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Merritt, 55

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I've decided to stop by after a much needed 5-month break and can see most of the same people are still here.....I've posted some current pics, how about you?.....(BIG Smile Here)I like concerts,baseball games, fairs, tropical vacations or amusement parks. I'm a secondbaseman in a co-ed softball league, I love sports, water skiing, kayaking, snorkeling or anything outdoors (No camping...unless there's shower facilities). I work out daily and keep active to stay in shape. My music interests vary: motown, modern country, jazz, R&B, hip hop, 70's, 80's, 90's so pretty much anything you can dance to. Love the Caribbean. I'm both book smart and street smart. Please tell me what YOU like as it's not just about ME, but about US! A travel partner would be awesome!!!!I'm looking for a man who is within MY AGE range & looks close to my age. Please remember, you don't need to have EVERYTHING IN COMMON to be compatible. I'm not looking for a perfect man, just one who is "PERFECT for ME".; pepper hair, moustaches, goutees, a killer smile, tall men is a + (not a requirement), and chilvary is not dead. If you spend 99% of your time on your hobbies and 1% with your "family" or "partner", pass me by or if you're looking for friends with benefits again please pass me by. I'm just your everyday kind of girl who wants to spend time and share my life with a genuine man....eventually Long Term. FACTS: I'm NOT going to have anymore kids at my age. Please...no married men and no women either!! Love kids, so that is fine. Remove your hat, sunglasses, kids, pets as I have no interest if you have "only" pics of those. Throwing a javelin 20 yards doesn't make a person athletic. If you don't have a car, you have a very long walk. If you're a Great catch please make sure the hook is secure so you don't cheat. Please don't Sugarcoat your Profile because it's the same thing as telling a lie.....just keep it REAL. I'm Drama-Free, I've NEVER cheated, I'm honest and sincere. Relocating is not an issue to be with the right person (Prefer warm climates). As you can tell, I have a sense of HUMOR and truely am a lighthearted person. I'm 5' 7", size ***& weigh approx. ***. My career background includes: Banking, Construction & EducationMy Promise: I'll make TIME for you and the things that you like, but please do the same for me as that's what couples do! Relationships are 100% ***%, not ***, you have to give 100% of yourself in my book to make things work. I treat my partner the way I want to be treated, with respect. It doesn't matter what you drive or what's in your home, but more importantly, in your heart.........Race / religion unimportant.Life's too short so if you see an interest, feel free to contact me as I'm very APPROACHABLE. I promise to answer ALL *** I believe that's a "common courtesy". If I write to you please do the same, whether you're interested or not.....I'm a grown-up, I can take it. Thanks for viewing my profile and I wish you the best of luck in your search. Please SMILE in your profile....it looks good on you... :) Maybe a light lunch, baseball game, picnic, appetizers? What would you like? Make a suggestion, I'm flexible. No movies since we won't be able to have a good conversation or coffee (gives you bad breathe)......LOL

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ayanna

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    ~~UPDATE~~Please note...I do NOT LIVE ON A FARM.!! IF you post pictures of yourself with 3 other guys make sure you note which one is you..IF your on a dating site don't put pictures of yourself with other women in the picture on your profile..It amazes me that people add you to their favorites list yet never contact you..I put in my profile "I'm looking for friends"..yes because that's where anything has to start is with friends..I'd like to find a friend, dating is nice and hope it would lead to a companion to finish off life's adventure..So yes..Friends first....I am looking for friendship, dating, companionship..I am NOT looking to get married..I am NOT looking to move in with anyone anytime soon..I also would like to note in here that I've lost approximately 35 pounds since these pix was taken and have a few more to loose..I did NOT loose the weight because I am obese but because I felt it would help my back and make me feel alot better about myself as a person..So please just be patient til I find someone to take some new pix for me..Thank You..I am a kind, caring, loving, honest, fun, trustworthy,a giver, loyal, funny, respectful, daring, jolly, positive, self sufficient, dependable, independent, creative, romantic, relieable, supportive, "tacky" but in a good way, quick witted,a joker, smart, fashionable in my own way, beautiful inside and out, relaxing to be around, have a heart of gold, giving..I am a one man woman will give 110% to my man and our relationship and treat him as a king all I ask for in return is honesty, respect..I am NOT..Fat, desperate, needy, slobbish, dirty, whinny, reluctant, dependant, selfish, rude, ***, intolerable, B*t*hy, possessive, jealous (unless my hand is forced), mean, evil, bitter (unless my hand is forced) tempermental, pschyco, bi-polar.. I love to cook and bake and have been told I'm good at it..I just need someone to cook and bake for..I am a caring and loving person..I will NOT tolerate being lied to, cheated on or someone who steals..You will always get the truth from me no matter what is asked..I would much rather be hurt by the truth than be hurt by a lie as I will always find out in the end..I had been in a 7 month relationship with someone who lied to me and cheated on me and it was over the next day..I refuse to be anyone's second best..I will treat you with the utmost respect, love and honor and expect the same..I don't work as I was in a auto accident and have muscular injuries to my lower back and also have Fibromyalgia but I get around fine..You will never hear me complain about my pain as there is nothing anyone can do about it so I deal with it the best I can..I am a people person I love being around people and love to laugh and make others laugh with me and sometimes at me..I am a wonderful person. I am generous and love to have fun. I am very outgoing and can walk up to and talk to anyone. I don’t get embarrassed easily. I can keep up a conversation on just about anything. One thing I don’t like to talk about is sexual stuff til I get to know you but then look out as my mind will usually beat anyone's to the gutter, and I will be the first to flash if the situation is right especially from the back of a bike (it gets boring back there no one to talk to so I make my own entertainment)..Even though I might flash at an appropriate time I don't want to see the junk in your trunks..I value my family and keep track of who is where and doing what. I have a little pug that is truly my grandson. I like to keep things neat and clean. I can bbq with the best..Even though I say I don't have any friends it turns out that I really have a lot of friends. Every time I turn around I see a long lost friend. I am not looking for sex on the first date or 1 night stands. I want to get to know you and see how things progress.Something I don't understand...Everyone here is looking for someone to go out with, date, have a good time with, maybe become a life partner with..So why is it that you look at pictures, read the profile or maybe not, maybe just judge pictures but IF your close in distance why not make contact with them and see the person for who they are on the inside...I may not be a beauty queen BUT I have more to offer from the inside out than any beauty queen could ever think of...IF you don't make contact you don't know but what you might just be missing out on the best thing that could possibly happen to you..I've tried making contact with some of you with no replies...So the big question is...How can you tell by looking at someone's picture that they're not the one for you that you want to even go out with..It is nice to have someone to go out with or we all wouldn't be here..~It takes time to get to know someone. Take time when you form opinions about them as well.~**I don't need someone to complete me..I need someone to accept and love me completely..***~"Everyone you meet along life's way comes with baggage..Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack.."~*I'm here looking for my last first date..Someone to be my companion to do things with..travel and see things together..Share the good times and not so good..IF you are NOT seriously wanting to meet and get to know me..Then please do NOT waste my time..A challenge..5 dates NO sex..How many men can actually do this..Get to know the person for who they are as a person..5 dates NO sex..(NOT many that I've found that's why I'm still single)~Just Me~ your choice..use your imagination..a nice walk on a starry night..

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