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Harley, 46
United States, Kansas, Belleville

Offline, last seen Wed, 08 May 2024 02:22:39

About Me

I tried this site a couple years ago and going to give it another chance.I'm hoping to find a real man that doesn't just want a pen pal and will actually ask to meet after we exchange a few messages! I'm looking for someone that can make me laugh, humor is so important and I really miss being able to joke around and have fun with another adult! I truly believe there needs to be a spark or chemistry between us, so please don't respond if you don't have a photo posted. That is the first inkling to see if there might be chemistry (love dimples and smiles!), second will be the messages, and third would be when we meet for a drink! If you have or want cats, read no further, my daughter and I are both very allergic so we won't be a good match!I am a tall girl and my ideal mate would tower over me and make me feel short! So please be at least 5' 10"! I'm also not really into the bald thing (unless your smile and eyes are just too stunning to pass up!) or really long hair. Nothing personal, just doesn't "do it" for me. My ideal age range is 30 to 45. I've been told all my adult life that I look a lot younger than I am so dating younger is not an issue...for me.) especially with gas prices the way they are!I feel as though I am am open book. I will be honest and truthful to you and expect the same. I want to be able to share my experiences as well as listen to yours! Trust will be my biggest issue as that is where I've been hurt the most in my past. So please be truly "available", free and clear if you contact me.I have enjoyed a variety of places, jobs, countries and people and hope to enjoy more in the future with the right person!I do have 2 teenage daughters that live with me every other week and I try to devote my time strictly to them during that week. But that means I have every other week free to play and have fun! Eventually you will meet them and we will all be able to do things together but not until we have seen each other for awhile.I really would enjoy getting to know your friends and hanging out. I love to explore new places and things and although I'm not really into sports I can learn to love"your"team and have fun cheering them on with you. Just understand if I don't live and die by their schedule, wins or losses! :-)Although I'm not very good at it I would like to try living a healthier lifestyle with your support. Finding activities to do together is so much more fun than by myself. And I hope you can cook as I don't, but I can help you if you want while we drink some wine?So please leave me a message, ask me questions (just a note, if you decide to message me you must be able to carry on a conversation which means asking AND answering questions with more than a single word), and lets see where it goes! Actually at first I would like to just meet for a drink and maybe a half hour quick visit. This would determine if we had any sort of connection or spark. If yes then I would expect the man to ask for a proper first date. Expense of a date is not how I judge a good one, but planning and follow through do count for great first date impressions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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