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Herk, 47

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About Me

I'm looking for a fun, optimistic and confident lady to be my friend, dance partner, and passionate lover (in time).I am a very social person but I am also very comfortable having alone time. Varied interests are broad...I enjoy entertaining or cooking for a group or someone special, let's get outdoors in the sun, sand or near water. Dancing and music are an escape and passion of mine, especially a great live band or concert, if this isn't your thing we are not a good match. A small house party is great too, but I can also enjoy just quiet time at home snuggling with a good movie, candles and some wine.I have been raised to have respect and mannners but I still have a spontaneous and adverentous side with a side of humor and sarcasm. I have a good job and goals but try not to sweat the small sh*t or take life too seriously.Be honest and communicate well. Make eye contact when we are talking. Holding hands, compliments, flirting and casual, public displays of affection are not a sin or crime...it shows we care and are not ashamed of it.Don't be shy, feel free to say hello and maybe we can go dancing or meet at one of the meetville casual socials.John Very casual meeting, hard to say until we chat to find common interests.I am open to anything. Meet at happy hour for a drink or wine and conversation, dinner or even someplace outside. Possibly one of the meetville social outings.We are adults, make a date, and keep it...if it doesn't work out we have still lost nothing, but if we don't try we may have lost an opportunity.I have no problem making plans for the first date, but your input and interests would be helpful to make it more enjoyable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gillespie

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    I noticed that over a large portion of the lake the homes on the east side are relatively new, large, "McMansion" type house while most are older, smaller and shabbier on the west side. Boats docked on the east side are mostly newer and larger than on the west side. I imagine people on the west prefer beer and boiled peanuts over the east side's wine and cheese. Modern jazz and classical music is heard on the east side with rock and roll, blues and country on the west. Folks on the west side would rather have friends and family over to grill out in the back yard but they get dressed up and go out to a nice restaurant for dinner on the east side. On the east they wear docksiders and flip flops on the west side. Well, I'm a west sider! Don't get me wrong, I'm not putting the east siders down - I've even been know to cross the lake on occasion and enjoy it. But I'm certainly more comfortable on the west. ...Please forgive my over generalization!While I think it would be great if my match and I share common interest I think it all comes down to chemistry. If we have that strong connection emotionally and physically, it dose not really matter what we're doing as long as we're together. Of course traits like honesty, loyalty, and sense of humor are important too. Something simple, maybe a drink, coffee or lunch, so we can talk and get to know each other. Then hopefully we will have a second date and do something fun.

  • Grant

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    As difficult as this is I'll do my best.... I'm confident yet not arrogant, arrogance is a real turn off to me. I'm told I'm handsome, intelligent, sweet, kind, loving and have a tender heart. I like to keep in shape and eat well. I've had a great deal of success in my career yet have learned that no success this world has to offer can compare to the love and companionship of a special woman. There is nothing that can compare to having someone to love and be loved by. I like to laugh, especially at myself. I'm very easy going and don't sweat the small stuff.I have two children that are both grown and married. Just my dog and I at home now. My faith is the most important thing in my life and will always be first. A lot of my time is devoted to my business however like to find time to do anything on the boat.I'm looking for a very special woman to love, care for and enjoy life with. Please write if you feel we may be a good match. A quite and relaxing place where we can share a cup of coffee or glass of wine.

  • Tliv

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    Man. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-50

    SOMD born and raise

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