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Sherlock, 46
United States, Maryland, Lusby

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About Me

Hi there. I have my doubts whether anybody actually reads these things, but my experience is that "connection" is really about an actual interpersonal dynamic, rather than selections from a drop-down menu. Soooo, if you can judge matchability on a few thumbnails and a paragraph, youre better at this than i am, but what the hell, gotta start somewhere. Matchability. Hmm. Is that even a word? Ill have to google it. Hopefully a publishing house will look favorably on my work, publish it, and pay me obscene amounts of money to bring it to an eager reading audience, Thats the plan anyway. I seek a charismatic, complex, witty, soulful, and intelligent woman who is beautiful both inside and out, to share adventures, good food, dumb jokes, lots of music, sun, sea, salt, and sultry locales, oh my. I am a voracious reader, and I have traveled almost literally all over the world, but alas, almost exclusively on business. I am fond of most animals, and all small children (i was a cub scout unit leader for years, dig that), enjoy outdoor fun such as surfing, catamaran sailing, snorkeling, paddleboarding, and exercize to keep myself in decent shape so I don't blob out. Hmm. What else? I have an active - if sometimes quirky or, ah, irreverent --like pace) and have a prodigious collection electric guitars which i play loudly and regularly, perhaps to the dismay of my neighbors. Just sayin.For the record. I am not here for casual hookups or booty calls, I'm just not that guy. My intent is to meet a woman whom I really and truly click with, who inspires and challenges me - spiritually, intellectually, physically, and emotionally - to devote myself to and grow with. I know she is out there, and I know she is looking for me too. If you are she, come hither! Manifest yourself, and let's make our own fireworks...Oh, a Post Script... YES the pix are all recent (June of '13 or later) and NO, i'm not prevaricating about my age, or height or marital status. That would be retarded.Drop me a line...maybe we're a match? A latte at Starbucks? Balderdash. That's not a date...that's a lame Pre-date Safety Zone Screening Meeting to make sure youre not meeting a whackjob or a wildebeest. Neccessary perhaps, but usually awkward and not all that fun, and def not a bona fide "date." The DATE comes later, when you decide you like each other, right? So. That said...I think a great first date would be a simple, yet intimate setting. A picnic, for example. Good food, much wine, good convo. Perfect way to acquaint ourselves, yes?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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