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Renay, 53

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About Me

My glass is half full. (Well, most of the time, anyway.) I love my family and my friends. I am real, and I am by no means perfect. What you see is what you get. Life is too short to be any other way. I am intelligent, fun, independent and emotionally and financially secure. I don't "need" a man to complete me but I enjoy the company of one to compliment me. (And I don't mean by saying nice things about me, but that's acceptable too.) I like to know that someone has my back, and I, theirs. I enjoy being active, be it in the gym, in a boat, or on my bike, on a long run, or in the garden. I ski in the winter and hit the lake or the beach in the summer. I row, sing and dance. I am also comfortable spending quiet evenings at home and cooking a great meal or having friends over. My friends say that I am funny and strong and gracious. I throw a great party. I had the education, the career and the family. Now, it's time to give back, volunteer, enjoy life and travel! I love lots of different music but my Ipod is certainly indicative that I have a preference for classic rock. Other artists do slip in there, though. Something informal to break the ice and see if there is chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Farrah

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Attractive femaleActive, happy I love the outdoor lifestyle our beautiful area has to offer.I enjoy day trips, outdoor dinners, boating.I love animals and naturePrefer someone who takes pride in their appearance!Would like to meet someone local who would Enjoy spending the weekends together.I have not had to much luck on here so far. SoI'm giving bit one more try . Something fun!

  • Mark

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I love thunderstorms and the wind howling and the desert and deep woods. I like to watch sports with a man who knows a lot about them and likes even better, to play them. I love to dance and pray and get my hands in the dirt. I love action movies, old westerns, Shakespeare and slap-stick comedies. I love to see what is just around the bend and be in my jammies by 8. I am cheerful at 5am sans caffeine. I love the sound of a motorcycle reving up under an overpass just because and the deep voice of a man whispering in my ear for the same reason. I prize humility, courage, loyalty, perseverance in a man as I do in myself. I love a man with arms like an anvil and fists like a sledgehammer. And the wisdom to know when to use them and when to count to ten.My father and my son are the two men I have loved and respected most and when I was encouraged by a trusted friend to list 20 attributes I was looking for in someone, I found as I compiled it, that it was a composite of them. Here it is: 1. Between 6'1" and 6'5" in height. 2. Dark blonde hair. 3. Green eyes. 4. Athletically built and a life-long devotee of physical training. 5. Intelligent AND wise (they are not the same!). 6. Well-spoken and well-read. 7. In possession of a quick wit and enjoying poking fun at himself the most. 8. Gifted musically - able to play at least two ***, one of them being either the piano, the guitar, or the bagpipes. 9. Hard-working, personally frugal, but generous to those less fortunate.10.11. A Boy Scout.12. Clean in body - abstaining from all tobacco and recreational drug use. A rare intake of alcohol. 13. A warrior - skilled in a variety of weapons.14. A supporter of Israel.15. Devoted to his mother and courteous towards the female members of the family.16. Gentle and kind to animals and children.17. A man among men -18. Reverent - a fervent love for God encompassing body, mind, and spirit. 19. Faithful - able to withstand temptation, honoring his own integrity.20. Love me in word and deed. I took this list to my father, along with the profiles of the 30 men I thought most commendable. Though he was undergoing radiation and enduring much pain, his ***'s mind was as sharp as ever. He narrowed it down to just three.As I helped my father from his wheelchair to his bed, this man leaped up and lifted him effortlessly, but in doing so, his bounded hair became undone and cascaded over my father's face. And the man who was so "old school", who got his hair trimmed every two weeks, reached up and combed his fingers through the long tendrils and said, "It is so beautiful, Tom. Don't ever cut it." Then my father motioned for me to put a CD on, one of his favorites - "Wild Horses". When it was finished, he took Tom's hand and with tears streaming, softly said, "I have played this for her. Now, you will play it."Two weeks later my father died and joined my son. I was alone now in the world and the man with the beautiful hair had compassion on me and took me under his wing. He is in possession of many, perhaps most of these qualities. Odysseus was not the first, nor the last man to have his ship turned about... ; )But I will say this - every now and then, as I do the dishes, he gets out his guitar and plays "Wild Horses".And most of the time, "Nothing Else Matters..." It's message is one I keep remembering as I wait on Odysseus, the one who would be Anam Cara...to me.KINDNESSBefore you know what kindness really isyou must lose things, feel the future dissolve in a momentlike salt in a weakened broth.What you held in your hand,what you counted and carefully saved,all this must go so you knowhow desolate the landscape can bebetween the regions of kindness.Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,you must travel where the Indian in a white poncholies dead by the side of the road.You must see how this could be you, how he too was someonewho journeyed through the night with plansand the simple breath that kept him alive.Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.You must wake up with sorrow.You must speak to it till your voicecatches the thread of all sorrowsand you see the size of the cloth.Then it is only kindness that makes any sense anymore, only kindness that ties your shoesand sends you out into the day to mail letters and purchase bread,only kindness that raises its headfrom the crowd of the world to sayIt is I you have been looking for,and then goes with you everywherelike a shadow or a friend. Well, I do like creativity and adventure... ; )

  • Elizbeth

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm hoping to find my best friend, soulmate, lover and partner in crime. I do believe in a real love relationship and know what all it entails. It is absolutely crucial to have the right balance of communication, commitment and compassion to have a good relationship. It also requires mutual respect, understanding and compromise. I'm seeking someone who REALLY understands these concepts! I am an outgoing and friendly person. I'm kind and compassionate to all living creatures, both two-legged and four-legged. I've always had a real love for animals. Music has always been a very important part of my life too and I enjoy a wide variety. I am a non-judgmental and non-materialistic person, therefore people and relationships mean way more to me then "things" or "stuff". I also really love kids...maybe it's because I'm just a big kid at heart myself lol!I do not play games, cause drama, lie, cheat, use or abuse anyone and I won't tolerate being treated that way by someone. I do keep it real so what you see with me is what you will get. I love to clown around and joke and laugh alot! Life's too short not to!The best to everyone out there in their search for love and happiness! :) Somewhere that we both feel comfortable with and agree on together. After all, it's a mutual thing.

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