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Lottie, 54

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About Me

I have a very playful side and a tendency to jump into tomboy mode quite often. I will admit, I can be quite the girly girl... on occasion I'll do the big hair and red lipstick! but I'm never far from jumping back into my cargo shorts to feel relaxed and in my element.. I'll take function over fashion any day.. I have no problem baiting a hook, changing a flange or tinkering in the garage.. I enjoy working with my hands and creating; a good outlet for my inner artist. I'm the youngest of three, the only girl and have been very well taken care of through out my life.. I have a healthy sense of security, well being and am at peace with life's journey thus far... I have two beautiful children, grown and out of the house; although at times, it feels like Grand Central Station as they come and go as they please. They remind me daily the importance of giving thanks and counting my blessings. I'm amazed at how secure and productive they've become... and to think I brought them into this world!!! I have one grandchild who is my everything.. talk about unconditional love! I'm so fortunate to be able to share in her life... I love the outdoors, camping, boating and exploring this beautiful state.... not to mention the art's, theatre, concerts, the multitude of festivals, there is seriously something going on year round.. I love being a native Californian! born and bred!My extent of travelbred 'abroad' falls on the conservative side, I have yet to see Europe! my dream destination... definately adding that to the Bucket List!! Hopefully, when I find my "other half" I'm not looking for a marriage proposal...(I've been divorced 14 years) not to sound cynical, it's just not a priority.... I love living life without an agenda... it's stress free and liberating.. I'm perfectly content with the idea of finding that special someone to share in lifes pleasures.. anything beyond that? well, thats another chapter waiting to be written....I keep my eyes looking up, I trust and have faith in my journey... and am really excited to start life over 50.. Best wishes too all you fishes out there.... CJWhat I'm looking for in a mate? communication, courtesy, commitment, consideration, conviction, character, compassion, chemistry, confidence, charm, chivalry, and a little cookey... okay that requires a 'K', does that start with a K? anyway, you get the picture..."may the qualities you seek, be a reflection of those you possess" First encounter.. meet, greet.... stay or retreat... ;)First date? keep it simple.. meeting somewhere common ground.. like walking thru Fishermans Wharf, enjoying the free entertainment... avoiding the awkwardness of who should pay for what! getting a feel for one another, seeing each other interact with the days festivities, talking, exchanging glances and smiles... grabbing a bowl of chowder, pulling off chunks of sourdough bread... what could be better than breaking bread together?.. did you know the origin of the word "companion" is Latin for "breaking bread together" that is so cool.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Differences are not always obstacles... dating casually, leading to finding a person I really enjoy being with and conversing with. I enjoy someone who is spontaneous and a person with a good sense of humor. Different people have different ideas about what is beautiful!! It's all relative!! Ask me what I meant by my previous statement!! It is great conversation!! Ask me, I'll be glad to answer any question you have... In the early stages of dating, when hearts are not fully open to each other, I depend on our feelings of attraction and interests that that leads to the next date. I'm an Educator, Professional Counselor, and Life Coach ~ Believing in Living Life with Passion And Purpose... I enjoy the outdoors, hiking, mountains, the beach, sports, and love the water, and the snow! Swimming with the dolphins! Skiing down a mountain, horseback riding and traveling when time allows. I am an extrovert... I enjoy meeting people!! I also believe that we all need to take a break for ourselves! Honesty and Respect is huge!! And I believe that laughter is a great remedy for just about anything!! I am an outgoing woman, strong and assertive, and am a good blend of traditional and modern values with morals. I love sports, singing for fun, dancing, music and jumping in my truck and taking a drive out in the country on a dirt road. I am looking for an ambitious, energetic, spontaneous and courageous guy who is honest, respectful and can make me laugh... The mind is very powerful and I believe in creating a positive outlook in everything! I am a firm believer in God and have an optimistic attitude. I have completed my studies in the subject of psychology and teaching, which helps me understand nature of people, which I find in each person, unique in your own way!! I'm looking for a caring, loving and honest guy who is full of energy and is spontaneous. Communication and the sharing of one another can create the best of friends. Every relationship is a gift! Wishing you all the best... Hopefully this journey will be a healthy one for all of us!! First date, anything casual and simple! A meeting for a beverage and conversation together which allows for smiles and laughter, with no expectations.!

  • Elvera

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I love to relax with my lover by the fireplace in front of the T.V or on the beach under the stars on a blanket, with a glass of red wine.I want a man I can count on., not looking to be someones one night stand looking for a relationship ......I don’t like games .i'm looking for companionship, honesty, comittment, being romantic, best friend and lovers I want him to be clean and smells great.brushes his teeth. I do all of these things I love a clean man. I work alot. I like to work out. I love to watch sports Football is my favorite , i like to play the stock market. I like to take a ride in my convertible at night when it cooler.... maybe go a a nice dinner date or meet for a drink or a cup of coffee, going to the movies

  • Alene

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am very outgoing, but painfully shy.I am confident about who I am, but a little insecure about other people discovering it.I am very affectionate, but need my alone time.I am very athletically minded, but have to put my mind to it.I am very playful, but not into playing games.I am a trouble shooter, but try to stay out of trouble.I love to be held close, but don't need to be held up.I've been affectionately called "Silly Girl," and that I am, but I am also very mature and responsible.I am a multifaceted woman, but want a one-woman man.I know that I am loved so amazingly by my perfect Lord and Savior, but still want that same unconditional love from someone not so perfect.I just want to meet someone who completes me and I complete them. Someone to love, honor and respect. Someone who desires to be with me as much as I crave to be with them. Too much to ask for? Well maybe, but I'm not settling for anything less.I am a very adventurous and tenacious person. I still pursue many of them. I swim a mile everyday that is not already spoken for. I have recently tuned up my road bike and find that two hours can go by in no time. What an exhilarating way to get those endorphins going! I like to walk the track at the gym and every now and again it might even turn into a run. I am hoping that the man God has for me also has a love for the outdoors. I am not a girly-girl. I very much enjoy getting dressed up for a day at the theater, a nice dinner, or similar social event and I know how to handle myself in those situations; but I am most comfortable being comfortable.

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