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Frederic, 42

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About Me

I've been fortunate enough to spend most of my life doing the things that truly drive me. I'm very passionate about my career. It keeps me busy 50 hours a week, and I have several other projects that occupy my time on weekends and some evenings. So, taking a break from it all is just as important to me.During the day, I oversee public relations, marketing and resource development (fundraising, special events, grant-writing and donor relations.Fun for me can be anything from tailgating to trying new restaurants, or socializing in a local pubs while listening to some good live music. I enjoy movies that make you laugh out loud, think deeply, or make you cry. I also enjoy the more simple things like stay-cations, camping, talking for hours or staring at the stars. I love museums, live theatre and culture. I enjoy playing piano, writing music, walking barefoot in the rain, watching storms, cuddling and playing footsie. I enjoy cooking, and I get better at it daily. I've recently taken an interest in traveling abroad...but mostly to the tropics.I am mostly moved by music and the performing arts. I am a deep thinker, and I enjoy a good conversation. I'm politically motivated. We don't have to take sides, but debate can be fun!I'm a White Sox fan true and true, and I never miss a Bears game. I enjoy coloring outside the lines. I'm good at solving problems, giving advice, and playing matchmaker with my friends. I'm also a very good crooner, and I love to sing a good sappy love song! When not in my element, people might first find me well-mannered, and reserved. When in my element, people might find me obnoxiously funny and outgoing. My ideal match would be an independent woman with her own thoughts, who is career minded and knows the direction she is going in life...and it's forward. She is honest, has integrity, is well-respected by her friends, is not afraid to be herself, speak her mind, laugh out loud, and enjoy life. She is not afraid to love unconditionally, and is faithful to the commitments she makes. But let's just start with coffee or lunch, great conversation, and a few laughs... Lately, I'm leaning more toward the "speed dating" approach. Having been disappointed after several dates lately, I've found that I much prefer a more low-key chat over coffee or lunch.) Good conversation and social compatibility is key!!! Of course, if things go well, I would very much be looking forward to our 2nd date, and doing something a bit more exciting and "on the town") But let's leave that for the imagination!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dracodeusxl

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 25-40

    I go out but not to often and I listen to different types of music, just not big on country. I don't like to talk much about myself much but feel free to ask. I wanna hear about you. Dont care for over the phone conversations. More in person. Look for good-looking, funny, smart and kind woman.

  • Uri

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    And who wants to read that kind of crap?Okay ladies, I'm single, so you are in luck! Who I am? Well a mix of things. All wonderfully working together in my life for me. It's up to you to decide if it works for you. I am a Father and am enjoying the teen years with my Son and Daughter. They are a blast to do things with. I am a Football fan and Coach. Teen ages, sorry ladies I'm not Coach Pete. . . I prefer to watch college football over the NFL. So if you have a problem or have left a man because of football move along and shame on you. :) I am a bit of a geek. Yep, I like Star Wars, Zombies, and my sense of humor tends to be on the geeky side. However, I do rate movies on the number of explosions. The more the better. I also like Heavy Metal music and after what I consider to be my mid life crisis have picked up a guitar to get my fingers working again. My old friends from those days are pretty excited. So if you want to hang with a pretty F'ing cool dork let me know. I like to watch football and attend concerts when I'm not in the gym trying to get back into my Rockstar shape with out the assistance of a bad diet and liquid diet from 20 years ago. Not sure depends on my mood and yours as well. Most likely hanging out at the Green Belt walking my dogs pushing you in the river. . . If you want a second date after that I guess you're a keeper?? Okay I was kidding about the pushing you in part. Maybe a hike or walk somewhere where we can talk. I'm not here to impress you with fancy dinners and crap like that. If you are hungry let me know I will make you some ribs or something. :)

  • Spirit

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    Another passing moon; I could be cliché about it and say that "I'm like a fine wine getting better with age", but what does maturing have to do with lack of originality. I am more like the weathered row boat in a painting by the sea. Not the artwork you'd find in a museum but one above the fireplace in the den of a loving home. I've shared secrets with the tides, soaked in the mystery of the rain and ridden the lightning through countless storm filled nights. Surely just a leaky old boat and a sunset to some but I'm strangely appreciative that not everyone gets the expressionist portrayal of my life. It makes it easy to know my real friends. I'm set in my ways but have reserved the right to change my mind. If you punch me in the face and I don't get up, don't flatter your self! I look for excuses to get some sleep. Life is too short. I play hard. I cry during sappy movies, curse at senseless rules and lie down in traffic for those that matter most. I think even nightmares are romantic if you have the right person there to shake you awake and tell you it's alright. Like I said though, I have trouble sleeping. I can make weekdays seem like weekends. I know a little about a lot because I listen. The background music is never enough for me not to turn it down for a good conversation but I don't mind singing along while I wait for those at a loss for words. I'm stimulated by complexity still I never underestimate the power of simplicity. My only baggage is carry-on, my tickets are usually one way and I rarely leave on time. I believe you absolutely can be on vacation sitting in an airport bar. I check my INBOX often... Someplace we could walk & talk

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