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Ami, 52
United States, North Carolina, Pembroke

Offline, last seen Sun, 01 Jun 2025 10:15:06

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Clarifications: I am not sure if I am exactly thin. (weigh 127ish, depending on my potato chip consumption) The photos are recent and not altered in any way, so decide for yourself. Also, I am ***cm tall. One kid lives with me, the oldest visits.Usually, people assume I am in my 30s or 40s, attitude, energy, interests, etc. wise.I can be glamorous (or edgy) and I can be goofy. When it's a good tune, I dance all around the house. I am a rock star in my car. I really enjoy other people. I have lived urban, small city, rural. All are great. I am stable and dependable, yet spontaneous and able to take risks. I am passionate and enthusiastic about my work. Actually, that's true about all my interests! Really though, I do know how to relax too. (can't get enough of the beach)My perspective on things is often irreverent or unconventional, but never mean. I tell it the way I see it. I make a lot of people laugh but I am a terrible joke- I am looking for love and fun and companionship -- I am not looking to rescue you in any way; I am not looking for a provider or a protector or a toy boy. However, if you are the one for me, I will turn cartwheels for you! (former cheerleader, can you tell?)My kids ***and ***are my number one priority, without a doubt! They are amazing. Weird and wonderful. And so much fun. I am a lucky mom and I know it. This past weekend I watched my son be 'trainer' for a Major Atom AA hockey team.. Awwww. (jsyk, his tie was ugly-- but he was very handsome. and so serious. So proud I could pop!)My interests are learning and doing. Everything from fitness to psychology. Cultural events to creative arts. Reading to dining out. Marketing/business to home renos. The list goes on and on.... My goals in life are to learn a lot, do a lot, achieve a lot of my dreams, love a lot, laugh a lot....... :) I am sure we can find interests in common.I see an ongoing back and forth conversation bubbling over with energy, ideas, laughter and passion for life, often while doing things or going places! maybe hiking, going to an estate auction, painting a room, attending a concert or play, hanging out with family or friends, exploring a new location, etc. I am not willing to settle. I want a lot, but I have a lot to give! (apparently, my fave phrase today is 'a lot')And YOU? You're uniquely you! I look forward to learning about you, your ideas, interests, etc.Actually, we do need to share some of the same traits and attitudes toward life (this list is not in any order):ethical, reliable, responsible, thoughtful, trustworthy, affectionate, considerate, kindenthusiastic and energetichave got your life together, capable, financially stablenot one of those people whose lives are always full of drama physically fit, look good in your clothes.....mostly good-humoured, play well with others, friendly, prefer people to screensquite talkative, yet listen wellappreciate and respect different people, opinions and viewpoints prioritize your kids (it shows in your actions, not just your words)younger than your years and always will be able to be a team playersmart (always learning)agree that education isn't always found in schoolnot sarcastic or mean, you don't believe in revengecan laugh at yourselfable to accept (and give) love and support freely willing to let a relationship take its course (I am looking for love and like/friendship and chemistry all in one)know the value of simple things (and enjoy the finer things too)not totally obsessed by one aspect (sport, hobby, business, etc) of your life (unless it's your kids)you like hugging (like you like breathing)believe love is a joyful verb, as well as a wonderful experienceglad to be alive every daytry to see the bright side in experiences and learn from them (kinda hokey, but kinda important)It's not about public image or competitive achievement checklists.FYI, I don't like non-readers, facial hair (except eyebrows!), couch potatoes, motorcycles, homebodies, complainers, hunting, or fishing (unless we don't catch anything). Also, I don't believe the world is worse now than in the past.)bookstore (lots of ideas for conversation there, I would think)flea market?sports event?maybe we could arrange to observe each other (at a gym or somewhere) for a while to see if we like what we see?? (just thinking out loud here.... and 'observe' sounds less creepy than 'spying')what's your idea?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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