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hobbies, well I'll try just about anything really, and probably have. For Sept/Oct ***it seems my hobbies are maintaining/repairing my house and my vehicles which is always great as theres a well laid out plan, cup of tea, tools laid out, time for an hours job set aside..... So for the next ***months or so I will be at home, attending to all the things Ive neglected when I have been galavanting around the world on my 'holidays' these last few years (as my sister tells me).Love to travel and Im not talking about 2 weeks on a beach in spain or a weekend in Blackpool. Sitting in the warm watching rain/snow bounce off windows can be as magical as watching the sun rise over the desert.... ...well nearly ;-)I dont like to watch life passing me by, theres too much to do and experience.Im lucky enough that travel can be a big part of my job and I hate travelling alone although sometimes it makes you glad to be back! Goals and aspirations - Id love to be an astronaut but unfortunately age, the body and lack of talent might be a disadvantage, but wont stop me reaching for the sky, even if tiptoes is the closest I get.What makes me unique? Well a lot of my friends say Im unique, but usually theres a swear word in there. I think most of the time its a compliment but not always...My taste in music? Id say I like a good mix but I think after turning 40 Im turning into my dad. In most cases that would be a good thing but whilst saying to the nephews 'who is that, what are their influences' in my head my dad is saying 'thats just noise'. Ive even sung (badly) with a Juno winner whilst attempting to play a bodhran using a pizza box. (another long story).I work a lot with the arts so have a good appreciation of music, theatre, dance and live entertainment in general (include sport in that as well). Im an avid movie/filum guy and like home cinema as my neighbours will no doubt testify, with a wide range of cinema tastes.Im not really in to sitting of an evening watching soaps and all that, life is far too short, saying that Im sitting in front of a computer typing in a description on a dating site. Still, carpe diem.Whilst Im not a stranger to a suit and tie, Im more of a combats and t-shirt/fleece with trainers type of guy. And no Im not getting too old for that!I am a driven person (well have to be to be self employed this long) but I do really value my friends and my family. I do sometimes work long hours/am away from home but would you really consider what I do work? I enjoy what I do and I do it because it suits what I want to do and who I want to be, if that makes any sense.I dont do the whole gym thing, I did sign up for a gym once and I did actually go a couple of times a week but theres only so much leering at the womens spin class they will tolerate... (I tore ligaments in my ankle, so much for using the gym to keep fit). I have been known to walk the legs off people and feign paddling a kayak whilst drowning. Thought Id update this to answer a few questions *** I married? - no. Never have been.Do you have any baggage. Oh dont get me started, travel is a large part of my job and I have bags to suit every trip duration, every weather, every airline with their changing baggage allowances and... oh hold on, thats probably not the type of baggage you had in mind.Are you really the same age as your profile? Yes I am, dont let the grey hair fool you. I started going grey at 16ish which at the time was cool because I never ever got asked for id in a pub. That wore off last year in North America when standing in a supermarket behind an aul dear who was buying 8 large tins of cat food and a gallon of margarita mix I got asked if I wanted the seniors discount... I didnt know if I should be mortified or ask how much the discount was... ...my one small consolation is that its a family trait, either grey or completely bald... ...and every time my brother gives me stick about it I remind him of that, and the fact he isnt grey...I do have a job and yes it involves some travel but its mainly self assigned, I decide where to go and when and for long. It is arts and corporate related.What pets do you have? Tropical fish tank in the house and small goldfish/nature pond in the garden. Id really like a dog but couldn't really look after it with the time away. Do you like cats? Yes, but I couldnt eat a whole one. Single man with a cat? Seriously? So if you have read this far down and I havent scared you all off then, drop me a message. definitely a coffee somewhere out in public with lots of exits. Arrange for a mate to call me after 20 mins in case I need rescuing (although most times they just leave hanging there).Trying to dress like a member of the human race rather than just looking like turning up in the clothes I slept in. Trying not to talk about myself too much or on the other hand, trying to make sure I get a word in edgewise.Enjoying the whole experience

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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