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Wilbur, 41

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About Me

Attraction ~ Communication ~ Chemistry ~ Best Friends ~ Love = A Life TogetherI'm 51, not 41, wasn't a mistake and not ready to retire into a rock'n chair. This has been the sweet spot on here anyways, my age group just hasn't cut it.I divorced in early ***after 22yrs of marriage with two great kids***& 25. I'm an honest guy with Polish background with a big heart. I care about people... maybe too much sometimes, love my family, enjoy outdoors more than indoors. I'm easy going and live a simple life. I don't subscribe to cable but love to watch movies, play tennis, bicycle and walk. I probably haven't taken a sick-day at work in over 15 years. Going up to the family cottage has always been special for me. I never smoked cigarettes, but I'll occasionally smoke a pipe... that's my glass of wine to relax and drift away. Quittings no problem, I'm just bored. I'm one of those friendly guys that say hi to everyone. I'm still young at heart, very dependable and solid. I love listening to music, so its always on (no rap). I don't watch sports, but if you do, so will I. If you love musicals, I'll warn you now that I'm a little behind because the last one I went to was CATs in ***:-) I'm more spiritual than religious.I'm a simple guy that doesn't need to be impressed, just be yourself. I don't like fake people. Small chest... so what, as long as they're real and stay that way. I know what I want in a woman. I don't want a piece of meat, if I did I'd go to a butcher or a bar. I'm here for a keeper. I'd like a woman who is happy with herself and not need to change her hair colour every three months. Looking for someone who is grounded and doesn't live out of a suitcase. If you can still sport a spaghetti top *** a shawl, your not to old for me. "Age doesn't matter unless you're cheese". If two people find a connection and are on the same wavelength, nothing else matters.I'm looking for someone who doesn't get hammered every weekend, has a two-ton handbag of cosmetics, wants to live life, have fun, sweet, young at heart, loves to smile and laugh, not scared to hang up a bra and go skinny dipping, has some country in her, loves the sun, loves nature, is a very caring person, has a huge heart, eats healthy, slim and loves to be active... Regular activities no sweat, I love watching and supporting.I'm allergic to cats, but they do make pills for that, & I'm staying out of east-.. the traffic - no thanks! I was born and raised in Bloor West Village, so I have always been a west-ender ;-) It would be a bonus if you lived near-by for those quick hello's.I have kept my New Years resolution and have not sent a first message out yet this year. A first time for everything. (**Update, 1 message now). If you think we are on the same level, send me a hello. If I think you are on the ball, I will send a reply. Use the Meet Me if you like, I don't get freaked out about it like some others. I figure it's an easy ice breaker. Love is blind, but I'm not, so please a photo is a must or you don't get past the firewall. ~ A picture is worth a thousand words ~Good luck eBay'ing for your perfect mate! Go through a car wash, or maybe just find a place for coffee :-) Something simple.I'm not here to be a soup kitchen for the women who look for their free meal & drinks every weekend.Well, if you wanted honesty... you got it :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Quinton

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    I seek adventure. Not so much the adrenaline fueled adventure of skydiving or bungee jumping, but more so seeing new places, meeting new people and learning new things. I like challenges. I've taken on many challenges over the years and plan to continue to challenge myself and those around me. I'm opinionated, but open minded. I like to have people challenge my assumptions. I am a flirt. I love to flirt. Harmlessly. ;-)I am driven to succeed and excel at the things I love to do. I don't like to finish second at anything. My goals and aspirations are my own, and I hold those cards close to my chest. I only reveal these to the people that have been around me for a while and I believe will be around me longer. I am willing and able to see the best in all people. I give everyone a chance. I have a real soft spot for the "underdog" in life. I will give a whino a few bucks on the street. If I were to hear someone tell that "whino" to "get a job", that someone would be picking their teeth up off the sidewalk shortly afterward. I'm sure this comes as no surprise, but I have a "short fuse" for stuff like that. I have a real hard time putting up with nonsense. Drama is nonsense. I know we all want to feel alive in this world........but drama is the worst way to go about getting this feeling of being alive. If you want to feel really alive....help someone who doesn't have what you have. That simple.I am a romantic. I really enjoy being romantic. I like to make a woman feel special and wanted. But don't mistake this for being a "pushover". There are limits to what I will put up with. I like intelligent women. Women who are aware of the world beyond. I like women who believe in social justice. You just have to be a "thinker". Someone who actually THINKS about everything. Intelligent conversation is an aphrodisiac. It's even better when the "intelligent conversation" can be turned into flirting. Or go back and forth.Finally, I am a man. By women's common definitions, we are pigs. We are shallow. We have only one thing on our minds.Yeah, that's me. I'm shallow. I want to be amazed by a woman's beauty. I want to be speechless. I want to feel extremely lucky that she has chosen me. I want sexy. Soooooooo..........if you aren't confident in who you are and what you are about and how you look.....don't message me. It'll save us both a little trouble. By the way.....confidence has a lot to do with "sexy". If you're confident about yourself, it doesn't matter if you weigh ***lbs, a stunt double for Miss Piggy, and auditioned for the "Bearded Lady" when the carnies came to town....you're sexy. Welllllll.....maybe strike that bearded lady thing.....I have limits too. There's someone for everyone, right? LOL It depends on the woman and the season as to what this might be.

  • Brent

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    Happiness is a choice – and every day I make that choice! If you’re a woman who understands that, you may be the very one I’m looking for. A successful and driven businessman, I pride myself in being a person who makes things happen! That doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate the importance of having a healthy balance between work and play. Born with the gift of gab, I’ve never met a stranger, or at least they weren’t strangers for long, so I enjoy a good conversation infused with witty banter. The first thing you’ll notice about me is that I’m a tall drink of water, and yes, I played basketball in college. I still enjoy getting the competitive juices and heart rate up on the court. I’ll also confess to being a hopeless romantic who believes in treating a woman like a lady and hope to meet a special woman who can cause me to lose my concentration at work because I’m thinking about her. She could expect flowers for no reason and simple texts to let her know she’s on my mind. The woman I’m looking for is a professional herself, knows what she wants in life and has learned how to ask for it. She understands that you get out of a relationship exactly what you put in, and respects the fact that my children are my priority. I would expect that hers would be as well. A fit and attractive woman will catch my eye right away of course, but the woman who loves me for who I am – warts and all – will have my attention for a long, long time. E-mail me – let’s talk! I won’t know you’re interested until I hear from you, and meanwhile we’re missing out on a lot of fun. I’ll keep an eye on the in-box and hope to hear from you soon! Have fun I would hope, otherwise we will both be working on our exit strategy....

  • Carrchris0Wp

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 26-42

    Hi! My name is Carrchris0Wp. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Peabody, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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