Wilfred, 41
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About Me
Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautifu...l. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.it baffles me, seeing 400,***people signed on at once, sifting through each other like so many grains of sand. i feel like pairing them off myself, saying here, you go with her; look, you go with him.and no, the fact that she is a little heavier than you think you deserve, or three years older, won't make a difference when she strokes your hair after your boss made you so frustrated that you could cry, if you even knew how.you, guy who refuses to truly commit, because your heart was decimated by the wrong girl - your soul will be safe with this woman with the pretty brown eyes, who will deny that she snores, but who wont ever forget your birthday, or even your mom's.you, woman whose clock is desperately ticking, you get that guy with the crooked smile, who may not have finished college, but who will change that baby's diaper in the middle of the night and not act like you owe him something in the morning, because you dont.how i would love to see the number of people on this site dwindle, as we lower our expectations of each other, and increase our expectations of ourselves. as we realize how little it matters that he looks good in a tux, because he's only going to wear one three times in his life, which is less than the number of times he will hold your hand hard while you watch someone you love being lowered into the ground. how little it matters that her body is rock solid, because it's the softness of her that you will melt into at night, when the rest of the world has been so hard all day.and when everyone is safely and mostly happily paired off (and only cursing me silently once in a while), and my work is done, i will look around and see that girl waiting for me in the corner. the one who is not exactly my age, and works too much, and can be a little stubborn. but who accepts that there are just certain words i need to hear every single day, even though she already said them yesterday and last week. and certain ways i need to be looked at, and even though shes got so many other things and people vying for her attention, she'll still look at me those ways.and we will circle each other and assess the dings that other people made and the blemishes that time has left behind, and decide that we can live with them. and we will recognize and respect and even hold reverently the fact that her shoulder needs my head on it approximately exactly as much as my head needs her shoulder under it.then she will close down our profiles, not just hide them, and pick up our emotional baggage, not minding too terribly that we are each holding a bit of each other's. That's my job to plan so let me plan it or we can plan together.
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