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Zophai, 44
United States, Kansas, Medicine Lodge

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About Me

I enjoy being active and not just sit at home all the time and usually open to just about any activity, I havent really found anything that I don't enjoy doing. I would like to meet a lady who wants to have a family. I dont mind if you have kids already but potential of wanting to have more is open for discussion. But it is not a deal breaker to not have kids. I'm ok either way. So don't be shy to say hello. Oh... if I add you to favorites its because I dont want to forget you and will send you a message later. just didnt have time to send an *** just didnt know what to say at the time. For the record...I'm looking for a relationship and not a hook up. I was married once before have no kids, I would want them if it works out that way. I learned a lot from my marriage and for the last ***years after being divorced have learned even more. Since I had traveled for my job the last several years I haven't had any serious relationships,(REASON FOR NOT TRAVELING ANYMORE) and want to find a nice lady to settle down with and have a great future and share those fun times together, I totally miss spending holidays and days off with someone, and would like to start my (our) own traditions for holidays and such. ANY TAKERS? Lets go have some fun and meet up for some drinks, then we can see if we hit it off. After that. if you are still interested we can plan for another. I have fun doing anything especially in good company. I am open to outdoor activities as well as indoors. I can be creative for a date so lets get to know each other and then let my creative date side come out for a great 2nd date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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