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Hudde, 50
United States, Maryland, Berlin

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About Me

Earlier, I dated some of the most sought after women ... not because I was handsome or rich. I was merely fun, witty and romantic. Yes, it was long ago ... however, I am still the same ... and I would argue much better. Since then I learned how to build and enjoy a long term relationship ... some of my lessons learned include:• Communication is key - at all times with as much honesty as possible• Acknowledging and sharing your feelings is the only hope for true growth• Your mate is not responsible for your happiness - they are there to share it with• Keep your mate safe at night ... it is imperative to keep the seat wiped clean and down • Don't worry about the small stuff - the toilet paper can unroll either over or underSo here is my wish list for my next and final life mate (Top ***non-negotiable …) 1. Trustworthy and loyal – will prize our relationship over everything else2. Primarily a Giver vs Taker – compassionate, kind and wanting to please others 3. Pursuing their best self – through things like meditation, yoga, self help books, religion, etc.4. Sense of Humor – can laugh at me, herself and most any situation – thinks I am funny5. Physically affectionate – loves to cuddle and hold hands - even when we are oldNext 5 … okay, these are negotiable ... but they make for a great list:6. Open - good communicator who can talk/debate without being defensive7. Optimistic - her outlook is generally positive and happy 8. Healthy – takes care of herself by eating well and exercising9. Adventurous – enjoys being active and outgoing … or at least understands my need to be10. Aware - understands the BIG picture of what is going on and is wittyIn general, I have described myself above ... Of course, I am not perfect ... but I am maturing, learning and improving each day. I have traveled throughout the world and learned we are all basically pursuing happiness and self fulfillment. Of course, it is found through self realization and is all the better ... when it is shared with someone special. The question is are you my life mate .. and if so, are you going to reach out for me? If you like tranquility ... How about a walk around the lake at the Lake Shrine -If you like to dance ... How about C&If you like physical challenges ...If you like serene settings ...Whatever your preference ... We can assuredly find a way to share it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Action Thriller War Bowling Snowboarding Volleyball
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  • Ged from Berlin | Man | 47 years old | Virgo
    Ged

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    ? ), so that makes me a native. It's an adjustment to be back - yet feels like home - regardless of time away. Beach Sand Surf Hiking Outside Fitness I am really looking forward to re-engaging and I've already developed a tan - CA is the right spot. I am full of wit and giggles - life is just that short - therefore I must I must I must ... have FUN! I won't over inflate my profile by making wild exclamations. Such as, I like to swim -- then the day after rode my bike to LA and back. Creating a false impression just doesn't go far with me. Men who do that I find to be about as deep as a community kiddie pool. I do like activities: Skiing (I used to race GS), swimming, biking, skeet & trap, hiking (Mt.- then putting them back down - and then picking back up. ;) Sometimes my inner-nerd-geek does peek out; I embrace and enjoy it - no apologies I like to learn. My humor is almost boundless - with quick wit and or innuendo I love to laugh even if it's at myself. I am looking for a woman that has balance humor *fitness* and style. Not a tall order I presume?- the key is do we fit as a couple? Our likes dislikes do not have to be exact, please posses a sense of humor and not be offended by most things in the world. Tattoos/Ink is good - it's much a part of the CA lifestyle I see. Mutual attraction (a must) I like what I like - no apologies. I need not have perfection, because we are all not perfect - I do have a working knowledge of our frailties. We just have to fit each other and let the idiosyncrasies fall where they may. Example: if you squeeze the toothpaste from the top and I from the bottom? Two tubes of tooth paste will solve that question, how easy is that? The Meet Me feature is different, it reminds me of the old Hot or Not days.. I'm not sure if this is a useful feature - because it brings to question: how many profiles a person clicks on in a single night? Was I the one profile or third or thirty-third? If you want to get my attention - send a message please. I have the patients of a saint - quiet calm listening thinking in situations that cause other men to go volcanic. I have appreciation for a relaxed day enjoying sunsets with a brown or clear glass. Life is really too short to go around angry at most things and people in the world. You must enjoy a little PDA now and then. I am not a man fearful of holding hands or steeling a kiss before the light turns green. Road Trips: LOVE'm! I just completed a 1,***mile road trip - I took the Relationship Quiz and think it's not too far off. Except the Sexuality section about being "Spontaneous," that's where I thrive. It always doesn't need to be planed, it can be a lot more fun - even if it's being sneaky or straight on ;) Send me a question if you like :) If you've read all of the above and are interested, *ACT* interested please. Also: messages with one line or just 'Hi' I tend to delete. You just read all the above - be a little clever and write a few sentences =D First date: I'm easy for place and time. Drinks/lunch/dinner/coffee, a place where we can hike or simply enjoy each others company. I'm not going to meet a woman for coffee if she's opposed, nor a place where we have to" WHAT??? OH! RIGHT!!! YA-ME TOO!!!!! "

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  • Hardy from Berlin | Man | 47 years old | Aquarius
    Hardy

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54

    I am easy going make new friends easly, I live at the beach and love riding my long board, skateboard along the beach, its pretty chill. I like to stay in shape so I relieve stress at the gym, I am down to do alot of different things. I am trying to find someone to hang out with that isnt in to drama and gossiping. Someone who also likes to stay in shape and likes being out doors and bbqs.lol.. Iam level headed and work alot of hours. my music taste has a big range. I also like to make people laugh, and have been told alot that I am funny. So if interested shoot me a line. Iam very honest and faithful. I have alot of friends and they cant believe im single but I dont want to waste my time with dating alot of girls. Im holding out for quality. actually the whole package. Beauty,Brains,Honesty,and sommeone faithful.Im not into dating site cause most woman on these sites have old or false photos. I looking for someone who is in shape and cares about them selfs to stay in shape. I enjoy out door activities and im active. I want someone who can keep up with me. Im real and genuine, and my friends tell me Im one of the most genuine person they know. if you feel this might be you then shoot me a msg. I hope everyone finds that special person they can spend there time with.Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. Lunch, maybe drinks and dinner to break the ice and conversation to get to know one another.

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  • Aidan from Berlin | Man | 46 years old | Taurus
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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

    hello my hobbies are karaoke and going to amusement parks. I like walks and just taking off to were ever. my goals are to be the best partner in life. I a nice guy who still likes to bring flowers and romantic. I love kiss classic rock. my first date would go for dinner and talk maybe meet for a soda and see if we can connect.

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