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Lottie, 54
United States, North Carolina, Newport

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I have a very playful side and a tendency to jump into tomboy mode quite often. I will admit, I can be quite the girly girl... on occasion I'll do the big hair and red lipstick! but I'm never far from jumping back into my cargo shorts to feel relaxed and in my element.. I'll take function over fashion any day.. I have no problem baiting a hook, changing a flange or tinkering in the garage.. I enjoy working with my hands and creating; a good outlet for my inner artist. I'm the youngest of three, the only girl and have been very well taken care of through out my life.. I have a healthy sense of security, well being and am at peace with life's journey thus far... I have two beautiful children, grown and out of the house; although at times, it feels like Grand Central Station as they come and go as they please. They remind me daily the importance of giving thanks and counting my blessings. I'm amazed at how secure and productive they've become... and to think I brought them into this world!!! I have one grandchild who is my everything.. talk about unconditional love! I'm so fortunate to be able to share in her life... I love the outdoors, camping, boating and exploring this beautiful state.... not to mention the art's, theatre, concerts, the multitude of festivals, there is seriously something going on year round.. I love being a native Californian! born and bred!My extent of travelbred 'abroad' falls on the conservative side, I have yet to see Europe! my dream destination... definately adding that to the Bucket List!! Hopefully, when I find my "other half" I'm not looking for a marriage proposal...(I've been divorced 14 years) not to sound cynical, it's just not a priority.... I love living life without an agenda... it's stress free and liberating.. I'm perfectly content with the idea of finding that special someone to share in lifes pleasures.. anything beyond that? well, thats another chapter waiting to be written....I keep my eyes looking up, I trust and have faith in my journey... and am really excited to start life over 50.. Best wishes too all you fishes out there.... CJWhat I'm looking for in a mate? communication, courtesy, commitment, consideration, conviction, character, compassion, chemistry, confidence, charm, chivalry, and a little cookey... okay that requires a 'K', does that start with a K? anyway, you get the picture..."may the qualities you seek, be a reflection of those you possess" First encounter.. meet, greet.... stay or retreat... ;)First date? keep it simple.. meeting somewhere common ground.. like walking thru Fishermans Wharf, enjoying the free entertainment... avoiding the awkwardness of who should pay for what! getting a feel for one another, seeing each other interact with the days festivities, talking, exchanging glances and smiles... grabbing a bowl of chowder, pulling off chunks of sourdough bread... what could be better than breaking bread together?.. did you know the origin of the word "companion" is Latin for "breaking bread together" that is so cool.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm a single woman who loves being active, riding my bike, the kind you pedal, laughing a lot, eating fantastic seafood, playing w/my beautiful German shepherds and helping people live more joyful lives! I am an OU football FANATIC and have gone to the games since I was seven yrs old, so look out guys, I know my football!) If you're looking for a foofoo Barbie doll who melts down from a broken nail, you will not like me. I am at my most comfortable in a tshirt, shorts and ballcap, but can dress up if someone broke into my house and held a gun to my head...My profile pic is a publicity shot for a small book I wrote, but I don't usually wear that much makeup, and yes, it's really me and it's not from a quarter of a century ago. Not big on taking pictures. I can be classy, I can fish, sometimes I fart when I laugh, and I can hold an intelligent conversation w/anybody. It's the simple things that rock. I am so tired of men who want to have sex on the second date! Geez, we're not MONKEYS! Can't think of anything less attractive than cramming my tongue down the throat of a man who is unwilling to take the time to make a deep connection. Win my heart and you can have have it all. I want to actually DATE, romance, develop best friendship, love the man who's got my back, you know. The man I want to call first when I get good news or bad, because I know he loves all of me. To me, that's when everything is really good, how about you? If you're looking for a quick roll in the hay, move on. Anyone can do that - I'm interested in the man who wants the whole package and is willing to take the time to get it.I'm active and sporty, but probably will always be trying to get in better shape. I have well-earned lines on my face. I'm 49 and proud of it, because it means I have survived everything life and people have thrown at me for half a century. I'm fiercely determined when I have a goal and hopelessly loyal. I like all kinds of music, especially jazz and blues and classic rock. I want a deep connection w/someone I can count on, a guy who would hold my hair when I puke kind of guy. I work in mental health, love what I do, and enjoy each day. I have learned that no matter the current trouble, the blessings of life always outweigh the crap! Life is short - eat dessert first! Especially if it's chocolate. Cheer hard, laugh easy, and love deeply. Today is all we've got. Make it count. For a first date, hmmm... Like to be casual, be myself and laugh easily. Would be a great start!

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am straightforward, say what I mean, mean what I say. Not out for a one nighter or anything like that. And yes ..I am 51...not afraid to say it but sure tired of hearing about it.I would like the company of a man who enjoys backyard bbq's , appreciates nature and family and most of all, doesn't get senselessly drunk. ( yea I said that)I have always been one to give more than I get and would like to meet someone who keeps things at an equal balance.I am honest and straightforward .I will be happy making friends and if I find a keeper I will be happier.Yes , I have had good and bad relationships and I don't mind talking about them or yours. they are not drama, just life that happens to us.I do my own thinking and like a man who is also an individual.One thing I won't do is tell you that I act much younger than I am or any of that nonsense. I am not into the perpetual pursuit of youth , time stops for noone and I am who I am.Age never makes a relationship, people do. I will meet you at the lake or maybe a quiet coffeebar.I absolutely won't go meet someone at a bar.

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  • Giana from Newport | Woman | 52 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Looking for someone to hang out with, enjoy life & grow old with. Love the beach, sun & sand--but a pool will do.Enjoy relaxing on the patio, grilling, family dinners. Have 3 grown daughters, the 2 best grandkids who i just adore.Havent dated in decades so this is very new & scary to me, but im open to new experiences Something casual - lunch, drinks ?

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