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Merla, 25
United States, North Carolina, Kings Mountain

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I am kind of a homebody. Chubby, love to sleep just hang out. I enjoy having long deep conversations, particularly of the philosophical nature, and to over analyze the reasons for things. Trying to figure out the big WHY in life is something I enjoy thinking about and bouncing off of other people.I enjoy playing console video games, and would like to take the step into the PC gaming world.I like food (one doesn't get fat by not eating) ... And really, who doesn't like eating? I do try to eat healthy, I don't actually like soda, but quality chocolate is my vice... I drink a lot of water.I'm not a movie buff, I don't want to be with a movie buff, I'm not interested, but I do like to watch movies and the occasional TV series on Netflix from time to time.I like to learn about space and science advances and history and human nature and human sexuality... And human sexuality... Indeed. That is a subject everyone enjoys talking about, right? Maybe not everyone, I know some people are very uncomfortable with it. I am not, at all...Moving on, because if I don't I will write far too much about one subject and nothing else about myself... I am working through a temp agency, the job is hard and filthy, and the pay sucks, but I am just happy to have a real job that is steady. The past few years I have tried to start my own business and have done odd jobs, but it was very unstable and I had to live with my folks to survive. It is nice not living with them now, but I still don't have my own place yet, I am working towards that and will land an apartment soon, I hope.I don't smoke cigarettes, I don't really like being around it that much, but so long as you don't smoke inside and don't reek of smoke, I can handle smoking. I do use the e-cigs, the ones from Vapology, and I only started doing that because I liked how they taste. I drink a couple times a month, only to the point of getting tipsy, I don't enjoy being drunk and I don't really like being around drunk people very often. I never go downtown, don't go to bars or clubs, I don't party often. The occasional birthday party or house warming, special occasion parties, and usually drink at those, but those parties don't come around that often.I like heavier music, if I listen to the radio, it's usually The X. I also really like Switchfoot and Jars Of Clay and some softer, but lyrically meaningful artists. I enjoy blasting dubstep in my car. I don't like rap because the lyrics are worthless. I don't like a lot of pop for the same reason. I do like a good beat, but if I can't get over the stupid lyrics, I can't enjoy the song... Which is why dubstep is great, all the beats, less of the stupid lyrics.I have a gym membership, but I never go... I would like to go, I would like to have someone to go with who would motivate me to be healthier. I want to loose weight, because I know I have an amazing body under all this fat.I have a cat. She stays, end of story.I like alone time sometimes, I need a little bit of it every day. I think it is healthy for a woman to go out with her friends and for a man to go out with his friends, I think separation is healthy from time to time. I need my space, and so do you. also, most of my friends are men, and I won't be too jealous if you have female friends, although getting to know your female friends would be beneficial to me not becoming jealous and protective when it comes to you hanging out with her. I would expect you to get to know my guy friends as well. I'm not generally the jealous type, I have only felt it a few times in my life and I remember it because it is a strange and unwelcome feeling for me.I want a man who is a man. I am not interested in a boy. I have met too many boys, sometimes even in their 30's and just didn't grow up. I don't want that. I am not motivated by a boy. I am not turned on my men who are childish. I want a man who takes care of his things, is good to his family, keeps his home clean, and takes care of his body via proper nutrition and physical activity. I want a man who knows how to make a woman's body feel good, knows how to make her feel valuable and beautiful. I want a man who wants me, but doesn't need me. I find watching a man clean and work to be an incredibly sexy thing. That is a man who motivates me to be the kind of woman I think he deserves, I work to be a better woman for that man. I try to be pretty and smell good and be clean and sexy for a man who does man things. I love man hands, rough and no stranger to hard work and scaring.Well, at least I know what I want, right? The bit about myself was pretty random, but when I got into what I am looking for I went somewhere else, to a different part of my brain. Don't take me to a movie. A first date is the time to make a good impression and get to know a person, not to see a movie... Dinner is always good though, food has always been a social event for humans, and Americans seem to have lost some of that. Food brings people together. Take ladies on food dates!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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