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Rosalin, 52
United States, North Carolina, Reidsville

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First, I would like to say that I believe that it is what is inside that counts the most. I do, however, also believe that there has to be an initial mutual attraction, so if you are unable to share a picture, one that is recent...not 5 or 10 years old (c'mon guys...if we are going to meet...the real you is going to be standing there), it is unlikely that I will respond. Also, I have listed that I am looking for "dating" because I believe that is what it takes to get to know a person and lead to what I am ultimately looking for ..."long-term". I'm beginning to wonder if there are any men out there in this internet dating society that really can take the time to get to know someone and possibly grow in to a relationship, when the friendship and foundation is strong, rather than moving to the next woman in hopes of finding perfection (good luck on that one...it doesn't exist). If you are that man, the one that is addicted to dating sites and always looking to "date-up", I'm not the one for you. Please do not read any further and pass me by if you think monogamy is a wood or are looking for a one night stand, or feel that because you bought dinner on the first date you are entitled to free dessert, you are on the wrong profile. Also, if you have a Harley and it's something fun for you, that's great. If it's your main interest, that's great too but I'm not a rider so know we wouldn't share that interest. About me: I am a single mother of two "almost" adult children. After being the sole parent and provider for the past many years, life changed two weeks ago when I dropped my son off at college, leaving me with what seems to be "free" time on my hands...something that I haven't had a whole lot of. I work both in the healthcare industry and in the restaurant business, love my jobs and work hard, sometimes crazy hours but can be flexible for the right man. In my spare time I enjoy being social and meeting new people, trying new things, travel , love the beach, walking and working out. I am a happy person who enjoys life and all that it has to offer and do not want to be with someone that is living in their past or dwells on their ex or on negative drama. Have enjoyed and do enjoy the finer things in life, dressing up for a night out but am generally a down to earth jeans type of woman looking to have fun with a laid back kinda guy. I'm outgoing and easy going, a great conversationalist yet at the same time a great listener. Love to laugh and make other people laugh and find that a good sense of humor and being able to laugh at yourself goes a long way. People that know me say that I'm as beautiful on the inside as I am on the outside, although...I believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I don't think that I am better than anyone else or that they are better than I am but, I am picky because choosing the person to spend the better part of your life with is an important decision. I don't date just to say I have a date...prefer to be with someone with similar goals and willing to share each others interests. I have become a better person, the person that I am today, because of the things that I have experienced and the journey that I have taken and believe that what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger. Thanks to where I've been, I'm where I'm supposed to be...feeling great about life, knowing who I am and what I want.About you: You are an HONEST, faithful, respectful, yet a fun, attractive male. You are energetic, motivated, and enthusiastic about life and work hard but also like to play hard and just have fun when time permits. You love yourself because you can't love someone else without loving yourself first but you don't love yourself so much that you make it impossible for others to like you. You aren't to good for a dive bar, hamburger and band on occassion yet can find yourself easily mingling at a black tie affair. You are at least 5'10" (now, not when you were 18)...I prefer to be with taller men...sorry...just being honest. You are playful and can act silly and don’t always have to take life so seriously. You are affectionate and a one woman man. You are a "real" man who is emotionally available, has a balanced life, prides himself with integrity, is romantic, possesses passion, believes in true love and that there can be a "happily ever after" with that special someone.About us: We are able to grow with our each other yet confident enough in ourselves to give each other space for individual growth. We are independent and whole and not looking for completion or to be saved but rather someone to walk by our side, complementing each other, enjoying life together, never being able to get enough of one another, not being able to wait until the next time we see each other. When we walk in to a room together, we are proud to be each other. We trust each other without question. We pamper each other and are givers because givers belong together. We understand that two people have to "click" and know that what starts out as a friendship takes time to grow into a successful relationship...it doesn't happen overnight…but, when we get there…it will be awesome! We aren’t perfect but we are perfect for each other! The first date follows the first meeting...the first meeting is all about seeing if there is chemistry. If the initial spark is there...we will go from there...if not, we'll chalk it up to experience and maybe a new friend.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Adult Adventure Music
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