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Alvena, 24

United States, North Carolina, Mebane

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About Me

So if you have read my profile in the past, I can promise you.... It's a new me!I am a very involved person. I live every day in a way that benefits others, while putting myself last. When I'm not teaching children to dance, visiting my "little" I have a 1 year old nephew that means the world to me and I will do anything in my power to make certain that he lives an amazing life.I love to talk and be around people, but sometimes, I find myself wanting to curl up with a good book or a funny movie and just veg out. Sometimes I put too much on my plate and I love when I have a night off that I can just cuddle up to someone I care about and relax. I have three tattoos and if you don't like it, thats fine. But respect the fact that they have meaning and I didn't just get them for no reason. I will not judge what you do with your body, so I hope you can respect my tattoos. I have put them all on my stomach/back/hips region for a reason. This way, I can always cover them up and no one will ever know. I have never done drugs, never smoked a thing and do not plan to. To be honest, I would never date anyone that does it either. I want a man with a clean slate and doesn't get into trouble all the time. I have a high level of maturity and needs the man I am with to also. That doesn't mean we can't joke around and act like kids every once and a while, because trust me, I am a kid at heart. But, there is a place and a time for that. My religion plays an important role in my life. I do not go to church every weekend, however, when I do get the chance to go, it fills a void that I have in my heart. My family brought me up as a Catholic and I will continue to be one, with some mismatched beliefs. I am not the person to shove beliefs down anyones throat because I respect all religions. If you find it necessary to have shirtless pics as your main pic, don't MSG me either, because I most likely won't MSG you back. I find it sad that men want to show off their oh so sexy abs, in order to get girls. I'm looking for someone who has an amazing personality, not necessarily amazing abs.... To all the fully clothed guys... Please msg me :)I put my education and my family right now, before ANYTHING. If you have a problem with that, I'm not your girl. I find school extremely important and until I am out of school, a boyfriend will come second. However, that doesn't mean I won't spend time with you. It just may mean that our nights spent together include a few hours of me studying and you reading a book if you are not still in college. It's not that I don't want to spend time with that special someone, it's just that I put my educational success in front of most things right now. Everyone has asked me what i am looking for in a guy, Here it Goes: I want someone who is successful and knows where they are going in life. I want a guy who loves his family and will love mine too. I want someone who isn't all about sex and will take the time to do the little things in life that are fun, like carving pumpkins for Halloween and helping put up the Christmas tree. I want someone who loves sports and respects and encourages my love of dance. I want a family man, someone who loves kids and will be a great dad, there is nothing sexier to me then a man who can surround himself with children and love every second of it. Since I plan to go into Special Needs teaching, I need a man that is respectful to those with disabilities, and who would be willing to help out in my classroom on a day off. I'm not saying anyones perfect but I want a guy who loves me for me, and brings out the best in me and himself when we are around each other To me, the first date is the most important date. This would be spent getting to know the person, and in a setting where you are able to chat. Some like to go to movies on a first date, but I would rather go to a park or out for coffee. This way you can sit with one another and talk. A date where you don't talk (the movies) is useless.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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