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Jolyon, 47

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About Me

Is honesty what women really want ? ...I sometimes wonder because I see so many profiles on here of women just wanting a good honest guy, well I'm a good honest guy just looking for ONE !! Nice, honest & attractive woman after being separated for over 7 years now...I'm not !! and have never been into dating multiple women at all, I love !! Being the father of 2 great girls, working out, my job, watching movies, playing sports games online, spending time with family and friends when I can ...I usually have 1 or both of my daughters on most Friday nights and getting sick of spending my Saturday nights alone ...Also looking to come off this site ASAP IF I find the right woman for me ...Could easily hide the fact that I'm only separated and not divorced if I wanted, but I believe in being totally honest about everything ...I feel you need to live one day at a time and appreciate everything you have in life Especially !! where we are living in the best country in the world and my time in the U.S. Army's 82nd Airborne 25 years ago made me realize that more than anything else ..Not to fond of Getting older : ( Like most people !! BUT staying active keeps me from feeling older. I'm not a real shy guy and I prefer, miss & enjoy staying in and cuddling to a good movie with the right woman and all the affection and passion that comes with having a great relationship ...What might be weird !! is the kissing part is actually my favorite part of passion & affection and it's probably what I miss the most ...Hey separated guys like me need some luv'n to : ) ..Sure do miss them HOT !! nights of passion with someone I care about and also them quiet mornings of cuddling together ..I think I'm a pure example of how they say " The 40's is now the new 30's " I'm probably just an average looking man at best, but at least I'm NORMAL, have a heart, honest, still have a pretty good build, and been TOLD !! I'm a good father, a great kisser, very affectionate and have a great sense of humor.Not looking for a serious relationship at first and I do believe that being friends first is very important in any type of relationship, however you never know what might happen when that right one comes along and I guess that's what I'm really hoping for ..Don't like drama !!, playing games !! or a high maintenance woman ...Adore a woman who is young at heart, family oriented, honest, great sense of humor, takes care of herself mentally & physically, has common courtesy and looks at life in a positive way. Physical attraction is important, but looks are not as important to me as long as a woman has a good all around personality and stays in pretty good shape physically ..Having a great sense of humor is a BIG !! Plus in my book because I'm usually pretty good at making people laugh and I also prefer a NON-SMOKERI usually workout 2 or 3 days a week and I'm in good shape for a man my age. I also do my best at trying to eat right. I'm not rich !! But I pay my bills ..Currently living with my sister in the house I grew up in ..My 2 daughters 15 & 17 yrs. old, who are usually with me once a week, are still the 2 most important people in my life and remaining a good father to them has alway's been my #1 priority ...They are both little track stars and I enjoy going to there track events when I can ... This is a tough call because everybody is different, but I prefer the traditional 1st date of chatting over dinner and few drinks or just meeting for coffee....I love coffee by the way !! : ) ...Even now at 47, I still enjoy a night out dancing every great once in a while at a singles dance or a Jack & Jill and it would be nice to find a woman who also enjoys that as well, but keep in mind I do know how to dance "even with my bad knee" : ( ..Believe it or NOT !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Imlah

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    Hello there...... Larry here and i am looking to meet someone with some similar interests as mine. I really enjoy the outdoors and spend lots of time in the garden as well. Ive been on the organic track for a few years now and find while its hard work , the rewards are incredible! :) I also enjoy writing music and singing , so if you wanna duet partner here i am :) I find the creative process of writing music to be a very powerful experience...... Im diverse and have depth yet im a huge fan of simplicity. Yes, simplicity and truth are two of the cornerstones to my foundation. Theres lots more to share with you about me and my world so come say hi :) Im looking for something real, something passionate, something comfortable....... peace to you!

  • Duff

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    Hello, and thanks for your interest!I'm an upbeat Dad of two terrific kids, and am looking for that special woman who doesn't complete my life, but is a great complement to mine. I love to laugh and joke, and often use myself as the subject of my laughter. After all, if you can't laugh at yourself, what fun is that?I enjoy anything having to do with music, and am an avid reader. During the summer months, I like to take evening walks, go camping, and go bicycle riding. I also enjoy model aviation. I enjoy movies, whether watching at home, or in a darkened theater. Bring on the buttered popcorn!I love most 80's music, and some country, but don't get much enjoyment out of rap music or really heavy metal. Classic Rock, Christian, even some New Age are good, but punk and screamo don't do it for me.I look forward to getting to know you, and seeing where we might go together. If you're interested, please drop me a note. Oh, and good luck with your search! Let's get together for coffee, or go for dinner. Italian, a steak house, seafood, etc. Your choice! :-)

  • Mervyn

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55

    Hi.I'm so easygoing and down to earth it's not funny. I'm not one to play mind games either and I like to do what you like to do :-) Being able to trust someone is important to me ... so please be honest. Been divorced since ***with a couple of LTRs between then and now but haven't dated much the last couple of years ... was busy with my career ... (which is an awesome career btw and I do pretty good;) I work out two or three times a week but not really a fitness nut. Love old movies and am a huge fan of the Wings.I like to ski out West once or twice a year and have skied in Europe once. After my child goes off to college (in less that a year) I want to have some fun travelling - weekend getaway stuff.If you're honest, straightforward, don't believe in mind games, can handle a little complexity, can take no for an answer once in a while, like quiet and peaceful evenings together, and are willing to pick a couple of locks before getting into my heart, then we should get to know each other. Coffee after 9:00a make me jumpy. Let's meet for a drink?

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