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Meredith, 47

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About Me

I am new to the area, so like a small town boy moves to the big city...a little out of my element. I moved to NJ, for career a little less than a year ago. I guess I am more old fashion than metro...so I apologize if you are looking for the hip guy...I am more like the hipster-dufus. But I have been told I wear a suit very well, and have more than one pair of jeans (work and dress). I do not take my self too seriously, and have no problem laughing at myself when I am being a dork.I have been a farmer, cowboy, and my professional career is in college athletics, though my passion is developing and training athletes and non-athletes. Yes, I do own a cowboy hat, used to own two but lost one on the side of a mountain in CO, my father owns a ranch there. I grew up with simple values of putting in a hard days work, friends and family first, smile and say hello to everyone, and treat a woman with respect and affection...well, the last one I know on my own.Have been divorced for over 3 years, lived a very quiet, simple non-social life as I have had to be like Andy Dufresne and crawl through a river of sh*t to come out clean on the other side. Father of identical twin teenage boys...Lord help me, and a 10 year old princess. My kids do not live with me, and I am a very proud and involved father, so you need to know my priorities. And yes, I co-parent so their mother will always be in my life but there is no drama.Some simple thoughts:**Yes, I take very good care of myself physically...No, I will not wear a banana hammock at the beach or take my shirt of in front of people.**Yes, I have no problem being brave and killing (or removing) the spider in the shower...No, I will not take on the three WWE wrestlers that looked at you at the bar, though I will explain to you that it is a compliment, and I am the lucky guy taking you home.**Yes, I am confident enough in my own self to go shopping with you...No, I will not stand in the underwear section while you hold them up, bring them home and show me in private.**Yes, I will always think you are beautiful...No, I will not spend a half hour convincing you what you are wearing looks good. Trust me, by the way I look at you, what I whisper in your ear, and how I treat you when we get home...you will know you look amazing, and I appreciated it.**Finally, cause from what I understand on this site, this is important: I am physically, mentally, financially, and emotionally stable. And my pictures are me and not from ***, I had much longer hair then...no I did not have a mullet.I still believe in bringing flowers to a woman, opening the door for others, and my grandmother taught me how to hug someone like you mean it. The honest truth is no matter what I write here doesn't show me as a man, friend, father, or lover...the same goes for anyone reading this...just take the time to say "hello, and we can go from there...hey, what do you have to lose. Keep it simple...find a quiet place to sit or walk. Just talk and make eye contact. See if there is truth in a connection or maybe just a great friendship. I always like the thought of a "non-date" date...like get rid of the pressure and just be yourself.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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