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Rolanda, 53
United States, North Carolina, Pembroke

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My previous profile was hacked into, so this is my new one. Was cantsignup.Hi there. I am honest, caring, loyal, funny, loving, friendly, out-going, intelligent, and fun to be with. I am young at heart and look younger than my age too :).. I still believe in old fashioned values. You can't receive respect, unless you give it first. I am a giver, not a taker. I get great pleasure in helping people. I am family oriented, but I enjoy going out.. I love my children dearly. I'm a package deal. My children are very well-mannered and polite. Looking for a man with similar values as mine. He must treat my children well. Looking for a man to treat me like a queen, and I will treat him like a king. I like most music, except country, blues, and jazz.I enjoy swimming, dancing, walking, bowling, volleyball, reading, billiards, badminton, darts, miniature golf, ping pong, playing cards, computer, spending time with my kids, watching DVD's (horror, action, sci-fi, mystery, & comedy), landscaping, gardening, visiting friends & family, cooking, BBQ all year round, decorating, home improvements (I'm very handy:), etc., etc. I also enjoy going to see a movie or a musical, playing board games, basketball with my kids and Rock Band (I'm the singer).I am very hygienic, romantic, funny, loving, caring, giving, classy, intelligent, loyal, and faithful. I love to cuddle and kiss. I'm an excellent kisser, and then some...:). I love animals and children, and they seem to love me too:). I'm very easy to get along with. I have a big heart and do not like fighting. I believe you should never go to bed angry......because then I will just be awake all night:).I am looking for a guy with similar qualities as me. If you are a liar, smoker, alcoholic, cheater, or abusive, please do NOT waste my time. I still believe a gentleman should open a door for a lady and I still open the door for other people as well. You go farther in life if you have manners. I want to date again and fall in love one day. I want someone to share everything with me, i.e. quality time together, some time for ourselves, to make love everyday, someone to go to sleep with and wake up with, and someone to share the bills with so we have more time to do the things that we both want to do. I want to find someone to grow old with.I am a perfectly, normal person with no mental problems. Please be the same too!!!! I can't believe how many wack-jobs are out there. If you are unstable in any way, please DO NOT contact me. If you are just into head games, & endless chatting because you don't have a life and have nothing better to do, DO NOT contact me. Aren't there any normal guys left in this world? It's unbelievable how many crazy people I have talked with and unfortunately, even met. I do not play head games. I am NOT looking for a FWB or a one night stand. Thank you.I will respond to all messages. Thank you and I await your reply. I am a lady looking for a gentleman:) Good luck to everyone that is looking for a relationship. Everyone deserves to find true love in their lifetime (especially me) as I have yet to find it. IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A BARBIE DOLL, MOVE ON AS I AM NOT ONE. I am attractive, intelligent, and have SO MUCH to offer a guy, but because I'm not skinny, most men don't want anything to do with me. If you feel that way, then thanks for not contacting me as I don't want to waste my time with superficial men. I am currently loosing weight, but I want someone to accept me for who I am on the inside, not the outside. Thank you.I am not into chatting. No time for that. Send me a message and if we are both interested, then we can talk on the phone to see if we want to meet. And guys, PLEASE no head games. I've had so many guys make a date and then they don't show up!! What's up with that? Don't waste my time. Play your childish silly little games with someone else that enjoys it, because I certainly do NOT.I've got a lot of love to give, but can't find anyone to give it too:(. I joined a gym this week ***. I enjoy being back at the gym. I look exactly like my pictures. Please look like yours too.Who's going to get me off POF? I really don't like being here. I just want ONE decent guy. I hate dating. I know some of you might think I come off too strong (even a bi*ch), but just so fed up with SO MANY guys just playing head games. Thanks.SORRY, NO PHOTO - NO REPLY. Get together for lunch, dinner, or drink. NOT Tim Horten's. Some place where we can look into each other's eyes.***WOMEN***are like APPLES***on trees. The BEST ones***are at the TOP of the tree.***MOST men DON'T want to reach***for the GOOD ONES because they***are AFRAID of falling and getting HURT.****** pick the ROTTEN apples***from the ground that aren't as GOOD,***but are EASY. The apples on TOP think***something is wrong with THEM when in***reality, they're AMAZING. They just***have to wait for the RIGHT man to***come along, THE ONE who is***BRAVE enough to***CLIMB all***the way***to the TOP***of the TREEWOMAN'S PRAYERBefore I lay me down to sleep, I pray for a man, who's not a creep.One who is handsome, smart and strong.One who loves to listen long.One who thinks before he speaks.When he says he'll call, he won't wait weeks.When I spend his cash, he won't be annoyed.Pulls out my chair and opens my door.Massages my back and begs to do more.Oh! Send me a man who'll make love to my mind,Knows what to answer to "How big is my behind?"I pray that this man will love me to no end,And never attempt to hit on my friend. Amen. Every woman deserves a man to call her baby.Kisses her like he means itHolds her hand like he never wants to let goDoesn't cheat or lieWipes her tears when she criesDoesn't make her jealous of other women *** other women jealous of her Is not scared to tell people how he feels about her And lets her know,how much he really loves her ***Put This On Your***Profile If You***Know Someone Who***Died Of Old Age***Looking For Their***Perfect Match on***an Internet Dating Site

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Vietnamese Dance
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