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About Me

Cool. Be cool. Or get that way. Find your center, and engage your observing-ego. Have a sense of yourself.I am intelligent, articulate, sincere, energetic, enthusiastic, and aware. I live an American lifestyle. I am grounded, honorable, connected, appreciative. I think about who I am, what I do, how I do it. I plan, I address, I commit, I see things through, I learn, I advance, I improve. I work, live, play, cook, survive, read, watch, listen- and hear. I'm easy and I'm serious, and I will surprise and make you laugh until your sides hurt. Maybe. I've fooled around, dated, known crazy love, been within sight of marriage. Life has made it's choices for me. I am here, and that is all. I'm all about health and fitness, active and in some groups, getting strong and building bonds. I'm not going to tell you who you need to be. Find yourself in my words, feel a connection, know that we align, and say something.We'll talk about everything, and when we don't talk, we are still communicating. We'll randomly occur around one another, spinning circles within each other's space.I don't dig self-entitlement. I won't lose time entertaining dialogue about your approval. Whoop-dee-doo that you get ***e-mails a day- be thankful that you got one from me. Get your gratitude straight. BLUF: some of you ladies need to decompress. Yell at the mirror. Do a million sit-ups. So uptight, angry little blockers. Have a picture up. No exceptions. Ducky face? some strange guy's arm around you at a bar? - big zero's.It would be better if you were politically moderate to conservative, center, right, awake. I've been city for much of my life, but I've also been Country, and generally would prefer someone not exclusively resigned to city life.Have your act straight, be truthful, just, honest, mature, sincere. The good stuff that everybody is looking for is the result of both sides giving and receiving, doing their respective parts, seeking a healthy balance, and accepting the responsibility to keep it that way.Catch me at home, and we'll chat. An art exhibit; a museum; a festival; Seaworld; Metrozoo; a sunset cruise; a dance class; a lecture on something we both like; a forest hike; a mountain side. Be daring. Step out. Expose yourself a little. Lets talk a little first. Show me some solid character, with consistent honesty and mature boundaries, and then we'll plan some things together. After that? - anything, everything. Take me to dinner. ****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action against me with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee, agent, student or any personnel under your direction or control.The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, and the violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. UCC ***ALL RIGHTS

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Man. 25 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-28

    Hi! My name is Trenton. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Sullivan, Indiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Euseby

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    I am originally from upstate NY but have been here now for the past 23 years or so but who's counting. I've been on this site for awhile and have noticed that most woman or maybe most people, I should say, would rather e-mail or just text. Maybe I'm old fashion but I think that texting and things like that only help to dissociate society from each other and eventually no one will ever need to talk one on one with each other again. ( sorry just rambling there). Anyway, what I'm saying is that in order for on-line dating to actually work is that you do have to go out on dates not just e-mail or text. Anyway, I am a hard worker. I have been with my company now for almost 14 years. My schedule kind of stinks with the 4 on 4 off thing. I am a big fan of football but wouldn't consider myself a sports nut. I'm a big movie buff as well. I enjoy camping, taking drives somewhere, maybe going to the flea market or something just fun. I don't do the bar thing anymore, and don't drink hardly at all but might on special occasions. I lie to myself a lot and tell myself that I don't need someone, and maybe that's true. But I sure would like to have some kind of relationship. I'm not a creep and don't look to have sex on the first date, just looking for a good hearted woman who is looking for the same in a guy.I would like to meet a good woman. Relationships are hard work and both people need to bring their A game if they want it to go anywhere. Some days people don't get along, that happens, but it's the memories that you make along the way that get you through it, and that's the kind of relationship I want. A real relationship. Something fun, miniature golf or a walk or something crazy like lazer tag...who knows.

  • Judson

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    As I think about what to say and where to start,I know I want to avoid my head and go with my heart,I’m happy with myself and being alone is completely fine,But I’d rather be enjoying the company of a woman over a bottle of wine,Setting aside the rest of the world and giving her my undivided time,Getting to know each other on a deeper level while making her mine.I am looking for someone who still believes in romance and passion, Because with the right chemistry I'm definitely a man of action, I love wooing a girl and making her mine, Looking to make the most of our limited time, Limited time because we have responsibilities and other obligations, But focused on us when we're together and possible future destinations.I would love to find a woman that is so real, That every second she tells me how she feels, I know some guys don't like this and I think their crazy, They get what they want and then they get lazy, But I'm telling ya that's not who I am, You're a woman and I am definitely a man, I'm trying to be the best me I can, Pulling you into me and as I grab your hand, Giving you a soft sensual kiss while holding you near,Starting at your lips then working over to your neck and ear.I can’t conceal my excitement or stop grinningI can’t wait to start this beautiful beginning My pulse is racing and my heart is thumping I have to hold my legs down to keep from jumping! Getting to know someone I'm curious about without spending a bunch of money. To see if we click before either of us get too carried away. Enjoying our favorite beverages (coffee for me) and completely focused on the conversation.

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