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SethOffline
Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52
My week days are filled with work, the gym, volleyball, and running errands. Friends and family occupy some of my weekend time, but I'm looking for something more. I'd like something casual, yet ongoing. I need someone to share in my adventures. We'll go out to eat - from picnics, to patio restaurants, to romantic, upscale dinners. I'll wear a tie if you wear a dress and heels. We'll go to shows - from live music, to the movies/theater, to kitschy things like drag/burlesque/cabaret. We can take a class together like swing/salsa/ballroom dancing, pottery. or wine tasting. We can cruise GroupOn and LivingSocial for things we never thought about doing (skydiving, the gun range, an obstacle/mud run course)Our dates can last a few hours, to a weekend trip seeing Americana (giant balls of twine, thermometers, and fish), to eventually longer trips to sun and sand, and other exotic destinations throughout the US and world.And please don't get me wrong. Should the chemistry be undeniable, I'm certainly open to re-prioritizing my life.
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JohnathonOffline
Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51
42, SWM here wanting to meet a honest caring affectionate clean woman with a good sense of humor. A sense of humor is very important to me, I love to laugh and make people laugh. I like movies, dining out, gas burning trips in the country and a lot more, but having a special person to cuddle up with and share those things with makes the world a much better place. I also love all kinds of music and enjoy a good PC game. But not Polka music..I do not enjoy Polka..never will. I also like kids even though I have none of my own. I do not mind slowdancing with my girl to sappy love songs but I dont like any other dancing at all so if your looking for a danceing fool im not the one. Im very clean but not obsesively and do not want to be the only one cleaning up. I also like cooking and dining out. I am looking for a meaningfull one on one relationship. Someone to make number 1 in my life before anything ! In my book commitment is not a 4 letter word but I promise I am not looking to pounce into anything serious right away. Honesty and faithfullness are musts. I am willing to take things slow. Just meet or talk on the phone and let things fall where they may. It would be nice to have a woman whom I can sit down with on a Thurs and go through the good times and pick out a play to see or movie or something. I dont mind a homebody either but ya got to get out sometimes. Just a quick note on kids. I understand fully your kids always come first and I would not want it any other way. But if it means I let my kids walk all over me and your going to have to deal with it...that is not acceptable. I have delt with that to many times and its very sad to see a mother scared of her own kids and Im powerless to do anything, or im a bad guy for saying their kid is a spoiled brat after he tells his mom to F$%# herself and she does nothing about it.....Im not going there again. Kids should respect their mothers and if she decides to date they need to respect him too as an adult. I am not looking to replace anyones father but if you have young kids I am more than happy to help *** good value system in them and treat them as my own if things go that far and they need a man figure in their lives. I know I sound harsh but I know exactly what kind of person I am looking for and have to be that way so it will work out. I am actually very flexible on most things and believe honesty and comprimise are the cornerstones of any healthy relationship. We all want to feel like we matter. I will not settle and neither should any of you. I know your out there. After a few phone conversations and e-mails meet someplace for a drink or two ...bar (even though Im not a bar person) , restraunt or a park. Even for coffee. I first meet should be casual like meeting at work or something..then onward maybe...:) Or even just meet and go for a walk. Just relax and talk. Im very easy to get along with. I am looking for the long term real deal. But I always welcome a new friend into my life even if things do not develop romanticly. Just get together with no wild expectations to talk and listen. A first meeting with me would't be a movie . Then how could we talk and get to know eachother. :) Good luck to everyone.
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JayeOffline
Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51
I'm looking for someone to share some good times with, whether it's biking, skating, hiking, checking out the latest exhibit at the art or natural history museums, a nice dinner and a show at the comedy club, or just seeing a movie and watching a game at the bar. I spend much of my time on refurb projects on my old house, inline skating, mountain climbing, or working my way through a giant Netflix queue that will probably never bottom out.I enjoy discussing current events and history, politics and religion, culture and anything else that helps to put the pieces together and to figure out how the world works. I don't really see any subjects as off limits but I can respect the boundaries of others. I'm generally clueless about fashion, celebrity gossip, or home decor but I keep an open mind and would love to have someone explain that dumb stuff.Music: I like just about anything except most Country and Hip Hop, but there are exceptions even there. I'll tune into the pop stations to see what's fresh, and others times explore old songs that make me nostalgic for a time before I existed. I often fixate on a few albums and play them scores of times until I hear the music in my dreams.Food: Anything good! Sushi is usually my first choice but I'm up for Mexican, Ethiopian, Chinese, Indian, and lots of other stuff if it's well done. Exploring new spots is always exciting. Sometimes "food" winds up just being a bunch of beer and pub grub, or lots of tequila and lime wedges.I can be a bit of a brat (life is short and it's important to have fun) but am also comfortable being serious about things when the situation calls for it. I like finding out what makes people click and seeing what I can bring to a friendship or relationship that has some value to the other person. My goals in life are educating myself, seeking professional achievements, traveling to exotic places, meeting new people, but mostly I just want to figure out what I'm going to be when I grow up.I put one lie in my profile. How many in yours? I like to meet somewhere casual for drinks and just see how things go.