SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Malik
Online
Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
I’ve met a lot of women on this site but didn’t find what I am looking for. I even quit looking because I was so frustrated. I became involved with my best friend, but it turns out we’re better friends; no sexual chemistry and without the chemistry, it was impossible to move forward. Anyway… I’m back trying to find the one. More about me… I’m not perfect, but I try real hard to be a good man. I'm an IT consultant with 17 years of consulting experience along with 16 years IT experience working for the DOD. I am currently between contracts looking to secure another contract opportunity, which subsequently has slowed down my attempts at dating. I have a 17-year old daughter who I love with all my heart but I rarely see. She works and lives with her boyfriend so I’m the last person on her list. She will be going to college in the fall and then it’s just me. I know a lot of people but have few “true” friends, which is somewhat less than I prefer in the grand scheme of an enriched life. Being single has been difficult at times and I find the only place to meet woman, who aren’t “frightened” by men, is in bars. I don’t know why but women seem to get freaked out if you approach them anywhere else (book stores, coffee shops, grocery stores, women’s restrooms….just kidding). Although I enjoy live music and go out on weekends to see bands at local bars, I’d rather spend my time outdoors, camping, barbequing, and picnicking with a quality woman. I am a songwriter / musician too but don’t play in a band anymore; I just write and record at home. I also write poetry and editorials when inspiration grabs me. I’m looking to enrich my life and without that special one or being with my daughter, it’s nearly impossible. I’m truly a social person but living a fairly solitary life unless I go out on the weekends but that gets old when you are alone the majority of the time.I don’t like beating around the bush so be direct with me if you want to know something. I’m direct and I find that being honest is truly the only way to communicate. If you are looking for someone who is honest, faithful, integrity-minded, intelligent, funny, talented, goofy, playful (not always) and who is serious about finding that one person to share a life with, drop me a line. I hope to hear from you.A couple of closing statements to manage your time as well as mine: if you’re not smiling in your photos, don’t waste your time contacting me. I’ve learned from personal experience that most women who don’t smile in their photos are generally unhappy and I’m looking for the lighter side of a personality. Also, my daughter is about to start college and I'm not looking to get involved with anyone with children still living at home. I'm looking forward to the freedom being an “empty-nester” offers and hope to find someone with this shared belief. Hmmmm....first date. That could go in a lot of different directions. How about an elegant dinner, sitting next to a fire, drinking some wine, listening to soft music, over candlelight. Visual enticements with me enjoying looking at you, you enjoying looking at me smiling...maybe even seeing a twinkle in your eye. Lot's of genuine laughter throughout the evening...complete with intellectual and stimulating, yet not so serious conversation wrapped in a warm comfortable familiar feeling. Maybe a midnight stroll or carriage ride if the weather permits. To close the night, a warm, sensual, sweet tasting electrified kiss which we are both excited about. Yep, that sounds preetty wonderful to me. If you're uncomfortable with the above, we could go to a regular resteraunt, and maybe to a movie, or a wine-tasting, or a show in the loop, or listen to a blues band in Soulard. There are a lot of wineries in the area, we could check one of them out... How about a cafe in St. Charles?
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Jeramy
Online
Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55
Yep I'm a trucker so right off the bat ill lose about 75 % of women's interest. I'm not that great looking either so there goes another 20% so the 5% of ya that's left I'm loving and caring and giving. I love sunsets and sunrises, trips to the beach long walks on the beach. I play a little guitar and sing at the bonfires. I work away from home during the weeks but I'm home every weekend. I'm not a womanizer I care about people's feelings and I'm softhearted. I would never cheat or make you feel insignificant. I believe soulmates are developed thru hard work and equal effort. So lets talk about it.Update!! Don't ya just love it when you try to be nice to some people with a kind word or gesture and they don't even dignify your effort with a response? Oh yea and the people who think their so much better than you are. Lol. I'm so over this online "non" dating crap. Thanks to those who showed interest and for the conversation. Update!!For some reason I can't read my messages on here. Sorry but I can't read them or reply to them so First date should be simple. Maybe meet for lunch or coffee or a picnic in the park and a walk thru the park.
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Eamon
Online
Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53
Hello there, can't believe I'm on here but it is what it is I guess LOL...I have only one desire, and that is to be happy and find someone that will be happy and content as well in regards to a relationship. I have no hidden agenda(s), consider myself honest and compassionate as well as a people person. I'm currently legally separated awaiting my divorce to be finalized. In my description there wasn't a choice in between average and athletic which is where I would classify myself currently. I have one child who is in college. I am an active person, enjoy various sports and trying to keep as fit as my schedule allows. Me like many others have graduated from the School Of Hard Knocks and hoping that my education has taught me a few life lessons ;) Whatever allows us to get to know each other better in a relaxed atmosphere. I've been told I am easy to talk to/communicate with & am enjoyable to be around :)