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Graig, 42
United States, Indiana, Sullivan

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About Me

I am not the best at the whole "who am I" thing, but I figure it is worth giving it a try. It is easier to talk about my kids then myself, so...staying in my comfort zone...I have two boys ages 21 and 16 who I am very proud of. My oldest graduated from High School a few years ago, and my youngest is in high school. Both are/were active in sports and it has always been very important for me to attend as many of their activities as possible, while still allowing them to maintain some independence. They are both great kids who I can't imagine not being there for or having them around.Professionally, I am a third grade teacher in a economically diverse school. Many of my students are from good stable homes, many are not. I love them all and try to provide them with a stable environment that encourages them to take risks, make mistakes, and know that they are cared for and valued for who they are and what they can accomplish regardless of their background. I became a teacher later in life after spending 12 years working as a paralegal. I am a firm believer in the saying "if you love what you do, you will never work another day in your life". I found that in my teaching career.As far as my personal life, I am looking for someone I can talk to, trust, laugh with, and share experiences. I believe relationships are built on trust and strengthened by commitment because two people care enough about each other to always consider their partner in what they say and do. I am not perfect, I make mistakes, but I try to own my mistakes, learn from them, and not make them a second time. I think this depends entirely on the person I am having a first date with! If we have mutual interests, the setting should be somewhere we are both comfortable, can talk, and start to get to know each other. If I had to pick a "generic" date, it would probably start in a coffeehouse, from there dinner at a restaurant that is not too loud and allows us an opportunity to continue getting to know each other. I think the first stop (the coffeehouse) lends itself to a first impression, from there, if a connection exists, then dinner is a natural progression.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Metal Reading English Greek Japanese Mexican Animation Martial Arts
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