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Tamia, 51
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

Offline, last seen Wed, 11 Mar 2026 18:06:34

About Me

No coffee needed! I wake up happy and ready to roll every morning!I am upbeat and outgoing with a big heart...and a mix of many opposite traits. Bright but down to earth, energetic but able to slow it all down, athletic but feminine, a sucker for a cause but not fanatical, a mom but a woman underneath. I know how to have fun in a big way (!!!) but also have an introspective, thinktank side that needs to be indulged, too. Tickle my mind and my heart, and hopefully the rest will follow. Woohoo!I'm a devoted hockey Mom, black belt sparring partner and concert roadie (fancy title for chauffeur to my son’s gigs).-time. I have all my parenting ducks in a row, and we have a great life. But I can't jet off to Belize on a whim. Though I am spontaneous by nature, right now I need to plan for it a bit. The right guy for me loves family and will understand. Together, we'll figure out how to work around it all. I don't require a specific look, however I prefer a man whose smile is wide and whose eyes twinkle. If yours do, you know exactly what I mean. I like a guy whose kindness and integrity inspire those around him. And, I enjoy a man who is active and lives a healthy lifestyle, but a perfect physique and thick head of hair are not necessary. As we age, gravity wins, though I'm fighting it kicking and screaming!My favorite kind of partner does life a lot like I do, but of course with a guy spin to it all. Together, we can read each other's glances without saying a word. We agree that text is great but talk is better. We are emotionally healthy and share our feelings out loud, generously. Our chats are energetic, two-way volleys. We laugh till our stomachs hurt. We like pillow fights and pillow talk. And, we're in a good place to build a relationship because our divorces (if you're divorced) are long done and any resulting fallout resolved. If all this sounds so good that you can't wait to get in touch, then please, drop a few lines and tell me more. I like talk (and soooo much better than text). Let's go to a quaint place with charm and personality and have a glass of pinot. Or...let's go to a brew pub and get a sampler of the latest greatests! I like comfortable, casual and memorable....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Natalia from Rutherfordton | Woman | 51 years old | Pisces
    Natalia

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I know people that have used online dating and are in wonderful relationships, so I know it can work. I am hopeful, optimistic and kind of funny. I like someone who can banter and laugh easily and I am ok with some teasing at my own expense. Confidence is a plus, over confidence....not so much. If you are generally a positive person, don't sweat the small stuff, can communicate well, don't mind a woman who speaks her mind and above all else is honest, then maybe you're the one for me. I can be up for anything from a concert, to a football game, kayaking, fishing, tiki bar hopping, checking out new restaurants, staying in and watching a movie, or barbecuing with friends. I haven't traveled as much as I would like to, so a quick weekend getaway or planned out vacation is always appealing. I am the kind of person that would do just about anything for her man and would want the same. Do we need to be together all the time, of course not, but when we see each other again, it's a very good thing! I have a wonderful family and amazing friends, so the right person would be a great bonus to my life.PS .... That's easy, we'll decide together.

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  • Dovie from Rutherfordton | Woman | 55 years old | Libra
    Dovie

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm curious, a good communicator, and a reader. I do love quiet times and going out, however, I think I'm more of a homebody than not.I love the water of any kind and am an avid swimmer.I play violin, guitar, and sing a bit. I enjoy concerts, symphonies, musicals, theater, museums, and any kind of historic tours. I am into the History, Science, and Discovery channels and I like to think I am up on string theory and star gazing lol. I have a good sense of humor and make fun of myself whenever it pleases me to. (It keeps me honest)I cook, and was once told I was wholesome and I thought that the kindest thing anyone ever said to me! I work political cycles so I travel a great deal in and out of other states. I desire a confident man who is not possessive or jealous. I am loyal, honest and forthright. I will tell you if you ask; I am Liberal and call myself a Rural Progressive. Social justice and human rights are something I'm willing to work for all folk. I don't like to be under anyone's thumb and I certainly am not looking for someone whom I would treat in that manner as well! I'm happy most days because I choose to be. Not looking for anyone to solve my problems. I have a full time job policing myself.If you can handle all the above, please message me inbox! I appreciate your review. Conversation in a public setting, preferably a cozy coffee shop or book store coffee shop.Message me inbox here and then we may communicate further ***which can be by ***, Chat or phone)

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  • Cara from Rutherfordton | Woman | 51 years old | Taurus
    Cara

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I work for hospice and love my job, of course it has made me realize that life is very short and u should always make the most of everything u do. If u love someone make sure u show and tell them every day. I avoid drama , I am tooo old for that. communication and talking to each other is very important for a relationship. Always be thier best friend and stand by them when things get difficult or when things are great. Another words be thier best friend and always be there when they need u. As most of u know without trust or communication most realtionships cant make it for long. I love the ocean any place with palm trees and sand sets me free. I love doing most anything, sports OU ! ofcourse, THUNDERS, YEA!!!! BOATING, SWIMMING, , MOVIES, DINNER, AND JUST STAYING HOME AND LAYING IN BED WITH WITH A GOOD MOVIE . SPENDING TIME WITH GOOD FRIENDS ! No matter what people say women and men can be good friends. So if I find a friendship on here and it turns out to be nothing more, then it was well worth it to me. Good Luck with ur search and god bless! First date......ummmm....... some place we can get to know each other, not to crowded or loud. Im pretty easy going, so what ever we decide together.

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