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Niel, 48
United States, Missouri, Ashland

Offline, last seen Fri, 03 May 2024 21:54:19

About Me

I am an active, healthy, professional who is looking to get to know a sensitive, intelligent woman who doesn't play games. I enjoy my life and know who I am, am very dedicated to my family, and have two daughters at home half time. They are amazing, and I am committed to raising them properly. I am energetic, like to stay in shape, and am quite conversational. I love music, and being around people. I also love my quiet time. I like to laugh and have fun, and tend to be comfortable around those who aren't pretentious and can laugh at themselves. I enjoy getting to know others, am attracted to someone who knows who she is and has a solid foundation. I am young at heart, work hard, and try not to take myself too seriously. I have recently decided to start dating after becoming single again three years ago. I am not in a hurry to get attached, though am not afraid of commitment. I was a faithful husband for 15 years, very involved in raising my girls, active in my church. My relationship with God is real and I have come to understand that when I am not focused on His Will I get a bit self conscious and selfish. The tough stuff has made me who I am, and its kinda strange that its taken 48 years until I could learn enough about myself and others to feel that I could have a really healthy relationship. I like where I am and the peace in my life, and have this growing urge to share that with a special lady. I am looking to meet a woman who is caring, sensitive, can be spontaneous and yet not drowning in chaos. Who can be vulnerable but not too needy. One who loves God, enjoys children, and can be accepting of the two most important girls in my life, who would eagerly accept you. That's just who they are. Loving animals and music would certainly be helpful, as my home tends to have its share of both. And love. Gotta know how to do that. And I'm not talking about getting wild on the patio, though being comfortable with your sexuality and passionate about your desires would definitely add to a relationship. I'm talking about can we get out of our own ways enough to notice the needs of others and respond to them even when we don't want to? Cause the warm fuzzies don't last forever and if we're not friends then what's the point? Ok so I added some stuff to this profile after a few weeks because it seemed a bit, well, clinical. I also want to say one more thing to all you lovely ladies. First, thank you. For reading this, yes, but just for subjecting yourself to the craziness of this online stuff and to the way some of us guys can be. And second, I'm not that guy. If I was just looking to get laid I wouldn't spend the time and effort to do all this. There are lots of attractive and willing people out there in life, but there are some of us (yes, even us men) that need more than that. I will be respectful of you, and treat you as the beautiful creature that you were created to be. In return, I only ask that you do the same. Don't be rude. If you aren't interested I can take it. If you tell me lies I'm gonna see through it eventually, and if I offend you somehow, let me know. I'm still learning. Thanks for letting me share. Happy trails. I have found that it takes sitting down with someone to get to know who they really are. A first date should be simple, in a comfortable setting, with the opportunity to get to know each other. I'm pretty flexible in doing whatever helps you get past the weirdness of meeting someone for the first time, and am open about sharing who I am, and my hopes and dreams.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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