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Burt, 45
United States, Kansas, Lansing

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About Me

Fairly easy going, laid back for the most part. Intelligent and intellectual. Guess I'm pretty funny. Usually can make people laugh, and it's usually intentional. :) Sarcastic to a large degree. But a live and let live kinda guy too. I work out a few times a week. I'm not fanatical about it, and I'll never be all puffed up. But I like to stay toned up enough that I'm not too embarrassed to go to the beach. LOL I stay around 200lbs. My interests are too wide and varied to list. But I usually do very, very well at anything I set my mind on. And I think these last two sentences are what makes me unique. I've been told I'm full of surprises. I have a huge thirst for knowledge and a hunger for self growth. I like to get out and do things often. But I also value and appreciate a day or a weekend in just relaxing. Truthfully, it's not so much what you are doing, but who you are doing it with. If it's the right person, ANYTHING can be the most fun thing in the world at that time. I wanna find that person. That doesn't mean I want to go into anything with anyone expecting that right away. I hate how you have to list what you are looking for. How about this, I'm looking to meet people. I hope interesting people. Might turn into something, might not. Might make a very good friend. Might only meet someone that I see occasionally at a bar and we buy each other a beer. And might make that friend that turns into the one you get a drunk text from every nine months at 2am asking how ya been. And it's all ok. Some food somewhere. Some music. Show ya some of my favorite places or learn about yours. Just get to know a lil about each other. Rather do something where we can talk, get to know each other a lil. Even during the day. Not so much a late night, loud club.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Reggae Caribbean Italian Turkish Action Adult Thriller Ice Hockey Rodeo Shooting Sports
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