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Aiah, 54
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making German Greek Thai
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  • Lorelle from Rutherfordton | Woman | 51 years old | Leo
    Lorelle

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have four daughters: two are grown, one started LSU this fall, and the baby is a junior in high school. I enjoy participating in community organizations that are oriented toward improving and enriching my community.** I will be at work on September 16, so hopefully I will be settled in my house. *****I am looking for my happily-ever-after, but that could be simply me, kayaking and painting and writing***You should NOT message me if***you smoke heavily or do drugs- you obsess on your boat/Harley/truck/etc. because I have very diverse interests and enjoy a wide variety of entertainment- you are stuck in a rut, whether it's music, food, art (or lack thereof***again, I enjoy so many genres and cultures I am Catholic. I had checked Christian - He is so wonderfully accepting of others which fits my beliefs as well. I accept the beliefs of most other religions. I don't think I can put a box around the concept of God. Also - the 'drink socially' - a margarita w Mexican food, or something w appetizers. But I have a glass of red almost every night - that's seriously part of my health and fitness. On the relationship check box - I do want a long-term relationship, but Initially, I want to meet and see how things go, NO rush! If you read the 'long term' and 'I want a relationship', and are still here but a little concerned - it's alright. Casual activity friends are great as well. However, I hope to find my happily ever after soulmate. I love to travel, and keep a bag partially packed so that I can be out the door within thirty minutes for a fun weekend. I try to combine my favorites when traveling - I love historic sites, concerts, art, architecture and food. Souvenirs for me are small pebbles, sand or soil. (there is a connection!)I like to investigate the local cuisine, as well as any unusual places that hit my radar. Barbeque? Once home, I love to replicate the wonderful things that I experienced. Cooking is one of my joys, whether following recipes exactly to achieve a special meal, or just a from scratch, off the top of my hea d down home country dinner.Music is essential. Plainsong, baroque, classical, romantic, swing, big band, rock, alternative, some country, and marching band are just some of the genres I enjoy. I saw the "How the Edge Stole Christmas" concert with my younger daughters. The concert started at ***and lasted until ***with 6 bands performing, including Fun., Silversun Pickups, and The Joy Formidable. Now that I'm moving home, I am planning to resume my regular trips to Jazz Fest. The 'stately oaks and broad magnolias' of LSU are home to me. I have never seen the Tigers lose any game I've attended.When I said I like hiking, I really needed to have a way to make it say 'meandering and exploring'. If you are one of those hikers who sets goals and times for arrival, hmm....Biking is better. I tend to stay on the path. Canoeing is another thing altogether. I love it dearly, but most of my stops are unintentional.A good night with the family would include board games or a movie, with a big bowl of fresh kettle corn. Just the two of us? Maybe a nice bottle of old vine zin, brie with fig compote, and all the time in the world. I am very affectionate and romantic. I like hand-holding, cuddling, snuggling, hugging, kissing, etc. The etc. is important. For me, a healthy, happy relationship has a strong physical relationship. Kindness and compliments are also necessary. I enjoy sweet words, a loving touch, a note, a card, a leaf, a pebble... Just something that says I'm special to you.;What Are You Doing the Rest of Your Life?" - that's what I want. If things go well, we'll visit for a while, and then maybe we'll wander out to explore the neighborhood. As we stroll, we will chat about the different things we see, learning more about each other as we go along. If we see a cool restaurant, or hear music that we like, we may decide to check it out.(Meeting for coffee also means that we can shake hands and leave easily)

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  • Haven from Rutherfordton | Woman | 51 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi well I have decided to change my information.A little about me…I can be a romantic, but if it comes to dripping, sappy, I love you stuff every second of the day, thats over kill. I like walks, but on the beach, done it daily for the last 4 years, so again that can be over kill:) I like the quiet times, of no one talking and perhaps just some music playing, letting your mind just be blank and relaxed…That usually is pretty hard as my mind is always going. I guess if you want to know more, just ask...Please keep in mind, if you are the type of person that is worried others will know you are on here * do not have an image* do not message me. I feel if you are worried about what others think...You will just not have time for yourself.... I do love the beaches...Simple, a talk, a walk, nothing stressful.

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  • Bethel from Rutherfordton | Woman | 52 years old | Aquarius
    Bethel

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    My hobbies are listening to country Music going to country concerts gardening and walking my dogI would like to meet someone special and get to do things I have never done before with that special person.I am a fun person love to make friends and meet new people.A big plus for me would be you have to love dogs, cause my dog is my bestest friend and where I go he goes with me he's attached to me cause I rescued him from a dog killer so love my dog we are good to go. Ya gotta love Country Music I love to sing it as well when the music is on my mouth never shuts up unless you yell at me and say hey shut up. Iam not a toothpick so for you guys out there I wouldnt say Iam fat but Iam not skinny niether the only reason is becasue the city built my ass to close to the ground lol so Iam a smurfet. I hate being short but sometimes it comes in handy for things.But this is who I am, A smurfet a nice girl who isnt into head games and no one night stands and no being used. Looking for someone who is nice and will be nice to me as well. Oh yeah Iam only 4'10 told ya a smurfet.Iam the romantic type so i love to cuddle together. I might not be the prettiest girl or the skinniest girl but iam a good person and I am me and If ya just gave me the chance you might find out iam a lot of fun to be around even through I dont look like a model. Meet and see how it goes and then go from there. would like to start out with being best friends hang out get to know one another first maybe go out or not dosent matter as long as you get to know the person really well. I feel you really should get to know one another, know as much about them before it goes any farther.

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