, I have no idea what joo-joo beans are, lol), nonconformity, the law, human rights--especially women's and children's rights, and taking care of our planet.Under the heading of "goals and aspirations" would be freedom and self-sufficiency. I wanna live in the country, ideally very secluded, organic garden, and "off the grid" as much as possible and still be comfortable--solar power and all. I love the peace and quiet, the sweet sounds of the woods, a concert of birds on a beautiful spring morning...a deep black sky all sparkling with stars on a perfect summer evening... Well, first dates are tricky. Either ya' click or you don't. And it you don't, it's not fun. So a first date is best planned to be short-n-sweet. Maybe a coffee shop or similar. More lengthy dates that I'd enjoy would be hiking, a walk/picnic in the park, dinner at an organic healthfood restaurant, horseback riding...rent a movie and cozy it up at home by the fireplace :-)

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  • Quiana from Rutherfordton | Woman | 53 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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