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Jacob, 45
United States, Kansas, Garnett

Offline, last seen Thu, 02 Oct 2025 18:09:11

About Me

Ugh, I am a high tech redneck type.Recently seperated and divorce pending, time to move on and live again. Trying out this site because I am WAY out of practice at the whole dating scene, hoping to have some good luck.Not ready for anything too serious, mainly looking to get out and see what its like to date again. No expectation or aims, so no worries, not a wolf out hunting. That said, I am not dead either, I tend to enjoy the um... physical side of a relationship shall we say. Not pushy, and not just a pervert, but life is way too short to live like a monk. For a bit more of an idea.. yeah, outdoor activities are something I love, just not during the middle of the summer. Once its comfortable out, horseback riding, hiking, exploring old florda places.. yeah, a little of everything.. So there is no doubt.. I am coming off a long ***year) relationship that ended.. badly.. I am finding myself again.. learning to live and be ME. If you are looking for someone to dive straight into a serious commitment, I suggest you do not look my way.. I need to find out what I want to do and to enjoy life again. I would like to share some of that enjoyment with others in a positive way.Now.. so there is no doubts or issues.. I am ENJOYING life, that means I am not looking to be exclusive and I am not looking for a life partner. I am having fun right now, I have been way too straightlaced for way too long. If someone very special comes along that may change, but that is NOT what I am actively seeking. I seem to offend people when they realize this so I want to be brutally honest about it up front. Thanks for reading! Save me from Candy Crush Saga, the dumbest game ever but I need intervention! lol I think the basics could be nice, dinner and a movie or some live music, but also would like to think a trip to the museum, a park, fishing, horseback riding etc would also be a nice time. open to most any options as long as there is an opportunity to chat and get to know each other in a comfortable setting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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