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One of my friends said they met someone really nice on this website. As there seems to be a certain concern about meeting people on the net, I feel the main thing when contacting each other is to really ask the right questions about what you like and want from your life and your future partner and to really be yourself, don't pretend you are someone you are not. These things will lead to greater success and less misunderstandings.I myself really enjoy being with good friends and family and sharing fun meaningful times together. As I am in my 40's I have had time to experience and learn many things in life and I know much more about what I want from my life and from a relationship. Of course it's about the love, romance and wonderful touching moments together, but it is about respect, mutual trust, understanding, good communication, being happy and comfortable with each other. A good sense of humour is very important as well! :) I know all to well how a man and woman's brain are wired different sometimes, in the ways we each feel and express ourselves and our emotions to each other. I talked to several people in successful relationships and when people are dating in their 40's, one of the most important things to do is to really take time to understand where each other has come from and where they really want to go. To take time to learn what makes each other happy and what doesn't, is a good recipe for success as well.I enjoy going out and being sociable with my good friends and I can also be happy at home relaxing with a movie...etc. sometimes. It is a balance we all need. When out with friends, I enjoy find dining in interesting trending places around town or in the summer having a BBQ outside or at a house party. I like to travel and explore new places, talk about new concepts and ideas and explore how others live. Music is a large part of my life since I was very young and I have spent a lot of time playing, writing and arranging music. It truly relaxes and opens up your soul to good positive energy overall. I do enjoy dancing from time to time and recently have learned some Ballroom Dancing as the school is not that far from me and to be honest, it is quite elegant and fun to show off your moves when out. Great cardio as well. My main exercise is playing rough and tough soccer with the usual gang of suspects on weekends or when we have time. I also, enjoy going to the gym, hiking and walking, running. The really enjoy the richness of different cultures, food and ocean and mountain views! My Main Goals: Of course, meeting new friends is great and surrounding yourself with amazing positive people is so important in life, but my main goal is to have a loving relationship with a caring, sweet and affectionate woman who likes to enjoy what life has to offer. Someone who likes to learn and experience new and interesting things and share special moments together. No one is perfect in this sometimes wild wonderful and crazy world, but I would like something special, meaningful and real, where we both actually miss each other if we are apart. Good luck with your search!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aridai

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy surfing,snowboarding fishing.. basically anything outdoors. Am looking for someone special to enjoy life with.

  • Dominique

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    Are you a smart, fun, sexy woman who’d like to finally meet a cool, normal guy? If so, you and I might just get along. Read on and let’s find out together…First, a little about me. I’m 42 years old, fit, fun, interesting, and a successful small business owner with a wickedly smart brain and well developed sense of sarcastic humor. I’ll make you laugh in spite of yourself, even when you know you shouldn’t. I’m a master at innuendo, witty sayings and comebacks, with a lightning fast mind and razor sharp tongue (you’re welcome to test me on this, if you think you can put me in my place).You might even call me an arrogant jerk, the kind you love to hate, but then wind up hating yourself for loving. But that’s OK, the risk is most certainly worth the reward. Lookit, I’m a normal guy. I like NFL football, big steaks, money, lifting heavy weights, off color jokes and funny stories, sexy women, fast cars, giant TV’s and all the other things that make life worth living. I don’t have any emotional issues, crazy ex- I am, in short, drama free, and I intend to stay that way. I must be different than most other men because I’m actually pretty happy and had a great childhood.What you won’t get from me is an endless barrage of text messages, moronic pictures of private parts, the obligatory abs in the bathroom mirror shot, one word messages proclaiming “yur hot,” or any of the other nonsense I understand is prevalent on these dating sites.Why am I on here, you ask? The answer is simple: it’s a way for me to meet a great woman I might not meet anywhere else, nothing more, nothing less. I am a man open to new experiences, and this certainly is one of them.So, you ask, what kind of woman am I looking for? Well, I happen to like the company of very intelligent, fit, uncommonly sexy women who other men find “intimidating.” Height doesn’t matter (I’ve dated tall and short women), and age really isn’t that much of an issue to me. But fitness IS important to me, so if you don’t work out or keep in shape, please pass.I also like sweet, fun, sexy women with a sparkle in their eye that turns to fire when the time is right, and who have amazing “energy.” If men tell you that you have “great energy,” then you and I will get along just fine.OK, let’s talk about what I’m not looking for, because this is important. If you’re frightened of luxury and nice places, you and I are not destined to get along. I can’t abide show-off’s who throw money around, but neither do I like people who revel in cheapness. Life is meant to be fully enjoyed, and I mean to fully enjoy it. However, that does not mean indulging in destructive behavior…I want to keep what I have. So, if you drink excessively or do any kind of drugs whatsoever, you’re not for me—it’s never ***time at my place. Ever. However, if you hate drinking, you’re not for me either… I happen to appreciate good wine, fine whiskey, and expensive cigars, all in moderation (it's cool if you don't drink, just can't stand moralizers). And while I’m not interested in total sluts who hook up with a different man every day, neither am I interested in prudes—I get along with women who have a healthy appreciation for the “physical things” in life. Age is not especially important to me, but I find I get along well with women 30 and above who have some life experience, although if you’re younger and mature for your age, I’m certainly open to making an exception. Do I sound like your kind of guy? If so, then here’s what to do next: send me a message, tell me some cool things about yourself, test my claim of a quick and witty mind, and we’ll see what happens next. Oh, and while I am certainly the kind of guy who will make the first move to initiate contact with an attractive woman, there is simply no way I can browse all of the profiles on here (there are a lot of them). So, if you think I sound interested, just send me a quick "hey," and I'll take it from there, even if you're the kind of woman who likes the man to make the first move. I may never see your profile otherwise, and it'd be a shame to potentially miss out on something great that could have been started by one word... Something cool. Something very cool.

  • Marlin

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    I own my home in the Boro and have done so for the past 12 years and absolutely love it here.I really enjoy going to TPAC and some of my favorite plays are Wicked, Phantom of the Opera, and Spamalot.I love to take quick weekend getaways as I am currently looking for a B&B lighthouse to stay in.Would that not be exciting to stay over night in a lighthouse?My taste in music covers classic rock to hard rock to some of the top 40s. From time to time a little country tossed in the mix.When I have some down time I do enjoy the following TV shows.CSI, NCIS, Big Bang Theory, Two and Half Men, Arrow, Walking DeadIf you aren't quite over your ex, please take a break from dating and get there first. It's only fair to everyone involved.

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