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Lesley, 48
United States, Louisiana, Homer

Offline, last seen Thu, 04 Sep 2025 22:12:06

About Me

You are invited to examine and consider the dossier of a colorfully charismatic, monogamy-friendly, disease-free, housebroken, employed heterosexual male (we don't exactly grow on trees, y'know). Friends and family will NEVER describe me as shy or a wallflower, but they will also affirm I never steal anybody’s thunder nor put anybody in my shadow. It's the simple things that I enjoy most -; friends, a cold beer on a hot day, etc. Sure, I like an occasional night out to take in a stage production, an art show, a cultural event, or crash a wedding (true!), but those excursions are always more memorable when they can be reflected upon later with my co-conspirator. If you like to “shake your moneymaker”). Just as fulfilling is being in the same room as her and reading respective books, cooking her favorite meal or working on a project together. Nothing surpasses one-on-one quality time…the best "love language". The near-forgotten art called "being a gentleman" is alive, well, and in no danger of becoming extinct with this guy.What am I looking for? The short version is the one girl that will make me a better guy and unsubscribe from this website...permanently. The long version is I’m crazy attracted to the four “C’s” - confidence, classiness, culturedness and chemistry mixed with healthy side orders of the two “I’s” - intelligence and independence. Men intimidated by these virtues are clinically known as "knuckle-dragging Neanderthals", but I heartily embrace those qualities because they make an unexcelled elixir when combined with sensual femininity and a warming heart. She is willing to take reasonable risks to find her happiness, allows her dreams to become mine and is comfortable in social settings. Her sense of humor is not afraid to “bite back” when challenged and her mischievous smile alone will effortlessly lure me into her arms...hubba, hubba! Her physical attractiveness may "get her in the door", but her keen and ebullient mind will "keep her in the house". Writing of physical, she must be a strong advocate for fitness/health and walk the walk - I eat everyday, so I exercise everyday. She may be a modern girl able to “leap tall buildings in a single bound” but she appreciates her doors being opened, hand holding, random acts of chivalry, actual conversation over texting and a good foot rub after a long day (signed waiver required). To summarize, she will be the one to bring fire to my heart, a challenge to my mind and an oasis for my soul. I could go on and blah blah blah, but wouldn't you rather hear it than read it?We now interrupt this program for "The Ugly Truth"...:1) If you are inclined to send a "Hello", "How are you?" or a vapid message with less than a complete sentence or are challenged by spelling/grammar, I will not respond. Why? Because I'm certain you expect more in an *** potential suitor. Such a paltry effort expended to make a "best" impression will not merit a response from you, would it? I didn't think so. Guys like to be impressed, also. 2) We are ALL very selective, especially when it come to potential mates. On that note, I have no qualms with your decision to contact me (or not contact me) solely on the basis of my physical appearance. Why? Because I know you are looking at me the same way I'm looking at you.3) Yeah, my profile is wordy, but it serves as a litmus test - if you can't handle reading this, you can't handle the author.We now return you to your regularly scheduled program...I'm relationship-oriented, so hopefully I have successfully conveyed my intent to not waste your time (and definitely not mine) with sophomoric antics nor adolescent immaturity. If you've read this far, I know I have your attention and if you're confident enough to initiate contact or respond to my inquiry (there's that confidence thing again), you know what to do next. Will you be the girl I ask for a second date? Only time will tell... The first meeting has to be memorable because it will be my ONLY chance to earn a second date. The best ones are the interactive variety where the location/activity is as much a part as the participants. Better stop here - less history, more mystery, right? Or we could just skip all this and go right to knocking over convenience stores, cow tipping and defrosting our microwaves.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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