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Vivian, 51

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I love my family, love being social, grew up in a sports-oriented family and value a sense of humor. I need someone with high ethics, high intelligence and not too much baggage (we all have SOME). Self confidence is very sexy and must love dogs.....I'd like to think at this stage in my life a relationship should be drama-free. With me, what you see is what you get. I work hard, play hard, love to travel and would love to find someone to do it with. The thought of dating is scary--from the awkward first date, to revealing idiosyncrasies,finding out what makes someone else tick and hopefully building a future. I grew up in a family where my parents adored each other and my brother and I knew it. I would love to have a relationship like that--I'm not talking about over-the-top PDA's, but just the underlying understanding that the other person will always have your back.Love old school R & B and pretty much anything else--never took a liking to country music--must be the Yankee in me. Love action/comedy, chick flicks and thought provoking movies. I am not religious, but I believe in God, and talk to him every day.I spend most of my time in a hockey rink or watching cross country. I would love to have a change of scenery, glass of wine, quiet conversation and to learn more about you.If anything I've said makes sense to you, let me know. Showing interest is nice, but a message is better.....and if you have taken the gratuitous picture of yourself in the bathroom mirror, please move on....**October ***Update---The art of communication is lost.....if you contact me, and I reply, we have now started a conversation. If you reply with responses and no further questions, the conversation is over. If you want to continue to converse, ask questions.....it takes two. And I am a firm believer that first impressions are important. If you haven't put much effort in to your profile and/or pictures, chances are we would not be a match. Why even bother to be on this site if you can't take the time to double check for spelling errors, or put less than flattering pictures out there? And I don't need your life history up front, but more than a sentence or two would be nice. I have met some nice guys on this site, but no sparks--I haven't given up hope. Life it too short not to have someone significant in your life. Guess the only way to find out is to ask......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sheri

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi, First off, thank you for taking the time to check me out. I am a one man woman. If you are here thinking I am easy prey to send you money cause you seem to be a little short on cash to come see me, pass me by. I respect myself too much for just dirty talk. Am I a prude? No, I am honest and if all I needed was a booty call, I don't need to be on here! I am too old for any types of head games and no interested in one night stands! I am easy going and not hard to please, its the little things that make me smile. I work very hard in my profession and take a lot of pride in what I do. I would love to meet that special someone who wants to share and help make a better life for us both. Would like to find someone that will help me be a better person inside and out. I like all types of music except rap and heavy metal. Being around friends, beach, river, pool, and just being outside makes for a great time. I hate to say it but I am competitive in some things but I try not to be so obvious. I am honest and true and I deserve to be treated with respect. As the old saying goes, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. My children, grandchildren and my parents along with my little brother and his children are VERY important to me. If you cannot deal with family get togethers then stop now and move on to the next profile. I am a true romantic and when there is that special someone in my life, I tend to try to anything and everything to make him happy. I believe in getting to know a person from the inside out, not the other way around. Beauty is skin deep but a true heart is there to stay. Don't judge a book by its cover, of you don't take time to read a couple of chapters, you might pass the best book you've ever read. The first date is always shakey and scary. Niether really know what to say or do. A nice dinner where you can talk about anything that interests you to break the ice is great. Maybe long phone conversations if there is a hint of a spark, talking is a good start. If you can carry on a conversation that can make us both laugh, then things will be a good start. I have been divorced since 95, been in 2 long relationships since but they did not work for good reasons. It takes two to make a relationship work and it has to be worked on each and everyday, it cannot be onesided. All I ask is that you be honest. Honest to me but more importantly, honest to yourself because I am not going to just "settle" because I might think there isn't someone out there that is that RIGHT person for me! I know there is that very special man out there that will take my breath away!

  • Janey

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking for love in all the right places! Don't bother me if you are not ready for a committed relationship. I'm looking to invest in my future! I've been missing out on the fun part of life, and I'm ready to be all I can be with the right partner.If you don't know how to communicate then keep on truckin' The most important & vital piece to any relationship is communication. Everything else will fall into place. I am a Romantic, PDA, would like to share time with someone enjoying sports, outdoors, water sports, motorcycle riding, and Oh yeah I can be a mechanics assistant!You must love to travel. My definition of travel can be from riding motorcycles and camping to flying First/Business Class on a plane and staying in 5 star resorts. Does this mean I'm rich, heck now I just know how to travel and love to!BTW I'm not a prude, I've honestly noted that I'm not looking for a F-buddy or just sex! I want the WHOLE thing, complete monogamous relationship. Once I find YOU- you won't be disappointed!! :-) In a public place, have some appetizers, maybe a drink to see if we are compatable and if we wish to spend time together. Once this has been decided then perhaps walk on the beach, or ride on the motorcycle.

  • Ilana

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    A person who dances with you in the rain, will most likely walk with you in the storm... Couldn't have said it better myself, but I can't take the credit!I enjoy all sorts of things from flea markets to music festivals, hanging out by a fire with friends to snuggling on a quiet evening. The woods and water; lake or stream ~ there's nothing better! I'm very down to earth, and I enjoy the little things about life.I'm not looking for games, or a drama filled life. I want someone to walk with me, not in front of or behind; I want a partner ~ someone to laugh with, love and treat like the man he is. My life is pretty complete with the exception of having a best friend, lover, companion, exploring partner, dreamer, oooh-n-aaaher, believer, did I say lover?... in my lfe...Until then ~ Keep it casual and natural ~ there's nothing better than being yourself!

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