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Ivan, 46

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About Me

Hi. I am father of a 13 year old boy and a 11 year old daughter. Lots of Activities and sports. My kids live with their mother, but I have them and see them frequently. Divorced ***years. I just bought a house in NRHs to be close to my kids. The house is a fixer upper, lots of work, overwhelming. I know my profile says: "Wants to date but nothing serious", that is where things start. At our age we have figured out that things don't have to happen right this minute, so if we get each other's attention, lets be patient.I have been asked a few times about me being on this site a lot? However, I don't date much at all. Only have met up with a few girls this year. I guess you can say I'm not in a rush. Or maybe I'm like a kid in the candy store that is only allowed to pick a few items and I just can't make up my mind ... I've also be told I'm inconsistent, my answer to that is to have fun with a consistent lying cheating jerk, ha haI have no idea what I am doing. Something

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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