Total users: 58,740,336 Online users: 211,335
Asia, 47

Online

About Me

I'm a mid-40s guy, fun to be around, responsible, settled and stable. My stats are 5'10", 186#, 36w, brown eyes, black hair with just a sprinkling of gray. I've been on the same job for 15 years, own a modest home and a nice car, have a retirement account, etc. By some standards, you could say that I "have it all"...except a special someone to come home to. I'm looking for a similarly responsible, stable man, for dating and possibly something long-term if the connection is there. I'm not interested in a casual fling, one-nighter, or "hook-up." Although a relationship is my ultimate goal, I believe that you have to build toward that slowly...so friendship, getting to know each other and dating is definitely a prerequisite. I think it's unrealistic to expect that you'll jump right into a relationship without a solid foundation for it to stand on. I prefer someone in the 30s- I've tried long- I'm open to talking to out of town guys so long as relocation is an option for you at some point if a relationship eventually develops. My ideal guy is masculine, slim/average/muscular build, self-reliant, intelligent, articulate, compassionate, kind, responsible, honest, confident (but not arrogant!) and a good conversationalist. Of particular importance is the ability to laugh (including at yourself!) and to find the humor in ordinary things. I think laughter is good for the mind, body and spirit and I try to do it as often as I can!I believe in treating others as I would want to be treated and I'd like you to feel the same. How a person treats service people (waiters, clerks, etc.) is usually a good indicator of their character!Mostly, I'd describe myself as a nester, but not a hermit. I like to cook and try new foods and wines, listen to all types of music, watch a good movie snuggled up on the couch, or just sit quietly and catch up on the daily newspaper. I like nice things, but I'm not materialistic. Manufacturers' labels don't define me. I try to keep my house and car clean and organized, but I'm not obsessive about it.-- because let's face it, who wants to kiss (or do more) with a person who doesn't smell or taste good? :)All in all, I'm a fairly typical working man. I go to the office, come home, work in the yard, cook dinner, read the newspaper, watch a bit of TV -- normal stuff. Being gay isn't a significant part of my identity, it just defines my physical attractions. Most of my friends tend to be straight, although I'd like to make more like-minded gay friends to hang out and do things with.So if you're ready for something real, steady and "normal", get in touch and let's talk - nothing ventured, nothing gained. I'm ready to laugh and love again...are you the one? I'm not really interested in someone who is a constant barfly or otherwise preoccupied with "partying." I'm not so much into the club scene anymore (been there, done that), but an occasional night out on the town for drinks and dancing can be fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Country

    Online

    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 19-39

    Hi! My name is Country. I am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian man without kids from Jena, Louisiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Carmine

    Online

    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    For the most part I am a good guy with a good heart. Looking for that special someone or at least to make some great friends along the way.I enjoy music, hiking, day trips, road trips, grilling, going for a drink now and again, and dinner with friends. I am a guy who enjoys a good laugh and have both a dry and wry sense of humor, so I appreciate a witty sense of humor as well, as long as you enjoy laughter. I am responsible, kind, honest, caring and considerate and can be stubborn and indecisive at times. (Libra traits)I am looking for someone with similar qualities that I mentioned above. Someone that can share a laugh with, who is family centric, and comfortable with himself. Someone that can enjoy life with me, and loves being in love.Weekends at the shore in the Summer riding my Sea Doo. And love a good get away anytime of the year. Just getting out of town is always fun. Day Trips, anything. Cheers!

  • Tyson

    Online

    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Well lookin for some one that is ture about there self and not be fake like i have found most people are to get 1 thing to get u in bed . I love to cook , clean and work outside.I will say what i mean and want the same also won't put up with no crap . I will listen to most xcept for rap .Like to show the man im with that i care for him and tell him when it is time that i love him more than anything in the this world . Well we could go out or either stay in and I cook for u or we can cook together .

Follow Us: