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Arlena, 55
United States, North Carolina, Rockingham

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Note: I'm not responding if you don't have a Picture!!!! It's simply the basics for online dating. What do you think of a woman not having a picture?If there's attraction and mutual interests then step up to the plate and let's have a date...of course after a phone call. That conversation tells a lot, But sometimes Not Enough. I don't need a variety of men. I do need variety with one.Football! I love going to a game or watching it at home. Who's grilling? I'm looking for a genuine and sincere man that truly doesn't thrive on drama. I love going to new places...exploring. I'm open to a fault, but that's the way I am. I'm outgoing and I like the same. Good self esteem is important, but arrogance is a turnoff. I want someone adventurous...like me. Let's go. I'm creative and passionate. I'm more of a city girl I think because there's just more to see and do, but I love getting away .. A day on a boat is great too. I grew up near a lake. A drive to the mountains or the beach is wonderful. A concert is always good ....I got the music in me..couldn't resist. I have rhythm and can cook.... If you can cook too ..yay but not on a first date. I'd even go fishing or crabbing too.I enjoy small intimate restaurants vs a busy loud place. Good kisser scores high.I have a dog and cats. If you're allergic I'm sorry.I like to get out of town as much as possible. I don't have a curfew anymore. I read profiles and look for common interests. I don't date just to date, too much work. The guy that's probably a match for me is divorced, older kids, has more free time and misses an intimate friendship and a partner to share fun times with...I have an artsy side ... I enjoy auctions, hunting for that piece I can redo. This is my favorite time of the year..A sense of humor is so important..Here are a few more things ...Nice Manners!!.(bad breath on a first date deal breaker ) Ok..Unless we just had a pizza with lots of garlic. What I'm learning ... People Lie A lot !! Makes me sad and mad.. Kind of goes with integrity or lack of it I should say..No Alcoholics !! Slurring your words on the first date.. Deal breaker. Yep had that and the bad breath. I like " clean cut" looking men.. Biker type.. nope, but I like to ride..I just don't have the desire to kiss a Duck Dynasty man.. In your 30's Hell No.I simply note these things to not waste our time. That's fair isn't it?I can't go out with an atheist either.. I think we're all blessed to be here. Spiritual though is more important to me than being very religious. I don' t look for perfection...but someone that has a good balance and is missing someone like me to laugh and have fun with....Geaux Saints !!!! Yes, I know I live in enemy territory. Not a fast cup of coffee !! A guy asked me the other day I said no.. He said he had met a lot of trolls so that's what he does ..quick look and then if he approves of Me than I get more ...Really?? Can't wait to get to know him!! Hey we've all had a bad date or two... You can have a drink and not a second if there's no connection..Crazy crazy site ... Hate the bs, but I'm hoping there's a great guy out there that recognizes a nice and fun Woman...and not a liar or cheater.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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