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Deedee, 55
United States, North Carolina, Reidsville

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About Me

"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music." Friedrich Nietzsche"I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am pretty, but not beautiful. I have friends, but I am not the peacemaker. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love." —;When you stop chasing the wrong things in life you aIlow the right things to catch up with you." I am about respect. Dignity. Kindness.I want to leave the world better than I found it. Pay it forward. An eternal optimist, I am a happy person. When they say "A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour" they refer to me. Have learned to let go and live the moment. I truly love life and cherish what God has given me. Value kindness.;The more a man knows the more he forgives." Life is a series of lessons. Until you "get it" you have to repeat the lesson. Einstein declared "The only mistake in life is the lesson not learned." I haven't been that outstanding in getting it right the first time. That's OK. It's called Living. "To live is like to love. All reason is against it and all healthy *** it." I have truly learned that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced our lives but we are responsible for who we become. I have learned to be my own person and not look for adoration from the crowd.I have my own style from dress to play. I do have boundaries and will not hang on a lover's cross for you. As Jim Croce sung,"It's what we do that makes us who we are." A great romantic but equally grounded. I would like to be someone's princess, but can go to the ball by myself. I posess a fierce gusto for life and the energy that goes with it. Who am I looking for?Someone to fall in love with.Someone kind. A man with a big smile, a spirit of adventure,and a great soul. A man of character, conviction, and education. Someone who is not stagnant and likes to get up and go. Especially likes to travel. Embraces change.Young at heart regardless of age. A ONE woman man. As for distance, if you are not willing to meet me halfway, pass on my profile. If you are too busy to make time for getting to know me then I'm not the girl for you. If you want to spend weeks being a pen pal, I am not she.If you make a date with me keep it. I want to live, and live it up. I seek a real man who wants to meet and get to know a real lady albeit an old-fashioned girl. I am no Mata Hari, however Mary Poppins never appealed to me either. Adventures you will have with me.There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh.So, love the people who treat you right. Forgive the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is part of LIFE...Getting back up is LIVING. "Everybody deserves somebody who makes them look forward to tomorrow." It's not the event it's the sharing. Whatever we both decide. If I had to choose it would be an outdoor cafe with a romantic setting where we can talk the night away. A place with soft piano music in the background. A hike on a nice sunny day followed by lunch or a picnic.A lake stroll and boating. Love barbecues.Bowling or mini golf.Fall and winter-soft music in background, by a fireplace, having "comfort food" for dinner, slow dancing, playing board games at home.Going to an Inn with a roaring fireplace. Driving up to the mountains for leaf changing season in the fall. Hiking, trivia, karaoke. Going to the lake on a picnic and swimming. Grilling out and walking in a park.Sailing or being out on a boat watching the sun set.Be creative. Think outside the box.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Katrice

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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  • Carlie from Reidsville | Woman | 53 years old | Capricorn
    Carlie

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a romantic at heart, but grounded. I have an optimistic demeanor, enjoy the outdoors, love to laugh, not embarrassed by tears, and know how to be playful to diffuse unpleasant situations (Just ask my students). I love to learn new things, and I value a strong work ethic. I have been teaching for 17 years and love educating kids. I have to say, though, that my students teach me wonderful life lessons, too. At present, I'm learning to play the drums by participating in a drumming circle - This is a new and fun activity for me. I'm not at all good at it, but that's not the point. I just enjoy trying and being around uplifting folks. I admire people who have overcome challenges in their life and discover and use their talents. I'm looking for someone who I feel at "home" with. The type of "home" I'm speaking of is a partner that I feel totally comfortable and at ease with. Are we not all looking for that kind of freedom to be authentic with that special person? Do you expect intimate conversations, allow playfulness in yourself and in others, enjoys travel, but is also content just spending time snuggled up on the couch watching a movie or a game, enjoys life and learning new things, desires a committed relationship, loves to show affection, and has learned the wisdom in forgiveness? If so, then maybe we should meet over coffee or a walk in the park.Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I hope you find your heart's desire. First date? Any place that is quiet enough to have a conversation.

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    Bobby

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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