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Abihu, 47

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About Me

Hey, thanks for stopping by! Although I am a writer, I find writing about one’s self to be one of the most difficult things to do. So, rather than create an encyclopedia about me, I’ll try to just stick to the highlights. I am the nice guy your parents always wanted for you. I open doors, pull out chairs, listen to you, bring you flowers occasionally for no reason, and clean up pretty well so you won’t be embarrassed of me when we go out. However, I am also the man you wanted for yourself…I can be very romantic, affectionate, passionate, and respectful of you in every way when those very special intimate moments occur. Whatever your desires, I can fulfill. I am not into playing games or being just a number in your little black book. I am looking for my soul mate. I want the fairy tale, the dream, the woman who makes my heart skip a beat every time I see her. I hope that’s not too much to ask. OK, so what do I like to do? The simple answer to that is…anything! Anything can be fun with the right person. Consider me a blank canvas in a way…I enjoy many things, but I like to learn about your interests and share those with you as well. But, to give you an idea…I enjoy going to a quaint little jazz club for a drink and listening to live music. Taking my car out for a long drive with the top down is wonderful therapy. Travel (when I can), movies, books, art galleries, fine dining, sporting events, BEACHES, mountains, water sports of any kind, and everything in between are all favorites. I can be just as comfortable at the symphony as I am at a campsite. Going to visit friends and family for a BBQ on the deck and a cold beer in hand are excellent ways to spend an afternoon.-watching, sidewalk cafés, road trips. I would love to find that special someone to cuddle with as the snow falls outside, or a thunderstorm rumbles the windows. I want to casually stroll along, hand-in-hand on a lazy afternoon of window-shopping. Maybe we could stay at home and cook a nice meal together by candlelight, or have a lot of friends drop by for a dinner party? My time is occupied with being a single father to my wonderful 15 year old son, and taking care of my home. I am not a wealthy man, but I have been fortunate enough in my life to experience how the other half lives and I like that side of life. But the person within is so much more important than any amount of material possessions. Religion and politics are always issues that seem to arouse a lot of passion in people. So, let me just say I do believe in a God, but I don’t believe going to a stained-glass structure every week or reciting passages from a book make you any better than anyone else. If that is your thing, that’s fine…just know I am not one who makes a habit of such things. As for politics…well…I am mostly on the conservative side of the fence, but I have had very wonderful relationships in my past with others who were of the opposite viewpoint. The bottom line is…it doesn’t matter. What does matter is the person you are…deep in your heart and soul. Well, that’s about it…so much for not writing an encyclopedia! I know there is so much more to a person that a few paragraphs can convey. So, if you’d like to get to know me better, just ask. I’d love to hear from you! First date would probably be a quick chat over coffee or some such thing to get acquainted. If things go well, I love walks in the park, picnics, convertibles, people-watching, movies, fine dining, etc. Also, I love just hanging out, cooking together, watching TV, or going to a sporting event. Try me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Basil

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    Being married and all that that entails has taught me some great lessons: how to love unconditionally, I'm not perfect but I try. I'd like to find someone that takes pride in themselves and is proud of me. I love to laugh and make people laugh. I'm a very positive and upbeat person, even at work. I figure if you have to do something, be the best at it and have fun doing it. Other people you come in contact with don't deserve negativity because you're in a bad mood. Oh yeah.....that's another lesson I've learned......even when things are unbelievably bad at home... you can still make it a good day. I've got a lot to be thankful for....and my daughter in college is one of them. It's a waste of time dwelling on the bad and negative things in life and life's too short to hang out with people who do.As far as occupation goes, I work from home as an oil & gas recruiter. Spent the majority of my life as a high school football coach....was also a principal for a while too."....It will not last the night, but..ahh, my foes,and oh my friends....It gives a lovely light" -

  • Shannon

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55

    New to this like many out there . Been single for about 8 months , interested in casual dates and see what happens . I have no kids, but would date someone with older children . I live in NJ and would prefer to meet someone in the state .I am physically fit and healthy . I own my own business , that keeps me busy, but always find time for down time ..I have traveled extensively in the Navy, and enjoy traveling .

  • Nevil

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55

    I like the outdoors walks reading by the lake more upon request

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