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Paxton, 43
United States, Kansas, Burlington

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About Me

If you aren't going to read my whole profile, please like kids, live music, have a career and a life and skip to the end for my note on photos before sending me a note, winking or viewing my profile every few hours to get my attention. Thanks!My two biggest passions (besides my daughter) are travel and live music. For music, I used to say I liked everything but boy bands and god has punished me with a girl who loves 1 Direction. Update: the show was great.....had I known that the girl guy ratio at boy band shows was ***:1, I would have been a HUGE New Kids fan n the 80's!!!As far as music I really enjoy, Americana/y'alternative, singer songwriter, garage/college rock, english rock, 90's alternative (really alternative not the cheesy rock that called itself alternative). I prefer to see bands in clubs or small theaters but will go to an arena for a some of the geriatric rock like KISS and The Stones. I actually ran a live music club for 4 years and managed bands during one of my life's detours during the 90's when many of the biggest bands today were still touring clubs......fun detour!!What I'm looking for is the same thing as many people. First and foremost, someone who is family oriented. I'd either like to find someone with a child or someone who wants to have a child because i don't want a house with only 1 child. Secondly, and not unimportant, someone who also wants a grown up relationship that is romantic and fun. Also important is someone who enjoys entertaining. I have a yard that I've worked on for years and it would be nice to have people over more often.So that's all for now. Hope to hear from you.Note: Just like women aren't impressed by shirtless, in front of car or bathroom photos, I'm not that impressed by professional, retouched photos that a woman had made to look candid for a dating site. Also note, this is especially true if those photos were taken closer to the 90's than today. Please have a couple of photos that are recent and show the real you. Let's be honest, relationships are built on trust and if we try to use deception to get the first date, it's never going to work.You should not message me if:-All of your photos have been professionally taken/retouched or are a decade old-you are looking for a guy to support a stay at home mom. (Have a life, career and be able to support yourself.)-I can't believe I have to say this but you think because I work in a children's hospital I can get you a job or get your kid treated for something. It's not that I wouldn't do that (esp for a kid) but that should NOT be the reason you want to date me.-if you are being deceptive in your profile in any way. This includes age, weight, education, number of kids, etc. Trust and honesty are HUGE with me, After a few dates I've learned that the first date really needs to be a meet and greet over coffee/tea or maybe a glass of wine. With that, I'll talk about the second date. In my mind, all good dates include some sort of live music. It could either be blues/jazz in a small club, a guy with a guitar at a bar or a better known artist at a small venue. City Winery and The Bell House are my favorites but there are a number of other cool places in town......it is NYC!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Irish Spanish Vietnamese History
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