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Brendon, 50

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About Me

I am a SINGLE Bay Area guy seeking chemistry on any level. Im interested in friendship and ultimately something more serious with someone I am mutually compatible with and wildly attracted to.I tend to find myself attracted to younger, fit and masculine guys, a great sense of humor, youthful energy, a man with drive and a kind heart.I'm typically attracted to fit and handsome guys younger than me within the age range of ***. My ideal mate prefers the bottom bunk in the bedroom and is HIV negative and std free and enjoys keeping fit. He is wired for monogamy and has done some self development work or sees value in self development. Im a relationship guy that just happens to be single at the moment. I am a big fan of monogamy and the idea that two men in love can actually thrive in a wonderful monogamous relationship.I enjoy the study of the Law of Attraction, quantum physics and practicing the power of positive intentions. I think keeping the body moving is a good thing. I enjoy keeping my body active with daily physical activities including the gym or a workout of some sort to promote a healthy body. I love to cook for friends and explore healthy recipes. On the flip side I also enjoy meeting friends for dinner and drinks. I guess its all about balance sometimes I get a little crazy on both ends of this but I try to have a lot of fun either way. Im looking for someone that can appreciate the whole package.What Im looking for on here? ...Im open to friendship, dating and ultimately a long term loving relationship with my match. Im the type to take it slow to get to know someone to see if the connection goes in any direction. Mutual spark is rare but possible. I'm looking forward to meeting my match. I like a first date to be casual with no expectations. Meeting for coffee or a drink or a chat face to face on *** if there is enough spark and mutual chemistry for a second date.If all goes well then my ideal second date would dinner or lunch and some good conversation getting to know more about each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Decent, normal, down-to-earth professional guy here looking for the same. Not into games, drama , hookups, or any kind of scene. Value honesty, loyalty, a great sense of humor, and good communication in any relationship. I am looking for a best friend and partner to share all that life has to offer - the good and the bad and everything in between. I try be easy to get along with. I have a lot of different interests and am always open to new adventures as well. A great evening out for dinner or a movie or a show can be just as exciting and enjoyable as quiet evening at home with someoene special! I guess you could say I am something of a hopfeful romantic! I think that sounds better than hopeless, don't you? I'm not big into on-line dating and matching. Yet, it seems to be difficult to meet good people these days. I'm willing to take a chance. Are you? My favorite first date is one on which we would go to dinner, enjoy a great meal and great conversation. Afterwards, perhaps we take a walk or just sit and talk a bit longer. It would be the kind of date which you don't want to end, but, even though it must, you can't wait for the next one!

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Ambitious, goal oriented, athletic, and driven. I like to succeed in everything I do. I like sports of all types, cooking, hanging out with friends and travel. Like going on a date with the guy I am seeing and think alone time is important. When dating I am amorous and a tiger and need someone willing to keep up and tame me. Life is short and looking for someone who has the same drive and life's goals.Do you find that the first thing people want to know is how big is your member? What happened to getting to know someone and building a friendship?I am old fashioned guy. I think that nothing in life is worth having if you don't make a good friend. I think that yes it is important if you are dating to have physical attraction however I think that you can not always judge a book by it's cover. I know I have been told more than once I look better in person than in my pictures and I hate taking a picture.So what can I tell you that sums me up? I value honesty. I want honest people in my life. In all aspect of it. I do not believe that you can meet someone and fall head over heals in love. I believe that the best lovers are also your best friend. I think it is important to have things in common. I also feel that it is important to have a life and to be able to feel comfortable being who you are.I believe that it is important to put family first. I am very close to my family and if I were dating someone I would want them to value family like I do. I want my prospective partner to also want to share the good, the bad, and the ugly. To wake up in the morning and the first thing you want to do is kiss the man next to you and tell him you love him. To leave little notes in his pants pocket so when he goes for his wallet he gets it. To surprise him with a mystery trip somewhere. To enjoy cuddling, and hanging out at the house, but to be just as comfortable going to dinner with friends.If this sounds like you we should talk. What do you have to lose? What do you gain? A friend who will always be there for you. Someone what will be a rock, as well as your friend.If you read this far something must have brought you in. Now just send an *** see if we connect on an friendship level.

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