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Cymone, 53
United States, North Carolina, Norlina

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I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Walking Italian Mexican Portuguese Drama Music Romance
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  • Lorette from Norlina | Woman | 51 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am an established kind hearted and fun woman looking to share my life with a kind, established man so we can explore the future together.I like spending time at home, cooking and enjoying yummy meals and relaxing on the couch with my man watching hockey!......okay and movies too. I also like being outdoors and trying new things. I love to laugh and enjoy life. I want someone who is also looking to share the simple pleasures in life.I can move easily in social circles and city life. I want to share the everyday with a good man. I would also love to travel together and see more of the world.Honesty and personal integrity are a guiding force in my life.I'm looking for a life partner. Meet for a cup of coffee and conversation.

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  • Estefani from Norlina | Woman | 51 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hello, thanks for taking the time to read my profile, I am in healthcare and are one of those fortunate people who love their job. I consider myself very laid back. Have realized if you can't change it dont sweat it. I love the ocean its where I feel most comfortable, spent alot of time surfing when I was younger and would love to pursue that again. Love waterskiing, and have been convinced to try snowboarding this winter, hoping I dont end up in traction ;) I use to own horses and rode often but unfortunately have gone through some life changes and no longer own them. Amazing animals. I have children some live with me and some are young adults and have moved forward in their lives. I adore my kids and they are the center of my world. I think at this point in time on my life I have learned to appreciate the simple things life gives us. Not a huge planner, so just play it by ear.

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  • Erika from Norlina | Woman | 52 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I moved here in Dec 05. I gave it my best and it just didn't work out. So here I am hoping to find my special someone. I am looking my last LTR I will ever have. I play the piano and ski. Believe it or not, I happen to be one of a few women that is mechanically inclined... weird?! RIGHT!I just want the look. You know what the Look is...it's when you walk into the room, we see each other... and give that smile that says no one else in the room matters. It's a visual hug. I had that once... there is nothing in the world like it!!I have a lot of love to give. I wear my heart on my sleeve. Consequently, I have been HURT A LOT because of it. I'm honest to a fault, loyal, caring, loving, giving, affectionate, truthful, very healthy and active. I look younger than I am.... Good genetics I guess...lol I am low maintenance. Games are never necessary. I am a good communicator.If you are looking for a hook up, intimate encounter pass me by. Please only sincere people. My heart can't take anymore hurt.I need a guy who is kind, very loving, affectionate, generous, honest, responsible, trustworthy, loyal, easy going and laid back. I treat people the way I want to be treated. I have a sarcastic sense of humor but know when to draw the line and can hold my own tooMy guy must know what is important in life. Too many people just don't understand this. A guy who I not only want to be with also one I can't live with out. And the same for him. I am old fashion, healthy and very active. We start out as friends and hopefully something develops from there naturally. For any good LTR you have to be friends first. Actions mean everything .. words well are just words. Do as you say!! Please make sure you are ready to have a relationship. That means committing to making time to find out if we are compatible. A lot of men say they can't find the time to meet. Then why are they here? If your serious about finding that special woman and know how to treat a real honest and sincere woman lets talk..Please be employed, financially responsible, truthful, brave enough to say what is in your heart. Be intelligent and or educated... I really like good debates.If you don't have your picture posted then be prepared to send one. Fair is Fair.WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice Meet for coffee or any thing other than coffee? Whatever we decide. Open to all sorts of things.

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