Total users: 59,199,572 Online users: 212,863
Delmer, 44

Online

About Me

Okay, first things first. If you are a woman and I messaged you, I HAVE READ your profile. Being a guy, I was likely attracted initially by your looks, and then you passed my "profile analysis" test when I read your profile (you'll need a top secret security clearance before I can explain what this test entails). By messaging you, I'm interested in seeing if we're compatible and am interested in talking for awhile through this web site or meeting for coffee/drink/food and seeing if we have similar interests, goals, future plans, etc.I am not fake. I do not want a one night stand or a **** buddy. Honestly, a guy can get that type of sex many places in town or in brothels in nearby counties. I want a REAL relationship, and that takes time to allow us to figure out whether we're compatible.I don't smoke, don't gamble, don't do drugs, and don't have any "addictive behavior" in my genes. I drink minimally/socially.I have three ***kids, and they live primarily with my ex-wife. I've been divorced since mid***, although we've been separated since early ***. My relationship with the kids and my ex-wife is good. We were married 16 years. I originally thought it was going to be my "forever" marriage; that's how I was raised.W.- I've been here since early ***. I had my own law practice from ***, and am looking to have one again in the future.Personally, I'm very secure in who I am and what I believe. I am not a needy individual and am essentially no-drama. I'm secure enough about myself so that if you feel that there is no "spark" after a first meet-and-greet or you don't think we're compatible, I won't play the role of creeper/stalker like some guys on here may have in the past (I've had discussions with women on online dating sites; a lot of them seem to have dealt with at least one weirdo who won't accept the fact that a woman is not interested). If for some reason you are just not feeling a spark and/or compatability, I'll just pull up my big boy pants and move on with my life.Over the years, I've developed a good sense of humor. I try to use this frequently, as it helps break the ice and also shows people I am not some stuffy old fart that sits behind a desk all the time. I like trying to make people laugh this way; it makes me happy if I can make other people laugh. So I am totally cool if you have a cat, dog, or both. I will likely get them in the future. Good first dates (any of these I think is great): ***Coffee, ***drinks, ***food, ***dueling pianos bar, ***park

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Alex

    Online

    Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-30

    Hi! My name is Alex. I am never married catholic caucasian man without kids from Vine Grove, Kentucky, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Bambam

    Offline

    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-40

    I'm a layed back guy who will give u the shirt off my back looking to meet new people and have a good time, and get to know weather it's causal dates/hookups to starting the rest of our lives if we hit it off.message me on messenger

  • Jc

    Online

    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    Make this clear! NO GAMES! JUST TIRED!!!! Want something real. Where is my best friend?I am an active guy that loves to lift weights, swim, hike, fish. I also enjoy writing novels. Love to party every once in a while or go to music concerts and sporting events. An ocasional lazy day on the couch is o.k. but I am more into moving.I am very goal oriented. Recently published a book on Amazon, and I am looking to boost sales by advertizing. Lifting weights and doing yoga... Yeah, I said it... I have a goal to stay in shape because health is everything. I do not eat as good as I should but I conciously try to watch what I eat.I am an optimist, alothough I get down from time to time. Life is too short to spend it being depressed. I do not want to date any one that is negative. NO DRAMA! I can by on'ry and I like to joke around. A sense of humor is a must for a girl that wants to date me.Last but not least, I love most types of music. Just cannot stand hip hop or rap. Love raggea, blues, metal, grunge, country, classic rock, classical, alternative, celtic, and punk. The first date should be loose. It could be going out to a movie, or a nice resteraunt, or a bar. It is best to relieve the pressure by talking on the phone a few times before going out. I am open to anything. Going for a long walk while talking is a good way to get to know some one.

Follow Us: