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Elweard, 43

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About Me

I am a somewha newly seperated father of two. I am Looking to find someone that I could get to know with the hopesOf builing a relationship with. I love a woman whose attractive, confident, kind and has a sense of humor. Being self employed work takes up a portion of my time. I'm looking to fill the other. I enjoy all types of music. Enjoy a night out for dinner. Walks Camping. Hanging with friends and neighbors and quiet times at home. I have two Great kids(12&7)that I enjoy spending time with and very proud of. A nice smile wins me over every time. One day hoping to fall in love again. For now a coffee and conversation is a great start. Some people are diamonds in the rough. I'm more like a shiny rock on the beach. I'm among millions but maybe I stand out from the rest for you. After being on here and out on a few dates I have come to realize that a first date is for both parties to see if the chemistry built up by a few conversations on meetville and on the phone can survive the face to face test. To see if there realy is an attraction or the possblity of romance. So much is learned during a short stroll together,. Or a nice dinner out on neutral ground. Planning the second date together when that feeling of "this could be it" comes over you both.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carey

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    Single professional, homeowner, never married, no kids. Looking for someone to go kayaking, light hiking, and day trips together. Maybe even stay home, enjoy a bottle of wine and good conversation. It's not the destination, but the journey. How about going to a local festival or wine tasting. Perhaps a brunch to see if we have chemistry together. Maybe just a happy hour at a place you would feel comfortable.

  • Brock

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    Testing theWater:) lost for words

  • Aric

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    If you could choose between 2 relationships: the first one guarantees a long life and with that comes security. Security in every sense including no divorce. Although, it is tried and true, long and steady you and your spouse will only have very little excitement day in and day out. Long life, finacial security and never worrying about divorce; theyll always be there. You come home to 'hi Hon, how was your day?' On occasion you travel and eat at a nice restaurant. The second life is life in the fast lane and full of adventure. You and the love of your life are mostly doing something new and exciting. You are going out often and having fun with each-other and friends. The two of you are hopelessly in love and count the seconds you are apart. When you come home more times than not there is something special planned for you. He treats you like you are the only girl in the world. But there is one catch; this relationship only lasts 5 years.....and ends in tragedy.I am ready to start living life after spending my years serving as a pay check and living out the first scenario. Life is too short to go on unhappy as selfish as that sounds. Marriage should be about sharing lives together not merely co-existing. Relationships take work from both; don't take each-other for granted. It will fail. After working to save something neither of us wanted, we decided it was time. I'm looking for another shot at it eventually, but I now know what I want and what I'm looking for. Better to have a short meaningful love than a long relationship that serves more as a security blanket, which feels like a long slow death.I am witty, quick on my feet and like to laugh! I am handy as I finished my basement to include the electrical and plumbing. I also laid the bamboo flooring on the main level. However, I'd just assume live on a postage stamp and use my money for going places and doing things as these make for better memories. I will stop and help someone with a flat tire and you can expect me to be in the middle of something should it go sideways in my presence. I am also not shy about pointing out all of your great features and I like someone who can be confident about those features and not let the imperfections get them down; we all have them and it is a lie to believe otherwise. Having said that, I also believe in taking care of yourself including the corns on the feet and not bitting on your nails. I am attracted to women with attractive hands, feet and hips. These three elements are where women are most eloquent. I also like to take a woman by the small of her back.I can be trained to a degree and am always up for experiencing new things and culture. I don't claim or pretend I have done it all. So show me something you like to do and I am game!Surprisingly enough I do like to shop for clothes. I think it is fun to do with someone you find to be hot. Sometimes I like to just go out and people watch while nursing some rum or vodka. I like to go to the club and get out on the floor. I drink when I go out, but not to the point of embarrasment. I am in excellent shape and enjoy weight training and sprinting for my workouts. I like hip hop (even though the artists are usually a bunch of mopes), rock such as SKILLET and TFK. I'll even listen to SOME country and 80's, 90's to current. I am a concert goer and don't believe in standing around at one. I really enjoy comedy and sci-fi. I also like COD. I enjoy the outdoors and the sun! I have a career but plan on my business helping me to transition out of it. I like the night life. I like a female who takes care of her physique, is a little bold about being hot and wears heals from time to time. I am fashionable wether its going out for the night or to Walmart. I am physical in the sense I like to embrace and touch outside of the bedroom. This is important because you never know what life will throw at you in the next minute. For the moment I am interested in getting to know you by chatting. Then if things go well....you'll need a paint brush. If you *** I don't respond it is because I am uninterested and I get too many messages to address all of them, so my apologies. Also, I have kids but don't plan on meeting them until you and I are established. Oh, and if you are bad with money don't bother. I'm NOT doing that again. Or first date would likely be drinks somewhere with a good bar. We will chat and laugh and see about maybe going out and make some noise. We won't go so far as to get arrested, but it will be close! XD .....or coffee....but if we go a second time be ready to pick up a brush as we paint the town red! XD

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