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Mervyn, 46
United States, Maryland, Chesapeake Beach

Offline, last seen Sat, 28 Feb 2026 21:47:19

About Me

Unfortunately real, honest guys like me often get passed over because we don't stand out among the hundreds on here trying to find a date by auto-blasting e-mails they have stored up on a hard drive. But if you're one of the few that are reading this to actually meet someone you like, here are some of the things that make me unique:"BIG" Frank Sinatra fan.I love outdoor concerts (smooth jazz) and movies in the park.I am proud to say my mom raised me as a gentleman. (One of the remaining few)I am "VERY BIG" on romance.I love holding hands, cuddling, and those unexpected kisses out of nowhere, just because.I'm not a sports fanatic. (But I do like to watch with friends here & there)I have been a Certified Massage Therapist for four years now. Yes I still perform bodywork. Working on starting my own in office massage company. AND I have a VERY VERY interesting job. This is why I think women shy away from me: I am the Director of Transportation & Marketing for "The World Famous & Historic Chicken Ranch Brothel"WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR:I'm looking for a woman that has her own life. A woman who has her own set of friends and can hang out by herself if need be or wanted to do so. A Don't jump into bed on the first date woman. Sex can effectively ruin what could otherwise be a beautiful relationship. Both of us may end up having very little in common other than sex. So I would like to wait a while before we seal the deal. Someone that makes my heart beat faster when I see her and makes me want to see her when I hear her voice. I also want her to be my buddy. Someone that makes me feel good in front of my friends and important people. Don't laugh at me but with me. I also love a woman with a sense of humor. I want her to be playful too. Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to talk their way into my heart. But the fact is that I don’t “feel it” for you because of what you say. It’s not your words that make me attracted to you, it’s the experiences we create together. Maybe watching or playing sports together, being competitive in casual games like darts or group party games and definitely add a little teasing and sarcasm here and there. I think that's sexy. I'm VERY big on romance.Now this all may seem fake or I'm just saying what you want to hear. BUT...remember what I do for a living and where I work. I see the fake stuff all the time. I want the real deal.That's me in a nutshell. If I contact you, I appreciate you taking the time to read this and would love to get to know you more because most people don't get this far. A nice dinner and a walk or enjoying a walk together in the park after a picnic, or a smooth jazz concert or movie in the park. Going to hit some golf balls or miniature golf, any of these would be great for our first date. All in all, let's have fun and get to know each other. And, if all goes well, the door's open for a second date and third and fourth, well you get the point.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Playing Cards Video Games Thai Adventure Family & Kids Mystery War
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