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About Me

Hi ladies,I'm here for the same reason you are, ok for the same reasons as some of you.what i'm not looking for or do not want or need !A scam artist, I'm not looking to buy you cars, cameras, houses or ?I am looking for a good woman that can be real with someone and understand life is not about how much you make, or what you can spend on them. There is so much more to life then matieral possessions. ( however!! they do make life more enjoyable)If your not hung up on age, or looks completely,Or trying to scam your retirement out of someone. Then ask any questions you want to know the answers to. I am actually a easy going person most of the time. who likes to have a good time, I'm responsible when needed. I can be very blunt for those that seem to think that treating a lady, like a lady. and for the most part being a kind person is a weakness. in life i am happy, Or I'm happy in my own skin is a easy way to put it. I could use some less weight I'm sure some of you can also. I have bills and work to do everyday like most. i can always use some more money, but what i have is paid for and I'm pretty much debit free.(school loan) and to me that is more important then slaving away to pay a creditor off for something i cant enjoy anyway. I have done the marriage thing, and i enjoyed being married! But we both came to the conclusion that we had chosen the wrong life partner and we are still friends for our kids. Also because we were adults and chose to leave a situation that we both saw was not going in a direction we would have like it to. IT was the ADULT thing to do. our kids know that we both love them and they will always be a part of my life! I hope to find someone that can understand this and except this as i would for them if they have kids . I'm not looking for the jelouse EX. i don't have one, and i don't need yours! just want a woman that can treat me as i would them with Respect!.i can be very blunt for those that seem to think that treating a lady like a lady and or being a kind person for the most part could be a weakness. I assure you this is not the case! some us just don't need to swell up all the time to impress our own ego's. So if your sick of the games of the boy's then say hi. the most current photos i have are on the site and i keep my head shaved most of the time. i work nights and a strange schedule but i can also always find time for the right person. if we get this far we can talk about it. I'm sure there are some things i like that you might not or have not tried and vise versa.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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