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Mervyn, 46
United States, Maryland, Chesapeake Beach

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About Me

Unfortunately real, honest guys like me often get passed over because we don't stand out among the hundreds on here trying to find a date by auto-blasting e-mails they have stored up on a hard drive. But if you're one of the few that are reading this to actually meet someone you like, here are some of the things that make me unique:"BIG" Frank Sinatra fan.I love outdoor concerts (smooth jazz) and movies in the park.I am proud to say my mom raised me as a gentleman. (One of the remaining few)I am "VERY BIG" on romance.I love holding hands, cuddling, and those unexpected kisses out of nowhere, just because.I'm not a sports fanatic. (But I do like to watch with friends here & there)I have been a Certified Massage Therapist for four years now. Yes I still perform bodywork. Working on starting my own in office massage company. AND I have a VERY VERY interesting job. This is why I think women shy away from me: I am the Director of Transportation & Marketing for "The World Famous & Historic Chicken Ranch Brothel"WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR:I'm looking for a woman that has her own life. A woman who has her own set of friends and can hang out by herself if need be or wanted to do so. A Don't jump into bed on the first date woman. Sex can effectively ruin what could otherwise be a beautiful relationship. Both of us may end up having very little in common other than sex. So I would like to wait a while before we seal the deal. Someone that makes my heart beat faster when I see her and makes me want to see her when I hear her voice. I also want her to be my buddy. Someone that makes me feel good in front of my friends and important people. Don't laugh at me but with me. I also love a woman with a sense of humor. I want her to be playful too. Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to talk their way into my heart. But the fact is that I don’t “feel it” for you because of what you say. It’s not your words that make me attracted to you, it’s the experiences we create together. Maybe watching or playing sports together, being competitive in casual games like darts or group party games and definitely add a little teasing and sarcasm here and there. I think that's sexy. I'm VERY big on romance.Now this all may seem fake or I'm just saying what you want to hear. BUT...remember what I do for a living and where I work. I see the fake stuff all the time. I want the real deal.That's me in a nutshell. If I contact you, I appreciate you taking the time to read this and would love to get to know you more because most people don't get this far. A nice dinner and a walk or enjoying a walk together in the park after a picnic, or a smooth jazz concert or movie in the park. Going to hit some golf balls or miniature golf, any of these would be great for our first date. All in all, let's have fun and get to know each other. And, if all goes well, the door's open for a second date and third and fourth, well you get the point.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Playing Cards Video Games Thai Adventure Family & Kids Mystery War
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    Ellsworth

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    I have been told by a lady that I (my profile) comes off as arroganent and I'm telling all you ladies that I'm to good for you all. I don't see that, I thought I was being honest, am I wrong? Please tell me.I have a very good job. Some days I work very long hours and I don't have every weekend off. I don't hang around with people I work with, when I'm off work I really don't want to talk about my job much. When I was younger I had a lot of things going on in my life and didn't have time for Love and now that I have the time I find it very hard to find Love. Take a chance on this "Nice Guy" lets talk. I love history road trips going to the movies and out to dinner and so much more. I have 1 old kitty that I love. I'm looking for a lady to walk down the beach hand in hand watching the sunset. I'm not looking for a lady to take care of me, I'm looking for a lady to enjoy life with. I'm the type of a person that dose not needs to know where your at all the time, I trust people. If you think you know everything about me by reading my profile your Wrong very wrong I'm much more you just have to take the time to get to know me. But I know you want the "BAD BOY type with all the good things that comes with them. P.S. I know I'm not perfect I do need some work. I'm a little shy when it comes to talking to the ladies. I'm much more then what is here on my profile you just have to take the chance.I don't know what I am doing wrong I get blocked for sending an ***, here is what I have sent in the past (Hi I'm John I would like to get to know more about you, to see if we could be friends, to see where it may take us.I would like to have some one beside me while we see some of this world and try new things. I'm looking for a ladyto be my best friend first. I hope you give this nice guy a chance, I start out a little boring oh sorry that's slowlol I'm a little shy at first but I do open up as I get to know someone better. Lets talk soon bye for now. John)would you block someone for this *** first date I like to go out somewhere where we can talk and get to know each other.

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  • Kennard from Chesapeake Beach | Man | 47 years old | Leo
    Kennard

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    No longer retired, just started a new job 3 weeks ago (restaurant manager) nothing like what I did while being in the military, except for leading people and managing resources. I brush my hair once a day, and teeth too, 2X a day. I don't use product, I don't wear skin tight t-shirts, I shave every other day (update) trying the beard thing, never had one before. If I say something I mean it and do it. I believe in Karma, I dislike rude and greedy people. I'm simple and down to earth with a side of goofball. I'm looking for athletic, energetic and fit woman. A woman who goes to the gym on a regular basis. I also enjoy going out to dinner, movies, shooting some pool, listening to live music. I enjoy weekend getaways and the occasional night out drinking and dancing. I also like to run from time to time (but hate doing it) and go to the gym 3 to 5 days a week. I have absolutely no drama in my life. Everything about me on my profile is me, no bait and switch. Like so many others out there that I've experienced first hand. I have many foolosophies like "a hungry dog runs fastest" or "you have to go slow to move fast." Overall, I'm a happy, positive person who's looking for that person to share/enjoy the good things in life with. If you think we would get along let me know.**** WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.*** Well....I would like to meet in a quiet place. It could be for coffee (I don't drink coffee though) it smells so much better than it taste, tea, a glass or glasses of wine, beer, ice cream, lunch or dinner. Talk, learn about each others dislikes/likes, goals/ambitions in life. Or maybe something competitive, a board game, round of golf or driving range, the batting cages, a game of horse, air hockey, ping pong, pool or darts because in my experience/s the best and worst in people come out during competition, who knows what will happen, it could be a fun time or the beginning of our future :)

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    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-31

    Hi! My name is Alextristan. I am never married atheist hispanic man without kids from Chesapeake Beach, Maryland, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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