• Fort Thomas
• Kentucky
• United States

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Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: woman. In age: 25-38

Hi! My name is Gary. I am divorced other caucasian man with kids from Fort Thomas, Kentucky, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

• Fort Thomas
• Kentucky
• United States

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Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

Lets kick this off with hello and sorry pictures of my abs or me shirtless wont be posted on here LOL. I had written the last update to my profile in regards to some of the situations I was faced with when it comes to online dating. It was funny, truthful, and loaded with sarcasm. I have updated this due to acceptance, not acceptance for me but everyone. Insecurities will lead some people to do what is necessary to be accepted. We chose to deceive in order to be accepted, chose to hide certain things that we see in ourselves as flaws, some of these things aren't even flaws but maybe we have had them pointed out to us in past relationships as flaws to simply cause us pain and we chose to hold onto that idea. Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission so deny them the right. Each and every time something ends something new begins, forest fires spark new fresh life. Take the new fresh dating experience as a new beginning to adventure and discovery of others and ourselves. I am.I know most of you women receive countless messages and even messages filled with invitations to fill your sexual desires. Some of these guys only know how to tell you how attractive you are and to compliment your beauty and nothing really about who you are as a person or who you are inside. I am here to tell you some of us cant tell you about your inner beauty not at least until you enter into some conversation with us. So many women I have seen on here are looking for a sweet, funny, caring, genuine, truthful, trusting, nurturing, strong, smart, successful, gentleman. I would like to ask a quick question, how is it that you will know any of that about us if you don’t enter into that conversation. Such is the adventure in dating I have found LOL. Respect is obviously given were it first received. So if we show ourselves that respect it will be easier for us to offer it to others. I know myself to be a gentleman full of respect, integrity, and truth. These qualities come to me being raised in a military home across the United States, taught as a young boy living in the south to respect women. I then continued through life and had a daughter (which has made me quite soft). Truth and integrity are simple, all you have to do to trust others is trust yourself and simply give it freely. As for integrity, well those are the choices and decision you make in the presence of self not the presence of others. Who are you when no ones looking? I struggle with men who disrespect women because I am a father to a daughter and all women are the daughters of a father out there somewhere. The one thing you can sell and never buy back is your integrity so for me this is never an option.I am only looking for one thing when it comes to a relationship and it is a simple three letter word JOY. There is no counter part for joy, there is pleasure and pain, love and hate, but there is no opposing the word joy if you truly experience it. Physical attraction is a big deal and we cant deny it. Before online dating we would see someone across the room or passing by on a street and know we had to know more about that person and that’s what drove us to approach them. Now here is the good part, inner beauty can shine so bright in someone that there outer beauty will be intensified. But there is a flip side to that just as well. You could be the most beautifully gorgeous person and have a poor attitude, arrogance, self centered, etc and it will make you become quickly unattractive. I have experienced both of these.I think now you have an understanding of how my real mind works, if you had a chance to read the funny part and are now reading this I believe you will get the sense that I am pretty well rounded. If there is anything you want to know then please ask, if there is something more I would like to know about you I will most certainly message you and ask and I hope you chose to enter into some great conversation for us both.I am physically fit and cycle ***with this in mind I am interested in someone who cares the same about their health. I don't workout to impress women or in hopes of securing more dates. I do however keep fit to make sure my kids don't leave me behind and when we do outdoor activities they aren't waiting for a dad that is to busy sitting on the couch to go. Oh yeah I have not had an antennae, satellite, or cable hooked to my television for five years. What does that mean? I don't watch sports I participate in out door activities.Here are some good quotes I really enjoy:"Who are you to judge the life I live? I know I'm not perfect and I don't live to be but before you start pointing fingers...make sure you hands are clean!""never look down on anyone unless you are helping them up""Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."Cheers to you all and enjoy your dating experience, its only what you make of it. should be relaxed and without expectation in order to get to know one another. If things feel good then you carry on from there if they don't then respectfully part company.

• Fort Thomas
• Kentucky
• United States

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Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

I'm divorced after a nearly 18 year relationship, and I've been a little gun-shy about getting back out there. I have 2 teen boys, and they stay with me in the summer. I'm starting over, and it's slow going, but I'm old enough I don't want to waste any more time on BS. I want an honest woman, who is fun, outgoing, and knows what she wants. I want someone who will speak her mind and tell it like it is, with no head games. I'm sometimes honest and blunt to a fault, but I can also be absurd, silly and unpredictable. I'm into computers, reading sci-fi/fantasy/horror, drawing, writing, video games, karaoke, and things like backroading or spontaneous road trips. I listen to a lot of different music, but I prefer rock and country. I watch a lot of movies, animation and TV. Honestly, I'm not much into rigid dating. Dinner and a movie are fine, but I also like to meet up with some basic plans, then see where the night takes us. I'm not opposed to the bar/club scene, but I prefer to hang with friends or a significant other. Even a night in with takeout and a flick can be great with the right person and atmosphere.