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Mellie, 51

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About Me

I like to laugh...Can you make me laugh? I've had a lot of heartache in my life, but then, who hasn't? I'm a very strong person, I bounce back quickly. I always try to look on the bright side of things. I'm pretty much happy-go-lucky--life is too short to sweat the small stuff. If you like pina coladas, gettin caught in the rain.......I like long walks. Pretty much anywhere. On the beach, in the woods. I love to cook(and have been told that I'm very good at it). I like to ride horses and Harleys(not a biker chick though). I love music and I love to dance. I like any kind of music, but country and old rock are my favorites. I like surprises---e.g.--a nice hug while I'm doing dishes or grab me in the kitchen and dance with me. I guess what I'm saying is I like spontaniety. I love history. I also like ghost stories(got any good ones?).I'm really looking for a man who is honest. I can understand it if at first you are talking to more than one person on here, but there comes a time when you need to decide who you want to be with. If you're already in a relationship, please don't waste my time and yours. I don't want some woman coming to kick my ass cause I'm messing with her man. I'm honest to a fault, sometimes brutally honest. I call it like I see it. My goal in life is to live happily ever after....or at least for the next 30 years.COME ON GUYS. YOU NEED TO HAVE AT LEAST ONE PICTURE. YOU CAN SEE WHAT I LOOK LIKE, I"D LIKE TO SEE WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE TOO. I want to do something exciting. What can you think of?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ninfa

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm not too complicated to figure out so it only takes about a minute to get to know me....Ok, here goes..This is me...Who I am to what won't do:Flip flops..... to: heelsChill.... to: wound tightSeizing the day ..... to: napping it awayRock and Alternative ..... to: classicalTank tops ..... to: blousesShrugging things off..... to: letting things festerSometimes obnoxious..... to: dry and aloofCamping ..... to: 5-Star hotelsHooking up .... to: taking our timeConcerts... on the floor, pushing to the front, hands in the air ... to: seats in the mezzanine (ho-hum) Tattoo.....to: tatt-don't Speaking my mind ..... to: holding backPubs ..... to: clubsEclectic .... to: conventionalSometimes inappropriate ....; properBar-b-ques..... to: fine diningSpell Check ... to: NOT proof-reading Living for today ..... to: worrying about tomorrowTan..... to: pastyAnimal lover ..... to: "oh-No, my allergies!!)Loud Colors ..... to: blah neutralsStaying up late .....to: going to bed earlyWaking up early ..... to: sleeping all dayOutside ... to insideBeing who I am..... to: afraid of what others thinkKeeping it real.....to: dramaNon-conforming ....to: straight lacedLaughing out loud... to: not drawing attentionNot taking myself too seriously .....to: tense and worrisome Taking a deep breath ....to: panickingA little rough around the edges... to: upper crust conservativeWho cares?.... to: caring what they thinkWhy not?.... to: why?Never growing up..... to: getting old It is what you make it ..... to: it is what you make it...I raised a Marine (which I like to think makes me pretty bad-ass,) and have lost that Marine, which has thickened my skin but is an example of my resilience. Having said that, I dont flippantly use the term "Life is too short" ...I love fishing, but wish I didn't have to "fish" here... By sheer serendipity couldn't we just bump into each other in Publix in the produce department? Isn't that how it happens in the movies? So, there you have it....) We may not click, so please keep that in mind before contacting me... I only view profiles with pics (preferably smiling pics,) so if you message me, please include some....and also, I think music can speak a lot towards compatibility. Let me know when the last time you went to a concert and who did you see? Or at least the band's that are on the list... First date? Awkward probably...

  • Luba

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I think I am ready to open my heart again. It's kind of scary to start over at 51, but I know that out there somewhere is a kind, warm, nature-loving man of integrity who is looking for someone like me. I'm in a transition phase in my life right now, trying to find the balance between putting my time, energy and passion into activities and people which will bring meaning to the 2nd half of my life vs. the practicalities of everyday existence. I really admire people who have chosen a simpler life built on what is important to them, rather than what society today dictates as being important.Part of my vision for the future includes a loving partner to share the journey. I like to spend most of my free time doing things outdoors like hiking, biking, gardening and paddling my kayak, but also enjoy live theatre and music.I tend to favor acoustic music, but like just about anything but rap/hip-hop type stuff and really twangy country. I find cello music really expresses all the feelings of the human heart so I adore cello music. I especially love live music in outdoor venues.I love to eat anything fresh from an organic garden, ethnic food and locally grown and raised stuff. I was raised Catholic but am finding my spiritual needs and growth extending beyond the *** these days.I'm not perfect...I have faults, weaknesses and character and bodily flaws. I'd rather share them with you, for true intimacy comes from feeling safe enough to be vulnerable with another. I'd like you to feel safe enough to share your imperfections as well. I do wonder... ...whether I will meet someone amazing that I want to spend the rest of my life with and who wants to spend the rest of his life with me ...if I will ever have my little eco-friendly home with a huge garden, a few chickens and maybe a goat...(oh, and you!) ...how I can support myself financially doing something I love rather than just working for the paycheck (and just for the record I have no debts except my mortgage)You should message me if:...you are looking for a down-to-earth, grounded woman with simple but important values. Someone you would love to go for a hike or camping with, or spend the day playing in the garden with, cooking dinner with or just relaxing on the beach with.If you are a kind, honest, man of integrity, who cherishes the out-of-doors as much as I do, I think you should say hi.I'm sorry but please pass me by if you are a smoker or have a past, present or future substance abuse problem. I have been deeply hurt by someone's issues with alcohol and I just don't have it in me to ride that roller-coaster again.In general,"Hey", " Hi there", or "what's up?" are really not likely to get my attention, so please...if you would really like a reply, make the effort to say something of substance. Good communication is the foundation of every successful relationship, and by not making the effort on the first try, leads me to believe that you are not at all interested in this integral piece of the puzzle. Just sayin' I enjoy a nice walk and talk for a first date. I think being able to go for a walk with someone because it is a little more casual and sometimes the things you see along the way can fill in those awkward silences that can sometimes happen on a first date. I think you can usually tell after an initial meeting if the person is someone you would like to get to know (or not).

  • Lisabeth

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hi!I'm 54 and still very much active! I love the outdoors and pretty much all the good stuff u can do outside. Love to ride motorcycles, walk the beach, swim, boating, gardening, animals, or reading a good book. I am Enthusiastic about the people and things i care about. I'm Enthusiastic about LIFE! I Would like to share those times with someone special! :-))! That would be great! hmmmm~~~ can't beat that???? smiles ~~~ if u have a motorcycle Bring It on!! lol!

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